-01-
between men and women, sometimes, it is like two hedgehogs .
is too close to each other and they both "thorn" each other; they are too far away and they feel cold.
is very similar to the feeling of "ambiguity".
So, if a relationship is to be expanded, the first thing is that both of them must take off the hedgehog's cloak, interact, communicate, and interact with each other, so that they can have the possibility of developing their relationship.
It is even more like this process for a woman to have the person she likes.
Because most women will have a hint of reserve and shyness on weekdays. Even if she is interested in you, she will not take the initiative to confess, nor will she show that she "likes you".
But you will feel that she will allow you to enter her life and bring many changes to her. She will let you "flower everywhere" in her private field, acquiescing you to have "cross-the-line" behavior towards her and make infinite emotional "pull" with you.
Love, there is no bloody story between you, but it unfolds quietly little by little.
-02-
In "Their Life", the love process between Shen Jianan and the cold man Qin Tian is a typical example of the two people tugging again and again and again, and being calm and unhurried.
Putting aside Shen Jianan's label of the second generation of rich people, her personality is very independent and independent. Such girls are not very good at acting cute and are very real, and Qin Tian's attitude towards love is also worthy of recognition, serious and persistent.
You will feel that they can go to the end, not overnight, but two people test little by little, get along little by little, and see each other's "goodness" in contact, and in daily life, they get to know each other more and more, understand each other and understand each other more and more.
can be seen. Emotionally "pulling" seems to be an ambiguous, but in fact, it is the beginning of the relationship.
So, men, if a woman will "tug" with you in this way, she is not having an ambiguous relationship with you, but a hint that she wants to develop feelings with you.
She often wants to "be alone with you", and always talks about your worries with you
love, and most of them start with the solitude of two people.
If a woman always wants to date you alone, she is most likely trying to contact you, get to know you, get close to you, and have more interactions with you.
You will find that every time you ask her, she will solemnly promise you that even if you can’t go, she will give you a detailed explanation and do not want to cause you to misunderstand.
You will feel the charm of a woman who "feels please themselves". Every time you meet, although she will not dress up, she will definitely use some careful thoughts on the appearance, which will make your eyes shine and be moved by her.
At this time, don’t think that women are having an affair with you.
You must understand that if she hadn't had you in her heart, she wouldn't have wasted her time and energy so much.
And, there is another detail that can determine her feelings for you, that is the topic you talk about when you are together.
If a woman wants to develop with you, she will inadvertently treat you as the person she is closest to, and will always tell you about her thoughts, hoping to get your care, and hope that you can give her some comfort and encouragement.
The woman's heart is not a needle under the sea.
She will be so tugging with you, that is, your relationship has begun.
She will make her family "familiar with you" and not hide her feelings
I still remember that before a friend confirmed his relationship with his husband, he was "helping" to help out.
During that time, her father accidentally slipped while taking a shower. After spraining, he needed someone with great strength to help take care of him.
My friend is an only child, so he immediately thought of him.
And boys are also very considerate. Every day after get off work, they go to friends' houses to help, and even the elderly will go for a re-examination, and they will take the initiative to drive over to pick up the elderly to the hospital.
Later, my friend's father's feet were ready, and the two of them became "iron buddies". They often had two drinks when they were both fine and went to climb the mountain to exercise together.
His friend and he also naturally became boyfriend and girlfriend.
The two have been married for many years now. Every time they quarrel, their father-in-law will definitely talk to their son-in-law, which makes their friends laugh and cry.
can be seen that the emotional foundation between men and women is actually very important.
If a woman, she will intentionally let her parents contact you more, and let you walk into her house without shyness, and never hide her love in front of her parents. So much so, she has already made you accustomed to her future husband in her heart.
If a woman is in love, once she becomes bold, she will have more courage.
Especially when a man doesn't respond very much, she will show her initiative, hope that her family can help her, and want you to be able to do things through her family's words and words, so that you can feel her feelings.
So, if a woman will be like this, most of the time, she will be determined and sweet, because the blessings of her family are blessed.
She will have something to do and always want to get close to you. She pretends to be "weak" in front of you
Women are born to yearn for romance and want to have some plot fantasies of "heroes and beauty" with men.
Just like in a movie and TV series, there will always be such a scene: a girl, even if she can carry a bucket of pure water, can't unscrew the bottle cap of the mineral water in front of the boy she likes.
It can be seen that when a woman is moved, she will want to have more contact with you, but she is afraid that her own aggressiveness will make both of them embarrassed. And when you take the initiative to approach her, you will feel that she will never refuse you, and will even deliberately make excuses to make you more pulling.
There is a pair of colleagues around me. This is the case before they have confirmed their boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
Every time a boy comes to the office to find a girl, he almost always has some small problems that he can solve by himself, but the girl happily agrees, and the two of them communicate with each other in a rude manner. The same is true for girls. When they are not proficient in office software, they will "ask for advice" from boys. When there is a problem with the computer, they will send it to WeChat and the boy will come from his room to help.
Although the two people did not confess, a love is already "bottoming" and "brewing".
Later, for a while, a boy was quarantined at home, and he would post a dish on Moments every day, and this dish implies a confession of love.
two people also achieved the "right result" under everyone's blessing and attention.
It can be seen that the emotional pull between men and women is actually a favorable impression of the other party. All words and deeds are just a prelude to relationships.
seems to be "ambiguous", but they all pretend to be each other in their hearts, looking for opportunities, and wanting to lean closer to each other.
She will often attend dinners with you, eager to know what you think of her
A woman is moved, but sometimes she can't control her impulse.
is like, she will long to know whether a man has any ideas about him and will want to know his true heart.
So, she will also specially attend some dinners with you. Even though she knows that this dinner is boring, or she can't integrate into it at all, she will still bite the bullet and attend.
And at the dinner party, she will deliberately ask your buddy and other side information about you.
So-called, behind what seems to be a joke, most of the hidden affection is hidden.
You will feel that every time you eat, as long as you sit next to her, a happy mood will rise in her eyes; you will find that when you pick up food for her, she will look at you affectionately; when you chat with her, she will act coquettishly with you, and even tell you her daily eating habits, as if she treats you as her partner...
The emergence of love is actually in the trivialities of life, breaking through the distance and becoming more and more intimate.
When you can make dinner appointments again and again and again, you can go straight to the restaurant where you like each other again and again, the love between you has already sprouted.
So, it is actually no less than proactive confession to you when a woman is having a relationship with you.
-03-
Life is long, and the emergence of many feelings is actually in ordinary days, like cooking a pot of porridge, which not only warms the stomach, but also warms the heart.
Women want to have a lot of feelings, and their behavior towards you will be significantly different from ambiguity.
The sense of security she gives you and the affirmation that will make you deeply feel that you are loved and will also make you involuntarily devote yourself to an emotion.
She will be alone with you often, allowing you to perceive her thoughts; she will let you go to her parents and let you enter her most real life; she will approach you in various trivial details; she will go deep into your circle of friends and let your friends see her existence...
So, if a woman treats you like this, your name will probably have roots in her heart.
Love is to witness the sincerity bit by bit in the "pull" between each other.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words, the years of peace! Thanks for your attention!
