This year, I am going to start blind dates again. I feel that I really have to learn how to date blind dates. I come to Tianya to search and want to study. I found that there are not many posts, so I contributed one myself and record it. I also recorded it??
I am a female, born in 1994, about 152, 83 pounds, graduated in 2017, and it has been 5 years since then. I have been on blind dates for so many years, and I have no progress. My latest love made me feel like I had eaten shit. I feel that blind dates are more reliable than finding them myself. I have no choice but to start my blind date trip this year. My writing style is not good, so just take a look at
. Thinking about it, as soon as I graduated, my aunt started introducing me to my blind date. I am a good girl. Anyway, according to the tradition of adults, I am, after junior high school, I studied hard, no one forced me to study, just kept studying. I think it is still interesting to learn after studying. I have never had a relationship before graduating from college, and at most I have a secret love. I have confessed one of my loves in college, but I was rejected.
Finally, there should be about 8 cases in the past few years, and there should be no missing, unless I really forgot it, well... use ABCD to express it. It feels not easy to write
A, this is what my aunt introduced. I have many aunts. My grandmother gave birth to 9, 3 uncles, 5 aunts, and my mother is the second to last, so the blind date is mainly my aunt introducing me, and I feel that they are more anxious. a should be a fellow villager, working in the provincial capital, I am not in the provincial capital, so I just added WeChat to chat. I still remember how my aunt got me. That day she called me, and suddenly the topic turned out to introduce me. In fact, there were very few calls to these aunts. When she introduced me, I was still very confused. I would not say refuse, and I never said I would like to add WeChat. If I add WeChat, add WeChat.
a, I remember that after adding WeChat, I chatted with each other and sent photos to each other. It was not the type I like. Judging from the standards I like, it was really not very good-looking. There seemed to be a lot of acne on my face, but it was not very bad-looking. It was just that kind of male classmates who were very ordinary in the class. I could even find a little shadow of my classmates. To be honest, I should be considered as face control. When I was in school, I remember when I first started to fall in love in junior high school, I noticed that the most handsome one in the class. I don’t necessarily like it, but my eyes are always glansing, and then chasing stars is also a beautiful man. My aunt didn't actually tell me about his family situation and said nothing. I don't know if I forgot it. I may have mentioned it, but I didn't care. After all, I just graduated and I don't know what I want to look like. I don't have any standards or requirements, so I think I'll talk about it first. But my aunt introduced the boy to me. I felt that my family situation should be similar to mine, at least not much different, and I should be a fellow villager. Actually, I really had no experience in my first blind date. I should have had about 2 months of chatting with him. During this period, I had chatted with him. Now I forgot what career he has done and didn’t know his income. If the situation at home, I guess the other party had no experience. He didn’t seem to ask about my income. After two months of chatting, I didn’t know anything about it. I thought it was quite fun. I knew in my heart that the other party was not my food, but I continued to chat intermittently for 2 months, because I didn’t know at the time that I didn’t feel that he had no feelings for the other party, but I actually didn’t have to talk anymore. If I had the current me, it might be over in 3 days, because I didn’t have much speculation when chatting with him at that time. Behind it is my aunt. She told me that she had been talking for so long, but there was no result. The other party was so far away and had not met yet. The other party's conditions were not that good, so there was no need to chat. I don’t know why the conditions are not good, I remember, and later I told the boy on WeChat that I felt that we were not suitable. I wish you a good job as soon as possible. I remember that I should have said that, and the other party seemed to have tried to keep it, and I forgot it a little.
Tell me a little bit about my situation. I am from a rural area, I went to a university, an ordinary second-tier school, my parents work in the same city as me, my mother works in the factory, my father drives a truck, and has a younger brother.Actually, my family’s conditions are not very good, but I think it’s enough for me to have enough money. My parents also built a second-story house in their hometown, so that my brother and I could live in a brick house. Before the fifth grade, I lived with my grandparents and uncles, and lived in the past rural houses like the past. Then, they also gave me a college student. I had never calculated how much it would cost to support a college student before. After that, I calculated it later and it still cost a lot of money. My brother finished his second year of high school, and he didn't want to do so, so he went out to work.
I have never cared about this point of education before. In fact, my aunts and others are more proficient. They introduced me to me. It is almost the same. I don’t understand it myself, so I stepped on a mine later. I will talk about this later.
Continue, change the computer to update, the words on the phone are so small. This A has no longer contacted him. Now I have a little impression of the conversation with him. Once I complained to him that I was very tired at work and often stayed up late to work overtime, and then he replied to me. Then you quit and come to me. I support you. I have used the three words "I support you". It means that it should be a joke. But after I heard it, I felt a little bit hilarious. How long can I do this? It can be seen that I am not prone to talking with him.
