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Happiness is a state that makes people look forward to it.
Every woman longs to gain her own happiness and blessings on the long journey of life.
When I was young, I didn’t understand the suffering of life and thought that as long as I had a lot of money, I could get a lot of blessings and happiness. However, as I grew older and experienced the ups and downs, I gradually realized that blessings are not money.
Goethe said: "People's happiness lies in the happiness of the heart."
No matter what kind of background a woman has, what experiences she has. What makes a woman feel happy often comes from her family, from herself, and the nourishment she brings to her.
A woman’s blessing does not depend on how much money she has, but on the following points.
02. Happy marriage, the husband pampers her with all his heart
Hong Huang said: "The older generation is in love, but the hands have not yet been held, but the heart is already full of affection."
On the road of life, a woman's blessing lies in the harmony between husband and wife, no matter whether it is good or bad.
The family is harmonious and the marriage is happy. The husband pampers women with all his heart, which will make women feel the quiet and gentle years of life.
A good marriage will make women find a sense of belonging; while a bad marriage will make women feel like they are in hell.
A truly blessed woman knows how to manage her marriage on the one hand, and on the other hand, it is because she meets true love. No matter how life is, there is always a man who loves her deeply, protecting her and caring for her.
In life, having a man who truly loves women is the guarantee of happiness for the second half of his life.
A man can give her support and accompany her through the ups and downs of time. Although there may be quarrels between each other in life, he never stopped loving her deeply.
A man loves a woman with all his heart, and she will not be afraid no matter what she faces. Wherever you go, it is a smooth road.
03. Children have a promising future and know how to be filial to
Women have a blessing, which is that children know how to give back their love for her.
Most of the energy and time of a woman’s life are devoted to her children.
After a woman gets married, she will feel that her children are the most important "work" in her life, and she has put too much effort into it.
children, from learning to getting married and having children. As a mother, women are inseparable from each other. For the sake of the child, a woman puts all her energy and youth into her.
The mother in this world hopes that her children can have a future, start a family and start a career, live a stable life, and be filial to their parents. Seeing that the child grows well, women will have nothing else to ask for in their lives.
The gratitude and filial piety of children are the greatest blessing for women.
If the child can also understand that maternal love is deep, maybe he cannot do it as selfless as mother loves, but he is willing to give everything to warm her heart. This is a kind of good fortune for women.
Children are filial and sensible, self-reliant and self-reliant, and rely on their abilities to make a fortune in the world. Don’t worry your parents, and you will try your best to make your parents have a better life in their later years. Such children will make women feel proud and blessed from the bottom of their hearts.
04. You are healthy and have a good life
Ikeda Dasaku said: "No matter how outstanding talent and strength you have, no matter how clever your knowledge you have, once you are bedridden, your life will be gone."
A healthy body is often the best foundation for realizing your self-worth on the road of life.
A woman is not sick and has the greatest blessing.
Women must cherish their bodies and not overdraw their physical strength. Exercise properly and keep a good mood. Have a job that can make you happy, and be relaxed and not over-expend your spirit because of anything.
If, women understand that once a person loses his health, everything will be marked with a symbol of termination. Then, she will know that no matter how much money she makes, no matter how high she achieves, it is not the most important thing.
When a person is lying on a hospital bed, his freedom is limited and he has to be tortured by various pains. No matter how much beauty there is in the world, it will make you feel that happiness is difficult to obtain and you are getting farther and farther away from yourself.
In life, being able to live a healthy life is itself a kind of happiness. When a woman lives a healthy life, she can love the person she wants to love, wear beautiful clothes, and walk around a beautiful place.
Only then did I realize that the best days are not to have a house, money, or a car, but to "nothing". The best state of life is to be free from illness, disaster, and harmless.
Women know how to cherish their bodies without illness or disaster. You can do what you like happily every day and will not be tortured by illness. This is the greatest blessing for a woman.
05. Summary of
The years of love are long, live well, and manage your life well.
A woman’s blessing does not lie in having money, but in whether her marriage is happy, whether her children are filial, and whether she is healthy.
So, on the road of life, please manage your marriage with your heart and treat your lover well; educate your children with your heart so that they can learn to be independent and grateful; cherish your health and learn to treat yourself well.
In fact, blessings on the road of life also need to be achieved and created by yourself.
There are many helplessness in life, and maybe everyone will feel a little unwilling, but if you can take it lightly and let it go, you will live a more relaxed life
Life is short, don’t remember those painful things too clearly, and use a good attitude to chase the sunshine, so that you can get more blessings.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
