Recently, a best friend Xiaoxia, who has been married for 6 years, said:
"I will tell you the truth. There is no so-called perfect marriage in this world, and there are no two people who are completely suitable. If you want to live comfortably, you must learn to control your marriage. "
Now she looks very confident and confident, in marriage. She was at ease, but in the past two years she almost lived a "resentful woman":
- Her husband was addicted to the game world for several hours after work. She said that she was often so angry that she gritted her teeth;
- Every time she asked him to do housework or mop the floor, she either pretended to be inaudible, or she didn't move her body for a long time, and finally got started by herself;
- How did I like this man at the beginning? Overall, I don’t know what I’m busy with, I don’t save much money, and I don’t care about my children’s studies...
They were very sweet at the beginning, but after entering the marriage, they gradually saw the other person’s “true face”. When they couldn’t accept it, they became troubles and resentment.
But in fact, we all know that complaining will only bring negative energy to the family and will not solve any problems.
If you believe that you have chosen the right man, Then whether a marriage is happy depends largely on yourself.
A wise woman will not passively be wronged or sulky, but will know how to actively learn marriage management skills.
Do you know how Xiaoxia changed?
actually started from her actively learning about gender relations.
In the process of learning, she gradually changed her concepts and gained a new understanding of marriage:
- Take on all the housework herself, take care of her family hard, and you may not necessarily get the love she wants;
- Sometimes a fight can enhance your feelings more than holding your emotions in your heart. What do you think must let the other party know that
- love yourself must be put first. Instead of worrying about whether a man is good to you, it is better to find your own interests and value;
- ...
After understanding these principles, she will find opportunities to practice in life.
- She will use showing weakness to stimulate her husband's desire to protect herself, choose the right time, give way to her husband the task of cooking, doing housework, and accompanying her children;
- She knows more about loving herself, managing her figure and appearance, and does not give up on her own study and growth, and is more confident and confident;
She says that no matter how loving a couple is, there are times when they are bumpy. Only when both parties have their own hobbies and careers, they are independent and support each other, can they move forward easily and happily.
Everyone in this world should control their own life. When you always give the decision to others, you will easily be disappointed and angry.
The same is true for marriage. Only those who understand the nature of marriage are more likely to be nourished from it.
Many people have worked hard for more than 10 years to get into college, but they ignore learning when it comes to marriage, which leads to many detours.
No one will learn without a teacher. You need to put in time and energy and have good teacher guidance to understand it.
Jin Ying is an marriage and emotions expert . She is a Ph.D. in psychology, often serves as a guest on major TV media, has hundreds of thousands of fans across the network, has participated in the publication of 8 psychology books, and has accumulated many cases.
It can be said that she has rich theoretical and practical experience.
What made her feel very sorry is: In fact, many suspicions or quarrels between couples and couples can be handled in a better way.
In order to help more people understand the essence of intimate relationships, eat less of the pain of feelings, and regain love and nourishment, Zhang Defen Space specially invited Teacher Jin Ying to offer courses "Be a high-level woman together, say goodbye to grievances | Jin Ying's 10 high-level woman advance and retreat skills" .
In fact, the answers to the marriage relationship dilemma that many people think can be found in these 10 classes.
Compared with men, women are born with keen insight and perception of emotions and emotions. As long as they are willing to learn and grow, every woman has the ability to resolve contradictions in relationships and dominate their happy life.
Marriage expert Dr. Jin Ying once called on all female compatriots: To be a high-level woman who dares to love and hate, is not afraid of change, is not afraid of loss, and is brave to grow up, say goodbye to love and grievances!
Dr. Jin Ying is not just talking, but it comes from years of research and observation experience on intimate relationship topics.
She found that many women have more confidence and courage when interviewing her, but when they go back to face their husbands, they become angry and young daughter-in-law.
Only when women themselves have the ability and courage can they not suffer in relationships and be able to manage a good marriage.
If you want to become a high-level woman, you need to master practical methodology. Marriage also requires "routines", which requires you to come out of your previous model and implement it to change your behavior.
"Be a high-level woman together, say goodbye to grievances | Jin Ying's 10 high-level woman advance and retreat skills" is a tool for managing relationships. Teacher Jin Ying will be by your side. tells you what is the correct way to get along with each other and tells you the answer when you don't know how to do it.
10 major marriage problems, 10 solutions . Now only 199 yuan , , , Teacher Jin Ying is accompanying you in warm heart, and teaches you step by step to open up new possibilities of happiness.
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In the course, you will be able to -
1. Explore human nature and understand the essence of love and marriage
Many women are wronged in intimate relationships because they do not understand the nature of men and have many misunderstandings about the nature of love and marriage.
Teacher Jin Ying once said that Chinese men use the "brain" to fall in love, They will use their brains to weigh the pros and cons to fall in love, who is suitable for getting married, who is suitable for falling in love, and who can help my career...
In short, they will not be as emotional as women and know how to follow their hearts to choose their lovers.
In addition, Teacher Jin Ying will also take you to understand the essence of love and marriage. What aspects should you pay attention to when you are in love and do what you should do when you are getting married.
2. The ideal of balancing love and the reality of marriage
If love is an ideal, then marriage is a reality.
Good intimate relationships must not only be ideals or reality.
Teacher Jin Ying will teach you how to balance the relationship between the two through a large number of examples, combining psychological theories and your own perceptions, including problems that you and your partner will not face, such as property issues, housework issues, husband and wife mood, etc.
33. Get the initiative and become a high-level woman
A wise and capable woman can always hold the initiative firmly in her own hands.
understands both yourself and the other person. He takes the right measure in marriage. He will not give up on himself because of his family, nor will he blindly give in and compromise and lose his bottom line.
Men need women to teach them how to love, and don’t wait for the other person to love you.
Teacher Jin Ying’s course will teach you how to discover the points in love and marriage, so that you can take the dominance of your relationship.
If you want to explore the mystery of gender relationship, want to improve the quality of intimate relationships, and want to fully feel love and be loved, Then Teacher Jin Ying officially invites you to study courses to be a high-level woman, say goodbye to grievances丨Teacher Jin Ying’s 10 high-level woman skills .
You will find that love and marriage do not have to be wronged. Living a little more relaxed and free will lead to becoming the leader of happiness.
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Jin Ying's 10 high-level woman advance and retreat
Insight into love and marriage The essence of marriage, explore the wisdom of sexual intercourse
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