Sometimes I reflect on my personality later. After all, I have been dating for so long and have not succeeded. I will reflect on myself later, otherwise I will probably not succeed in the future. My personality is actually the kind of independent, autonomous and strong person who is not used to relying on others in doing things. Isn’t there any joke on the Internet? If you are independent and strong, you just don’t have a boyfriend. Does this personality mean a bit of a loneliness? After all, I am independent and strong, so what else do you want? It’s a joke. The same is true for my daily work. I remember that my boss used to evaluate me. Even if I encounter difficulties, I like to tinker with it myself. I don’t like to ask. I just like to study it myself after I ask the method. Even if I stay up until 3 or 4 o’clock, I like to do it myself. Anyway, my boss joked about me like this before. I often have to stay up late to work overtime for half a year at work, which is the kind of 996 and 9 to 5 for half a year. Another female colleague in my project team is different from me, but she has more experience than me. She works for 2 years before me. She is my team leader. She is beautiful and can act coquettishly. She usually wears light makeup on her daily life. When she encounters problems, she likes to talk and communicate with others, and her relationship with my boss is much better. I feel like I am a straight woman, and I don’t know if I am a straight woman like this, nor do I know how to define straightness. Anyway, I don’t wear makeup, don’t act spoiled, and do things by myself. I like to play with female colleagues I talk to.
The following is B. I forgot that I didn’t contact a for a for a long time. After all, it’s been a bit long, maybe the same year or the second year.
First, let me talk about an objective situation. I said above that I worked for half a year and went from 996 for half a year. I usually get off work at 5:30 when I was 996. So I usually don’t go on a blind date during that time of 996. My relative introduced me, but I usually refuse. This time is about December to around May next year. Then I have to take the exam again during that time of 9:5. I went to work and read books. I used to take the exam at the end of October. In the past two years, I thought the epidemic had changed to the end of August. So, after a year, I had time to go to the blind date seriously, just around November and December. I usually get to know people after the exam. If someone introduced me before the exam, I would say that I can get to know you after the exam. So after calculating the time this way, I really have very little time for blind dates, I'm too unscrupulous. So I feel that I have 8 out of 5 years, and I don’t know how frequent blind dates are going to be after graduation. I haven’t had two in this year.
I was not active in blind dates in the 2-3 years since I graduated, and I even had a resistant feeling. After all, no young man was anxious about blind dates as soon as he graduated, and his parents were anxious about it.I was also a little anxious since last year and this year. After all, my classmates and friends are really married one by one, and I am still the same person. I see some of the 5.60 unsuccessful figures on the Internet. I hope I won’t do this in the future!
b was introduced by my cousin's wife. It seems that she is my cousin's brother, not my biological brother, my cousin or my cousin. She should be older than me. My cousin's wife is from the same town as me, so this blind date partner is also a fellow villager. Now think about it, it seems that all the people I look at are from the same city. Then I work, it seems like I am working as a police officer in the village police station? Or after joining the army, I seem to know a auxiliary police officer later. I don’t know if it is this, but I forgot about it. In short, it’s almost like this. I should have a little uniform control. At that time, I felt that my career seemed to be pretty good, so I added on WeChat to chat. I didn't seem to have met before at that time. The blind dates that both parents met at the beginning would give me the feeling that I was just the cabbage I picked in the vegetable market. It felt bad to think about it, but now I don't feel very repulsive. This is a story later.
This B has been chatting for a short time, but in just a short time, I have a needle in my heart, speechless.
How to say it, it is actually very simple. When my cousin's wife introduced me, she added WeChat to chat with me, and she should have not cleaned up with her ex-girlfriend. As she chatted with me later, the two of them reconciled. I was so heartbroken, the sincerity between people! But in fact, the chat time is really short, but my heart is a little bit shy and I feel deceived and speechless.
