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The night slowly came, but the lights on the balcony of Gao’s house were on, and it had been more than ten years.
To outsiders, the Gao family’s mother and daughter’s approach is very ridiculous, but in Sister Huang’s heart, there are endless expectations.
That night, Sister Huang didn't sleep all night, and stood on the balcony repeatedly turning on and off the lights, and stood on the balcony all night. Seeing her mother's loss and her daughter kept silent, she decided to have a good talk with her mother the next day.
"After so many years, what he did is so ridiculous, you can hurry up, just divorce."
This is the eldest daughter of Sister Huang, who is persuading her mother to divorce. He is neither someone else nor her biological father.
After thirty-three years of marriage, why did the daughter say such words that made her parents feel upset? What exactly has this family experienced? Does my mother regret agreeing to the divorce?
The Sweetness of Dead
Family living in in Dazhu County, Dazhou City, Sichuan Province 1 Sister Huang and her husband have been married for 33 years.
On this day, Sister Huang, who was idle, took out the marriage certificate from many years ago, and at this moment she looked worried. Looking at the worn-out marriage certificate in front of her, Sister Huang felt extremely distressed. She hoped that her family could return to her former happy appearance.
As Sister Huang's memory appeared, her vision began to blur.
986, Sister Huang is in the age of peach and plum . Although she is born in poverty, with the decline of baby fat , Sister Huang is becoming more and more beautiful, becoming one of the best beauty in the local area.
Beautiful appearance has attracted many suitors to Sister Huang, but Sister Huang has never chosen a good son-in-law who can satisfy her.
As she grows older, girls of the same age as Sister Huang have become married as wives. Sister Huang has become the object of marriage urging her parents, but Sister Huang doesn't agree with it. She always wants to find someone who matches her own .
With the expectations of his parents and the waiting of Sister Huang, this day soon came. Under the introduction of the matchmaker, Sister Huang met a man surnamed Gao. In Sister Huang's eyes, Brother Gao is upright and has a strong appearance. The key is to take good care of himself.
After a while, Sister Huang and Brother Gao became enviable couples. Over time, Brother Gao's carefulness dismantled all the concerns in Sister Huang's heart bit by bit. Over time, Brother Gao's every move could touch Sister Huang's heartstrings.
Time passes minute by minute, 989, Sister Huang and Brother Gao ended this three-year love run and officially entered the palace of marriage.
This day, the guests and friends were full of guests. Amid the blessings of relatives and friends, the two became husband and wife, and Sister Huang also changed from a Huang family daughter to a Gao family wife.
After marriage, the couple opened a small teahouse in Dazhu County . Life was so happy, and soon Sister Huang became pregnant with the crystallization of their love.
Although ten months of pregnancy is very hard, Sister Huang thinks she is very happy because her husband never lets her do heavy work, and finally they welcomed their first daughter.
With the birth of my daughter, this small family has also ushered in one difficulty after another. In the eyes of the Gao family, the son is the most important thing, and the daughter is just a child raised for others' homes.
It is precisely because of such backward thinking that Sister Huang and her daughter have always lived carefully in the Gao family.
It is worth mentioning that my husband still loves me as usual.
In 2005, Sister Huang got pregnant again . This time, this little family welcomed a little princess again. Outside the delivery room, after learning that Sister Huang gave birth to a daughter, the Gao family's face was very exciting.
First of all, after learning about it, the in-laws immediately showed a disgusting expression. Although the tall brother next to him was happy, he quickly returned to his calm.
The arrival of her younger daughter has exposed her idea of favoring boys over girls. Faced with the changes in her family, Sister Huang's eldest daughter has always seen it and kept it in her heart.
Time passed by minute by minute, and the two daughters grew up gradually, and their lives were getting better and better.
Family life under the mask
In 2010, Brother Gao proposed to go out to explore other places to improve the life of the small family. After hearing her husband's request, Sister Huang immediately expressed her support without thinking.
Little did I know that my encouragement and support for my husband have resulted in my years of loneliness and loneliness.
"Dongdongdongdong", a knock on the door broke Sister Huang's thoughts. Sister Huang wiped away the tears from the corners of her eyes, changed into a smile, hurried to the door and opened the door.
After seeing that his daughter was standing in front of the door, Sister Huang collapsed back on the sofa like a deflated ball.
Looking at the mother with red eyes in front of her, the eldest daughter knew that her mother was thinking about that bad thing again. Others' families were all mothers who hated her daughter, but the Gao family was the daughter who hated her mother.
"You are divorced directly. It's been so many years since he said sorry to you?"
In the quarrel between his eldest daughter and Sister Huang, the matter that weighed on Sister Huang's heart finally became clear.
It turns out that The husband Gao brother has not returned to this home for more than ten years. Even if he comes back normally, the couple is still in harmony.
On the surface, this little family has always been happy, but in fact it has long been broken.
