Author: Five-layer
I have always believed that the bride needs a bride, which is not necessarily a bad thing for both the man and the woman. Of course, the sky asking price should definitely be banned. However, sometimes the bride price can really help you see the family clearly.
is like my friend Xiaoyu’s recent experience.
If you want to tell his story, you have to start two months ago. At that time, Xiaoyu's family suddenly received a great news. The private house in their city village is finally about to be demolished.
Because the area is not too large, Xiaoyu's family only received five million yuan in demolition. Although they think it's quite small, in the eyes of others, it's already a huge sum of money. The good news of
makes Xiaoyu's family, who are already preparing to get married next year, feel even more happy. Their girlfriend, who was happy, suddenly contacted Xiaoyu and asked him to come out.
Xiaoyu thought his girlfriend missed him, but as soon as the person arrived, his girlfriend told him directly: Our family now thinks that the dowry is too small, can you add some?
Ha? But the bride price was not negotiated early, and the money was also given. Now it has changed again, how do you tell me to tell my parents? Xiaoyu immediately refuted.
but my girlfriend replied: What's the point of saying this? I know your family has just been demolished and now you have a lot of money. You clearly know that we thought your family was in trouble, so we only had 100,000 yuan. Look at me so considerate about you. Your family is rich now, so why can't you express your feelings? If you let the people around you know that I was married, you only gave 100,000 yuan. What would they say? Have money in your pocket but stingy? It's uncomfortable to think about it.
Looking at his girlfriend's frowning, Xiaoyu didn't know what to say at once. If you agree! I'm afraid my parents will be unhappy. If you don't agree! I was afraid of hurting my girlfriend's heart. Because the 100,000 yuan bride price cannot be said to be too much, but this money was already the limit they could give at that time.
Seeing Xiaoyu hesitating, his girlfriend talked about the hardships he had suffered with him. He also complained: I didn’t enter the door, and you didn’t agree to the request. After entering the door, who knows if he will treat me well.
When it comes to this, Xiaoyu had to soften his attitude. He asked his girlfriend: How much do you want to add?
If you don’t want to, your girlfriend will ask for one million! Moreover, if the money is not brought back to their small home, it is just regarded as her daughter, and the retirement money left to her parents!
What? Xiaoyu couldn't calm down now. He never expected that his girlfriend would make such a greedy request. People's price increases by 50,000 or 100,000. She is fine, she just wants one million? Is it still necessary to build a future with him and a woman from the same family? Have she considered her own family in the future! The key is, what will her parents think of her? Can she still live a peaceful life?
Xiaoyu rejected his girlfriend without much consideration and asked her to be more practical and not to say anything that could not be achieved.
Can my girlfriend? I insist that Xiaoyu's family is rich, and if you love me, you will give me one million! What is this little money? We can make money after we get married!
Haha! After hearing his girlfriend's brainless speech, Xiaoyu wanted to laugh. If you love you, you will give you one million. Then, if you love me, why don’t you give me one million? Don’t think of using love to morally kidnap . Moreover, the demolition payment belongs to my parents. Does it have anything to do with our marriage? Why do you want to give it to your family? Do you think I'm crazy?
At that time, Xiaoyu pondered for a moment, ignored his girlfriend's crying, and turned his head and went home. Later, when they contacted each other again, Xiaoyu thought his girlfriend would be calm and sober. As a result, my girlfriend still insisted on her own requirements. She may think that the marriage between the two has been decided and there will be no variables. Xiaoyu loves her so much, he will definitely follow him.
But what she didn't know was that as long as she was a rational man, she would not agree with her point of view. Especially, Xiaoyu has money now, and he can't find any beauty, so he insists on pulling her onion.
Not long after, Xiaoyu officially proposed to break up.There is no reason, just getting tired of it. Moreover, let them quickly send the bride money back, otherwise the court will see you.
I think my girlfriend's family will definitely regret it. After all, who can't feel sorry for a living nouveau riche who is cheated on himself? And the matter between them will probably not be easily resolved.
, a negotiated dowry, can also increase the price, which shows that they are not a good person. However, I really think my girlfriend's family is a bit greedy and not enough to swallow the elephant. There are so many things to do before marriage, who will agree?
So, people should be more rational. If you treat others as fools, others will also treat you as a madman.
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I think my girlfriend's family will definitely regret it. After all, who can't feel sorry for a living nouveau riche who is cheated on himself? And the matter between them will probably not be easily resolved.
, a negotiated dowry, can also increase the price, which shows that they are not a good person. However, I really think my girlfriend's family is a bit greedy and not enough to swallow the elephant. There are so many things to do before marriage, who will agree?
So, people should be more rational. If you treat others as fools, others will also treat you as a madman.
Note: Original article, please do not reprint it.