First, let’s talk about how to chat when I first added it. I added the names before, and then he told me that our high school is an alumni, and this should be what my cousin’s wife told him. It’s good to go to the school in high school. I think it’s alumni, but he said he was a sports student, and then it seemed that he was in his second year of high school and went to join the army. Then I had no impression of the conversation after that? Maybe I didn't say anything special, but I remember that this blind date partner had a slow reply and didn't take the initiative to chat with me. He didn't send messages for 2.3 days. I think it would be a waste and would take the initiative to send messages to him. Actually, I was still a little interested in talking about this, otherwise I wouldn’t have sent a message on my own initiative. I remember that when I first added a chat, he told me a homophone, which was about a homophone in our high school place. I was amused myself and thought this person was quite interesting. Let me say that I have a very low laugh point and I am easily attracted by humorous people. If this person is handsome and humorous, I feel that I will definitely like it. Because I have low laugh points and like ghosts, I feel a bit silly.
b Because I rarely send messages to me, I took the initiative to ask, and I replied slowly. I feel that I am not interested in me, and I may not have more than 1 hour of chat within a week. In the second week, I remember it was the second week. I clicked on his WeChat and wanted to ask if it was pornographic. Then I clicked on his Moments by the way. Then I found that the cover of his Moments had become a photo of a girl, which was a bit old-fashioned photo, which was a bit unfair, so my ex-girlfriend and he were probably still classmates in junior high school, and I guess they could not even take that kind of blurry photo at that time in high school. I probably understood that this was having a girlfriend, because at that time I didn’t know it was an ex-girlfriend, but I guessed it was a girlfriend. After I understood, it seemed that I had deleted him on WeChat at that time, and I forgot if it was deleted when I knew it was an ex-girlfriend. Anyway, I didn’t ask again after seeing the photo. I still had eyesight, but I was also heartbroken, and I felt that it was quite bad. I hadn’t chatted for a long time at that time.
A little more time should have passed later. My mother told me that my cousin's wife told me not to continue chatting. Her brother and her ex-girlfriend got back together, and she yelled, and her heart was even more frustrated. She also liked her ex-girlfriend not to come on blind dates. Isn't this a fool? I don’t know what it would feel like if someone else went on a blind date, but I feel it was awful. Then there is no further text for this, and WeChat will definitely delete it.
So the second chat is less than 2 weeks before and after, strictly speaking, it is probably only one week. It’s so fast, but the impression is deep. It’s quite awesome. I just heard some news from my mother during the Chinese New Year this year. Haha, I heard that I was still with my ex-girlfriend, so I should be the one who got back together when I was in love. Let me talk about the cause and effect. Why did my mother talk about this person again? Because my aunt introduced me to me last year, I asked my mother to ask my aunt. As a result, my mother mistakenly thought I was asking this person, and said that someone from this man was pestering him and said that this girl really wanted to marry him, but the woman's family wanted a lot of brides. I said that the brides in our place were not high. In our town, the market price is normal for 20,000 to 100,000 yuan. I think it is too high for 100,000 yuan, and I think it is almost the same for 60,000 yuan. When my cousin got married, the man gave him a bride price of 20,000 yuan. I heard from my mother, but I just got married in the town. The town is very close to my village, about 4 kilometers. My cousin is so beautiful
It feels amazing to write some b gossip. After all, it has been several years since blind dates to the Chinese New Year this year. Then I asked my mother how much dowry the woman wants, she would never ask for 200,000 yuan, I guessed, and then my mother seemed to say that the woman’s parents seemed to ask for 300,000 yuan. I forgot whether I guessed it right or my mother said that the woman wanted 300,000 yuan. But whether it is 200,000 or 300,000, it is too much. In our place, it can be said that the price of bride price is sky-high. Anyway, I think so, and the man doesn't agree very much. He doesn't want to marry the woman, but the woman really wants to marry. I don't know how it is now. I feel like a pair of fools and resentful women. I don't know if I describe this way, right??
If the woman really wants 200,000 yuan, I think this marriage is really not easy for us. I have a cousin who, about 6 years ago, married a coastal wife. My brother worked on the coast and then negotiated it myself. The woman wanted 200,000 yuan, and then both parties bargained, and finally became 150,000 yuan. When I first heard about it, I thought why I spent so much money on getting married? Isn’t this selling my daughter? So when I heard that the woman asked for a 23,000 yuan betrothal gift, my first reaction was to sell her daughter. Of course, I don’t understand the inside story either. There may be other reasons I don’t know, just listen to it as a gossip.
Continue to write, I think, the first a should have met when I graduated in 2017, and then the second one, B, let him go for 2018 years. It seems that he met in early 2018. As I wrote before, I remembered another one, and this one also had an impression, but I didn’t remember it before.