After many years, Brother Gao returned home. This time, Brother Gao made time to go home because he wanted to divorce his wife who had been with him for many years.
Divorce? This behavior, which seems very hurtful to outsiders, has long been a fact in the eyes of their two daughters, but from a legal perspective, Brother Gao and Sister Huang are still husband and wife.
Now the eldest daughter is married as a wife, and the younger daughter is already an adult. Seeing that the two are about to live a happy life, why did Brother Gao file for divorce?
Brother Gao said that the reason why he divorced his wife was because was tired of this couple's life , and was tired of his wife's endless accusations and abuses to him . Brother Gao thought that the relationship between him and Sister Gao had long broken, and divorce was only a matter of time.
These are just Brother Gao’s own statements. What kind of remarks will Sister Huang and his daughter have?
When I learned about Brother Gao’s remarks, Sister Huang wanted to speak but was snatched by her eldest daughter: "He just has a son outside and wants to divorce my mother."
Why does a good divorce involve a child? Could it be that Brother Gao cheated on him and had a child outside?
Direct cause of marriage change
It turns out that Brother Gao has an illegitimate child outside and has two families at the same time. What is even more unexpected is that Sister Huang knows this.
What's going on? The matter starts with Brother Gao contracting a project outside in 2010.
In 2010, Gao Lao Ge revealed his idea to his wife, Sister Huang, that he wanted to do something big. In Sister Huang's eyes, what Gao Lao Ge said was like an imperial edict, and his every word, action, can affect Sister Huang's life.
On the other hand, Brother Gao doesn't think so. The reason why he proposed to stay away from his family and go out to contract projects was because he had enough of his wife's complaints day and night.
In the eyes of Brother Gao, Sister Huang is a ruthless woman. She not only has to stare at herself at all times, but also verbally attack herself whenever she disagrees.
Brother Gao has been fed up with such a life. Seeing other people's wife being gentle and considerate, his wife cursing at him all day long. He began to want to escape from this family and escape from Sister Huang's eyes.
After coming to the construction site, although life was depressed and he had to do different things every day, Brother Gao felt very comfortable in his heart, because his ears finally disappeared from Sister Huang's voice.
As time goes by, the construction site contracted by Brother Gao is getting bigger and bigger, and social engagements are also increasing. He begins to swear his wife, Sister Huang, for various reasons.
In Sister Huang's eyes, her husband has always been socializing outside. Because Brother Gao was still as usual when he returned home, Sister Huang did not think much about it, but instead dreamed of becoming a rich wife one day.
It was not until one day that a friend hurriedly told Sister Huang that her husband had cheated on her that the dream of this rich wife came to an end.
The persistent sister Huang
Seeing that his wife discovered his ugly behavior, Gao Lao Ge confessed the fact that he cheated on and filed for divorce. But how could Sister Huang, who was full of brother Gao, agree to the other party's request so easily?
She rejected the other party's request, and At this time, Sister Huang realized how absurd her trust in her husband over the years was.
After the incident was revealed, Gao Da Ge even implemented his shameful behavior of irresponsible and irresponsible to the end. He not only refused to communicate with Sister Huang, but even moved directly to his new lover Xiao Wu's home.
The matter was exposed, and Brother Gao also revealed his true face. His repeated requests for divorce were rejected by Sister Huang. Sister Huang's refusal to divorce made Brother Gao feel very embarrassed and was also criticized by his two daughters.
In the memory of my daughter, my father has always been an optional existence . From the beginning of my memory, everything in my sisters' lives is taken care of by my mother, Sister Huang.
Since the birth of my sister, my sister has naturally taken over the burden of taking care of her sister. Now, the matter between Sister Huang and Brother Gao is well known, and it has caused a lot of harm to the two sisters invisibly.
htmlFor more than 0 years, , Brother Gao has never received a penny from home, and all the expenses in the home are borne by Sister Huang.As she watched her younger brother's family reach this point, Gao's sister also came to persuade her to get to , but no matter what, Huang refused to divorce Gao's bride.
In the eyes of Gao Lao Sister, she saw all the sufferings her sister-in-law suffered, but Since the other party’s heart is no longer in this family, what’s the use of force to leave an empty shell?
In the face of the advice of her sister and daughter, Sister Huang is still unwilling to let go of this marriage. She said that as long as Brother Gao can be better to her two daughters, she is not so boyish than girls, and she suffers a little grievance at all.
Eventually, Sister Huang is still unwilling to let Brother Gao leave. Perhaps deep in Sister Huang's heart, they are still stuck in what they were more than 30 years ago. No matter how things develop, Sister Huang will still leave a lamp for Brother Gao every night.
Conclusion:
Marriage is sacred and pure, and cheating in marriage is undoubtedly a blasphemy to marriage.
If there is no emotional foundation between the two, why can't they be open and honest and tell their inner emotions?
After reading Sister Huang’s fragmented family , what do you think?
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