Men and women in love
First, a man who has always gotten along well, suddenly he is picking at you. Last year, the matchmaker introduced a partner to Xiaoli in our village. The two of them thought it was okay for the first time, so they started dating. Over the past year, the relationship between the two has been relatively stable, but this month, this man has suddenly been dissatisfied with her and that is not satisfied. Xiaoli said that the taste was light and washed her clothes. She thought she was not clean. Even when the two of them talked, she disliked her voice too high.
In short, she was picky about all her actions, and all Xiaoli's behavior could not satisfy him. Xiaoli was puzzled and couldn't understand it. Until one day, on the way home from get off work, Xiaoli saw the man holding another girl shopping. All of Xiaoli's doubts were solved. It turned out that there was someone outside this man. It was not that he was not doing well enough, but that he had found something better.
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Second, don’t tell your current employee both your experiences and your ex. While watching videos in the past two days, I saw this news about a newlywed couple. On the second day of their marriage, the groom's husband took out his first love letter and showed off his wife. Then the wife watched it all night and the man knelt all night. Have you seen it or not? This is the result you want. It can be said that the punishment this husband received is still light.
There are also women who like to tell the current person the harm they suffered from their ex. The current person may comfort you at that time, but you don’t know whether he feels disgusted. Another possibility is that what you said in the future will become a key point for current attacks on you. So, no matter which result, you'd better not tell your current experiences.
Don't tell your previous experience to the current
Third, a man is a wife who is a high-seller, and he will feel a little inferior. So, in families with high women and low men, it is best for women not to stimulate your partner. There has been a saying that marriage has been a good match since ancient times. The conditions of a woman's original family are much better than his. He cannot let go of his inferiority complex, and he may find various reasons to hit your confidence.
This kind of man always needs to find an outlet for the inferiority engraved in his bones. Therefore, when a woman talks to him condescendingly in front of him, or has a great sense of superiority in front of him, he may blow your confidence in your words and actions, because he knows that he is not worthy of you, so he increases his personal sense of accomplishment by hitting you and eroding your confidence.
Men with inferiority
Fourth, if a man makes a mistake, a woman must take considerable punishment measures, otherwise, your easy forgiveness will only make him worse. A colleague of our company, Chen Fangfang, has been married to her husband for ten years and has a son and a daughter. The two are very loving. Colleagues in the company praised her for marrying a good husband, but his good husband still cheated on him. Facing her children, she became soft-hearted, and her husband apologized and slapped herself in the face, and repeatedly promised that she would make a change.
Fangfang finally gave up the divorce and chose to forgive, but the relationship between the two can never return to the past. In 2015, Wang Qian, the daughter of Fangfang's eldest sister, boarded Fangfang's house because she was in high school in the city. She stayed there for three years. It’s really hard to even write such a version of the TV series, and it happened to Fangfang again. One day, Fangfang was feeling uncomfortable and went home early and found that the door could not be opened. However, there was obvious movement inside. Fangfang suddenly felt something was wrong and knocked on the door desperately. Her husband and her disheveled niece finally opened the door. At this moment, Fangfang finally collapsed.
Man makes mistakes, and cannot easily forgive
Why do men dare to make mistakes again and again? It is because when he made a mistake for the first time, you easily forgive him, and he has no losses and no punishment. Your Mr. Dongguo's behavior as a good man provides him with an opportunity to make a mistake next time, and only then will he suffer greater harm.
Fifth, when a girl is dating, a man who is reluctant to spend money on you must stay away from him. This is very important because women with love brain are often confused by men's sweet words, but she herself does not know it. A man is reluctant to spend money on you. There are only two situations: one is that he really has no money, and the other is that you are not worthy of his spending money on you. A woman with a love brain must think seriously. Will your behavior of paying for a free lunch? Who is willing to spend money on women who can deceive you with sweet words?
Men who don’t spend any money on you should stop chasing
Women, do you remember? The above five points will never be told to you in your life, so have you ever experienced such a man?