I feel that I'm a bit slow to write this way. I write 2 in 2 days, and there are 7 in the next one. It's less than 10 days after writing. I still have to write a resume and find a job. I'd better write it quickly? Now the employment pressure is so great,
b quickly turned the article. It's probably 1.2 months later, my aunt arranged to introduce it to me again. This time I will introduce the aunt to me, the aunt I first went on a blind date. I feel that I am very enthusiastic, and I don't know why. She had introduced my cousin to a neighbor from my aunt's village to a cousin, and there was a boy from a few families next door. Then the two of them got along and had a good relationship. Now they all have two children. Think about it, every time I tell my mother that blind dates are not reliable and I don’t like them, my mother will use this example to refute me, which makes me not know how to continue to argue like this. My aunt probably introduced several pairs, which are very fulfilling.
C, introduced by my aunt, I didn't add WeChat immediately at the beginning, and my aunt didn't seem to ask me to add it immediately. I forgot why I didn't add it immediately, was it because I didn't add it myself or why? Is it the first one that failed? I am not very willing to do so? At that time, my aunt had a granddaughter, who was teenager and had my WeChat. Then one day I called me on WeChat. First, her granddaughter said a few words to me, and then my aunt told me that there was a boy's parents who were very satisfied after hearing my situation and let me know their son. I just said this. Why is it not successful? I feel it myself, but my parents are very anxious and their parents are on blind dates, so my son has no intention of doing so.
This time, my aunt called on WeChat, and after she blew the wind in my ear, she didn't add WeChat. I guess my aunt himself had no one on WeChat. The parents who said they were very satisfied with me were in the same community as my aunt, and they should be in the same building. Maybe they would usually meet her, so she would arrange blind dates for her son. My aunt's son works as a physical education teacher in the county town and bought the house in the county town. My aunt and uncle have been taking care of their grandchildren in the county town. After hearing this, I vaguely felt that my parents were worried. What’s the use of this? I didn’t give me WeChat and I didn’t care if I hung up the phone. Then after the time, my mother told me again that there was a boy on my aunt's side. My parents were very enthusiastic and satisfied and wanted to introduce him to me. But my mother also felt that this kind of parents are anxious to arrange things. Who knows what a son thinks? My mother talked to me like this and said it might not be reliable.
After a while, it shouldn't be long, so I added WeChat. I forgot who gave me WeChat, was it my mother or my aunt, anyway, I still added it. Then, the interesting one came. I added it, but they didn’t say anything. I added it before, and the man said hello first. I didn’t say hello first. I can just call him by myself. After I added C WeChat, I waited for a while, and saw that there was no message sent, so I greeted me. It seemed that the other party hadn't replied to me. I forgot a little, and I remember that this boy ignored me very much. Then I saw that there was no reply to the message, so I clicked on his circle of friends to check it out. This time, my aunt introduced her profession to me a little, saying that she was a teacher in the school and a primary school teacher. My mother probably thought this profession was good. Then I clicked on his Moments circle. His Moments circle was not visible for three days, and it seemed that they could see them all. I found that they should be a teacher in a training institution and tutoring children. They were not in the city where I worked, and it seemed that they were also in the provincial capital. Of course I didn’t mind this very much. I had no specific requirements for my career. At that time, it was important to be able to chat. Now, thinking about this idea is a bit naive.
Ah! I remembered an important question, is this c? I added his WeChat or his WeChat? I forgot it for too long and deleted it. If I added him, no wonder I ignored me. I was so eager to post someone else’s cold ass. I probably caused trouble to others. After all, I couldn’t hear from my aunt that my son had any intention of going on a blind date. If he added me, it would be a bit too much to ignore me if he added me. After all, my parents urged him. Just let him urge me. It would be
. Yesterday I wrote to C. After adding WeChat on the first day, I said hello and maybe I sent me "hi, hello", or something like that, but it seems that I have never replied to me. I almost finished reading it on his Moments. In fact, I remember that many of the contents in his Moments are similar, although there are many, because teachers in training institutions may want to recruit students and send some advertisements to attract parents to register. I just roughly learned about the city C is in and what work he does. There are photos of him in circle of friends. He is also a very ordinary boy. He looks pretty good. I remember that I still saw a photo of him and his parents on circle of friends. Oh, I remembered that he seemed to have an older brother, which was a photo of their family. The older brother seemed to be married, and there was a girl next to his brother, who should be his sister-in-law. I don’t know if I have any confusion in my memory. Anyway, my memories seem to be like this now. There is nothing wrong with having an older brother. I don’t set anything that can be seen for a few days in my circle of friends, and I can see it, but I rarely post on Moments, and I can’t tell my profession in Moments, but I just occasionally share my daily life.
