(I)
I chose to marry naked when I was 20 years old. No matter how embarrassed my life was, I never regretted it...
I love my husband, and my husband loves me very much. We are in love freely. No matter how my stepfather opposed it at that time, I married him without hesitation...
My husband is a sincere person, without sweet words, and I can only treat me with sincerity. My heart is more real, and I will not speak frankly. , round the bush, one "rhythmia", so the two of them got together without regrets...
(II)
The husband and brothers are three, one sister, the elder sister is the eldest, the husband has an older brother and a younger brother underneath. Because the younger sister-in-law is pregnant before marriage, she has to get married first. Helplessly, the husband gave the new house built by his parents to his younger brother (the brother was also a new house when he got married). When the villagers said that the third brother got married, the eldest sister-in-law and her mother scolded the whole village, saying that her parents-in-law were partial. As the saying goes, "History 4 and everything goes well ." Maybe my sister-in-law will never understand this truth! I was married naked (my sister-in-law didn't make a fuss at that time), and my parents-in-law didn't build a new house for us. When we got married, we had four adobe walls and old tile houses. They lived in newly built brick and tile houses. I have never thought about this before. I thought to myself: As long as I have hard-working hands, I believe I will be happy in the future!
After marriage, my husband and I did not bow to life no matter how difficult it was...
After living with our in-laws for three months, my in-laws separated us. At that time, I remembered it very clearly, so I divided a few bags of wheat, some old home furnishings, a few roulettes of cigarettes, and a piece of bean fields, and no penny... From then on, my husband and I started a separate life in a small family, but life was like food, rice, oil and salt. The first time the house was out of oil, I asked my husband to buy oil, I thought my in-laws would fund us, "I thought too much, how could it be possible?" At that time, I advised myself that a little difficulty in front of me was nothing, it didn't matter, as long as I worked hard, it would be better! Later, my husband borrowed ten yuan and bought oil... Not long after, I became pregnant and had severe morning sickness. My husband felt sorry for me and refused to let me do the farm work. He was doing the farm work in the fields alone. Later, our tobacco leaves and were sold for money, and the beans were collected and sold for money. At that time, it was only a little income. I remember it was autumn. My parents-in-law saw that I was pregnant and gave us a thousand yuan (maybe their family really had no money when they got married!), and made a few new quilts for me. After getting money, my husband carefully decorated the poor home, installed a ceiling, and bought a few more homes. The home looked like a home, warm and friendly...
(III)
planted after autumn harvest Mai, my husband went out to make money. At that time, I was working in construction. I had problems at home because of inexperience. I accidentally couldn’t save my child and had a miscarriage... After the miscarriage, I went to Guangdong and started working...
for a few years and worked in the shoe factory for several years. I stepped on the -stitch car . In the past 99 years, my salary was not high, and my monthly salary was only 600 or 700 yuan, which was good. I had to rely on more than acres of land at home (I had no land at the time) to care about food and clothing. I had some savings in my hand, and my husband discussed with me: "Let's have a child!" Later, I had a son. Before my son was three years old, my husband and I were inseparable from accompanying my son. After my son was three years old, my husband and I went south to work again. My son became a left-behind child and lived with his grandmother (the third son was also at the mother-in-law's house at that time). Every year, my husband and I sent living expenses to my son. The land at home was planted by my husband and elder brother. We gave us 400 kilograms of wheat acre, and gave our son a meal to our mother-in-law, so that our son could have food. But my husband and sister-in-law often got angry with my mother-in-law and said that she didn't help her take care of the child. My mother-in-law said at the time: "You have to go out to work, I will help you take care of it."Actually, my mother-in-law has helped her a lot. When she went to work in the fields, she would throw the child to her mother-in-law at home. I don't know this, why are you still making trouble? My husband and sister-in-law always say that her in-laws are partial and suspicious, which leads to her often quarrels with her mother-in-law. After her mother-in-law had a stroke, she treated her mother-in-law, but she didn't take a penny. The mother-in-law also said that she gave her a few hundred yuan to her at that time. Later, she didn't spend it, and the elder brother didn't pay it back to her. The mother-in-law's money for medical treatment was the money that my husband and the third brother had. After the stroke, the mother-in-law was always taken care of by her father-in-law, but now her father-in-law is old and can't take care of her anymore. We need to exchange money for the elderly. One year, the elder brother didn't pay it, but the two elders felt uncomfortable and said it, but what else could they do? The couple always felt that I am sorry to them. In fact, the one who deserves the most is the eldest. The second brother has no house to build when he gets married, and the third brother has a house. The second elder has a house. The second elder has a house. The second elder has a account.
My parents-in-law is over 80 years old this year, and my health is getting worse day by day. Originally living in someone else's old house, these three brothers discussed building a room with money. The land was bought by my husband and I, for 4,000 yuan. But the eldest daughter-in-law kept saying that her parents-in-law is rich and kept calculating her parents-in-law's money. It's so sad! She is over 80 years old, both of them are sick and take medicine all year round. Where do the two elderly people get the money? I haven't seen her parents-in-law for a year. Usually, the second elders are either the second elders or the third elders are in charge. Sometimes the sisters are in charge. I want to say, "How do you become the eldest brother and sister-in-law? How do you become your son and daughter-in-law? Where is your conscience? "Look, the old man is planting the land. It's almost planting wheat this year and I haven't rented the land to the second elders. My father-in-law was angry and couldn't eat the food these days. The third brother called the boss, but he hasn't seen the boss send money to the second elders...
(IV)
" filial piety is the first ". I wonder if the brother and sister-in-law have these words in their hearts? " The old has a support, and the old has a support ", but where are you when the two elders need you? Have you considered when you are old in the future, and your children don't care about it at that time, will you be very useless? Help? Think from the perspective of others! You have the day of old age.
These days, my father-in-law can't eat it. I feel so pitiful. Because I am closer to my house, I do different things to give it to the two elders. I hope my father-in-law is not seriously ill! Who has no elderly people? Who has no parents? Why are you still petty when the elderly need our care? Make it difficult for the elderly to spend their old age? Not to mention small matters, treat the elderly and pay for the elderly, do you want to take the money you need to pay for? You in front of the screen, can you tell me what should we do about the behavior of my husband, brother and sister-in-law?
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