Hello everyone, I am Ajie.
Today we have a big topic. When we are alive, we should consider what we are?
Food is the most important thing for people. We have experienced a long evolution. DNA comes with its own needs, and its nature is similar to animals.
All kinds of desires fill our lives. This is a natural indiscriminate.
So we must respect nature and respect these desires themselves.
Nowadays, all kinds of experts will encourage you to be a senior person, which is difficult. The idea of preserving the laws of heaven and destroying human desires is itself unobjective. It is also difficult to cut off all human instincts and become a person who is completely free from the low-level interests.
The soft concept encourages you to follow the laws of nature and be as good as your nature, and be free. But there is another problem. humans evolved from and have long been separated from ordinary animals.
Therefore, human instincts should not be suppressed, and human natural needs should be respected.
We must take into account both personal struggles and respect the historical process.
Young and young, young and young, feel that personal struggle is invincible, and when old age suffers, the historical process is incomparable. These are all extremes, don’t go to extremes, too much is worse than too much.
The same is true for being a human being.
is like when the machine is used for a long time, it is time to apply oil and maintain it. Men and women who pursue diet are their own means of happiness, and not necessarily the purpose of life.
Think from another perspective, when you are hungry, you want to eat barbecue. It is very painful at this time, but if you realize that this need is an instinctive need brought by DNA, you can think about it more objectively. The pain is still painful, but it seems not that fatal. Life is not just for barbecue.
Pain and troubles are inevitable, and there is no need to deliberately avoid them.
But there are injustices and debts. After understanding the source of pain and troubles, people can handle pain better and avoid being too controlled by pain and troubles.
Most of our body pain points are the body notifying the brain that we have a crisis.
Most psychological troubles are hallucinations after inner self-protection. You feel that you are extremely important and that you have a self-esteem need; or you feel that you are extremely unimportant and that you avoid hurting your self-esteem.
Two kinds of heartbeats are likely to cause other worries.
people, not that great. After reading too many science fiction novels, I must feel that looking up at the stars, humans are very small. But you can’t project yourself on another bigger thing because of your insignificance and seek a sense of security. You are still you, and it has not become more amazing.
The Buddha said that let go of selflessness, which means that you should not be too arrogant and do not be too careless of yourself. You are yourself.
just accept the facts. Our body has its own lag problems in the DNA of our body.
is like most things in the world are not perfect. Just accept it. With this mentality, you can become a human being.
As a human being, it is nothing more than seeking happiness and eliminating suffering. , a lot of suffering comes from restrictions and fantasy. A lot of fun is to do what you like.
After thinking clearly, don’t give yourself too many restrictions on doing what you like, and satisfying material things. It is great to have cultural needs and be able to socialize to satisfy others.
Don’t think too much about your feelings, and don’t think too much about your feelings. In the final analysis, don’t think too much about yourself.
1960 During the difficult period, some people were picking up feces with several locals in the area of Zhangjiakou in . I usually eat , buckwheat noodles, . When I was free, I chatted on the kang and read the poems of Du Fu . They only eat buckwheat noodles, so they brag about the fact that there are countless mutton on the dam and leeks making mountains. It's so good.
One of the young men was very worried because they were going to get married, and his girlfriend gave him a pen, but he couldn't afford it; he raised some money with the other old men to solve the problem. The young man was very happy, but he also felt a little moved, "Why do we all make so much money, but I don't have it?" Everyone had nothing to say.
At night, the sheep came down from the dam and drove away the sheep, covered in wind and snow. They said they also ate buckwheat noodles all day long, so it would be great if they wanted a steamed bun. It is said that sheep are driven down to celebrate the New Year and that people under the dam can eat meat.
The old people around him were very moved at that time. The young man said, “They worked so hard…we worked so hard too."
So a veteran said, "Chinese people are very hardworking! "
This is a passage from the novel of Mr. Wang Zengqi.
Don't read too much, nor do you think too much, you will see other worries.
Just think about yourself, the worries will not be finished; since the worries cannot be finished, don't rush to escape from worries.
You should know Fan Zhongyan says that when you were young, you were tired of being old and haggard, only some children in the middle, and you will be willing to tie your fame?
Li Zongsheng Only after singing the hills did you know that no one was waiting. Wong Kar-wai said early: After passing this desert, it is another desert.
You see, after all, it is the same meaning: as long as you are still alive for one day, the road ahead will be vast and the worries will not be eliminated; struggling too much is also seeking troubles, so let's live naturally like this. Although personal struggles must be done, you must also adapt to the course of history. Don't take yourself too important or too unimportant, accept that you and the world are not perfect, you will not be blinded, you will see many principles in the world, know your desires, and then live.
Assuming that I think I'm too mysterious, I provide a very humble way of operating theories. From time to time, treat yourself as a game NPC, and then imagine: convert yourself from the first perspective of to the third perspective, that is, imagine that you are looking down at your body from above. Don't have any critical mentality, just face up to what you do, and look at yourself like another person scrutinize yourself. Just stick to this mood and observe yourself with a bystander mentality.
If you are not skilled, install a camera in the room and take pictures of yourself for two hours. What you do. If you look at yourself like this, it is easy to find that you have done so many stupid things without realizing it! Most of the stupid things you do and most of the bends come from "taking your temporary feelings too seriously."
habits can filter out many troubles that are too self-consciously. A day and night, you can accept an unfulfilled self and an equally unfulfilled world. This is how people are. Take it easy and don't take yourself too seriously, and you will naturally go on without thinking.
encourage each other.
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