It is understood that if a man does not divorce after cheating, that is to hurt the other party. What should a woman do?
netizens shared that as long as people have selfish thoughts, the reasons for refusing their feelings are various. A few people with poor moral character and no sense of responsibility are different. The problem of cheating depends on the specific situation. We cannot generalize the good or bad. Only by seeing the problem can we discuss good or bad! If anyone plays with his feelings, I will give it back twice as much as possible to eat grains and cereals for others. I will not get sick. I have a child when I am sick. If he is sick, then wait. 120 I will call him but the length of time does not necessarily depend on his luck. All cheating is related to character, not to the spouse's beauty, ugliness, heights, fatness, and spouse's wealth and income. Not cheating is a singer all the way. Once cheating comes one after another, the good character you carefully created collapses instantly, and the negative impact will slowly spread throughout your life. Nothing is natural, but I just say it straightforwardly, don’t you still want to eat what is in the pot and what is in the bowl! Want to occupy it.
In fact, before marriage, we need to understand whether his parents’ moral character is good, what kind of family produces what kind of talents. Young people must remember that this is more important than anything else! Those who can see their own problems should have hit a wall and suffered losses. If you are proud of yourself, you will not think you are wrong. Just as the article says, thinking that the other party is worthless will get rid of the burden yourself. There is no reason for cheating and betrayal. If there is one, it is just an excuse to comfort him after being discovered. It is also an excuse to make the world feel that he just had to do it. Everything is whitewashing himself... In-depth good article, thank you teacher! I was betrayed three years ago, at a loss and sad. After reading the teacher's article, I have a deep understanding of betrayal and continue to grow and strengthen myself. I have come out now, not relying on it, and have the ability to end this marriage at any time, and can face that unbearable period with a calm and gentle atmosphere. Thank you teacher! May all the sisters who encounter misfortune be strong, love themselves and live the rest of their lives!
This view is not mine, but comes from the conclusion of sociology. Many foreign studies have proved that those who are prone to having sex in marriage, their families, especially their parents, have basically had experiences of having sex. In other words, they carry the genes of having sex. What I want to give you some positive energy is that there are a large number of people in reality who can see their own problems after having an affair, recognize the harm caused to the other party, their feelings and marriage, and then change their past mistakes and become a new person. As for whether your ta is such a person, if you want to get this conclusion, you can only leave it to time - the road is far away and the horsepower is seen through time. A person may make mistakes occasionally, but a person who is always making mistakes will definitely not be the one who can bear the happiness of your life.
The real core is the emotional foundation. "The foundation is not firm and the earth shakes the mountain." Looking at the current sexual liberation remarks such as premarital sex, premarital cohabitation, etc., are actually the root cause of problems in marriage. The ending of a betrayer of love is to spend a lifetime of happiness for his impulse. A temporary joy will inevitably bring about lifelong regret. I think why men in fifty years still cheat? First, they have achieved some small achievements in their careers, second, they have made friends with such people in their circle, and third, they have confidence. When they were young, they wanted to do things that they dare not think about and dare not do. Now they are inflated, so they just happen to be in a match with a scumbag girl. So it is true that men become bad if they have money, but the deepest hurt is the woman who has given him. The pain of a lifetime will change people's values after experiencing this pain, so experiencing it is also a kind of growth.
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