72-year-old Mr. Ge has been widowed for many years, and the children have already started their families and started their own businesses, leaving Mr. Ge, a "willed and widowed man". Because children cannot be with them all the time, as they grow older, Mr. Ge feels more and more lonely in his old age. So, I focused on seeking my partner.
Uncle Ge kept wandering around the elderly blind date market, and he met a few, but he was not very satisfied. The first Aunt Chen and Mr. Ge are about the same age, and their children at home have started a family and started a business. Mr. Ge thinks that Mr. Chen is too old to take good care of himself. The second Aunt Li, a standard rural aunt, is a few years younger than Mr. Ge, but his goal is clear, and his requirement is that if he gets married, Mr. Ge will pay a 100,000 yuan betrothal gift to buy a car for Mr. Li's son. When Mr. Ge heard this, he asked for a 100,000 yuan betrothal gift. Later, after many blind dates, I never met a suitable one. Either Mr. Ge looked down on others or others looked down on them.
Until later, Mr. Ge saw Aunt Zhang, who was dressed in a simple but clean manner in the blind date corner. After some communication, Mr. Ge learned that Aunt Zhang was 18 years younger than him and had only one daughter in the family, and she was married. At first, Aunt Zhang lived with her daughter's family. Since her son-in-law was also the only son in the family, her son-in-law's parents moved to live with her daughter's family after retirement. Every day, I looked up and saw her in-laws without seeing each other. Aunt Zhang felt like an outsider, and she was in the way. However, I had no relatives except my daughter and had no place to go, so I wanted to find a partner and have a foothold, so I came to the blind date corner and joined the elderly blind date group.
After listening to Aunt Zhang’s family background, Mr. Ge felt that the relationship was simple and there was no burden. After hearing Mr. Ge’s conditions, Aunt Zhang felt that except for being older, she was clean and humble, and her children would not interfere in life. There are not so many twists and turns between each other. So, the two hit it off and became elderly partners.
At the beginning, the two of them had no intention of getting a marriage certificate, and they just thought they were living together. Uncle Ge wanted to take care of themselves, and Aunt Zhang wanted to have a place to settle down. The two of them lived together for two months and were both satisfied with each other. During this period, Aunt Zhang kept instilling in Mr. Ge that she was younger and in good health than Mr. Ge. When Mr. Ge was old and could not move, she would insist on taking care of him and knew to support Mr. Ge. Mr. Ge looked at the sincere Aunt Zhang and felt that he would be sorry for Aunt Zhang if he didn't do anything for her. So, in order to show his love, Mr. Ge transferred the small house under his name to Aunt Zhang, and confessed affectionately that he did not want to leave Aunt Zhang alone after a hundred years, and transferred the house to Aunt Zhang. Even without Mr. Ge, Aunt Zhang would have a place to settle down.
The problems considered by the elderly are more realistic. Some elderly people suspect each other and distrust each other. Some of them are constantly conflicted by interests among children at home. There are very few pure old men like Mr. Ge. I hope Aunt Zhang treats Mr. Ge sincerely and never get a house, so she abandons Mr. Ge.
If you were Mr. Ge, would you transfer the house to your remarried wife?
