Now, the world has changed. The rule of law replaces rule of man, and individual interests are protected by law. The population is frequent, and each generation may live in different places. Work no longer depends on relationship recommendations. The living circle can be big or small, and family relationships seem to be useless!
In the past, weddings and funerals often required relatives and friends to help each other in order to proceed smoothly. In order to help someone help in their own affairs, the family relationship must be maintained and the time is long, commonly known as "branch affairs". Nowadays, it can be easily solved with money! Before
, every household had several children, and many immediate relatives. There were many side-line relatives, so that most people in the same village had some relatives. They had some relatives in
ties. It became the way to survive when encountering problems. After the founding of New China, under the background of family planning , modern families usually have 1-2 children. As time goes by, the older generation gradually fades away, and our relatives have become simpler.
The dependence on relatives has become less, and the older generation insists on visiting relatives has become a burden for young people. Due to factors such as studies and work, I see them once a few years. Many of them have become unfamiliar, and life has no intersection, and they have to spend time maintaining their relationship.
No one is concerned about the poor in the downtown city, and rich in the deep mountains have distant relatives. The fundamental thing in maintaining relationships is the value chain. Without value chains, any relationship will become heavy and become a burden.
Friends, classmates, relatives, business partners, and superior-level relationships constitute a new social relationship for contemporary young people. It is time to let go of the distant relatives of several generations!