After I didn't reply to me, I put down my phone. If someone else has something to do, I will be busy with my own business. But the next day, I probably didn't reply to me. I was a little speechless, and then I impulsively said, "I just kept silent, right?" I should have posted this. I was quite impressed by the sentence I posted.As a result, the other party still had no words to send. I seemed to be thinking at that time, how cruel I was by my parents. Is there a girlfriend, who was forced to go on blind dates by my parents. This boy should be 2.3 years older than me. I remember it seems, but in fact, at that time, 2018, it seems that he was not very old. I couldn't figure it out, and I guessed it through my own imagination. After that, I seemed to delete WeChat in anger, and it was useless to keep it. Thinking about it this way, this c did not say a word to me. It was a long prelude. After all, my aunt and my mother took turns laying the groundwork for me, saying that my parents were doing something, but they didn't say a word to each other.
c just turned over, it was so fast, it happened in 2018. Later, I remember that the parents of this family, my aunt, still occasionally mentioned it in my ears until 2019, and I was speechless in my heart. My aunt didn't ask me how I was talking to this boy. She might have asked my mother, but she must have known that there was no result. I was speechless when facing this later. Every time my mother asked me to go on a blind date, I would use this to criticize my mother, "Look at what are the reliable things introduced by those relatives? I added a word and didn't say anything, speechless." Sorry, I have been annoyed by blind dates over the years, but I have not had a good temper. I have had conflicts with my mother more than once. I have said the above sentence more than once. Every time my mother uses my aunt to introduce successful cases to persuade me, I will use this example to reply to my mother.
Write for a while. Actually, there are a lot of things happening to me later. This is the first time I wrote an article. I wrote a lot of my own feelings. Don’t be upset, because it seems that I have very little interaction with ABC, but I have also written a lot, and there is a feeling of every detail. I still remember the feeling at that time. Maybe what I recall is something that I feel more deeply.
After c, I have never met any other blind date partners for 18 years. Actually, I was really not keen at the beginning. Sometimes, some classmates wanted to introduce me to me, but I stumbled over. I just laughed and gave me an awkward expression, and then there was no further information. This was something I vaguely rejected because after all, my classmates, if I am a little familiar, I don’t want to be in the same way, and others won’t force me. Don’t end up having an unpleasant relationship with my blind date partner, and I’m also alienated from my classmates. I’m a little scared of this. I remember that I had a high school classmate who had a good time and wanted to introduce her brother to me. She was not a biological brother. She showed me the photos and looked pretty good. She looked tall in the photos. But I heard that I was with me. Anyway, I didn’t have the intention to go on blind dates at that time. At that time, I might have been beaten by someone else’s marriage certificate , so I was anxious.
The time is 2019, and I have been the fourth D in this year. It seems that I have only met one person this year. I can’t remember that I have met other people that year. But 2019 has made me unforgettable, not because of this blind date, but because I lost weight in 2019, and a series of things made me feel very painful.
Before talking about d, I also mentioned that my weight loss experience has improved, because when I met this blind date, I lost a lot of weight and lost a lot of weight. At that time, I must take this factor into account. That's right, this d was the first blind date and WeChat chat, and the chat time plus the meeting time was longer, not as fast as before.
Thinking about it now, it's still a bit painful for 2019??
In fact, I was not fat before graduation and my weight was not over 90. After graduation, I became fat for a while, but half a year after graduation. Because I just came out to make money and had money, I often ordered takeout, fried chicken, pizza, barbecue, etc., and I gradually gained weight. My weight in college is generally around 85. Other people's dormitory has scales, so I sometimes go and weigh it. I often eat those high-calorie ones and gradually gain weight, and my weight is as high as 96. Haha, my life record. But in fact, at that time I had no body anxiety or appearance anxiety. I thought 96 was just 96. I felt that I was pretty good-looking in the mirror, and I didn’t think I was fat. I just felt that this weight was a little abnormal, but I didn’t care much.
I think it's abnormal. When the Chinese New Year was approaching, I didn't let myself eat it randomly. Moreover, my cousin had lost weight before, and lost weight after getting pregnant and having babies. I heard about her weight loss method from her. It's quite simple. She only eats about one palm of her hand at each meal. If she meets her good meals at home, she won't eat that meal, for fear that she can't help it. Then she persists for about a year and loses weight. I did this method as her, because I have never heard of other weight loss methods. Xiaobai didn't expect it to be very useful, but in fact, this method will still be hungry every day, and will start to hunger about 1-2 hours before meal time, because after all, I am not full, but I feel hungry every day within a tolerable range, so it is not difficult to persist every day. I never exercised during that period of weight loss because I just changed my job and I changed it to the job of 996 in half a year. During the weight loss period, I happened to be 996 in 996. I was so tired every day that I had no time to exercise at all. Of course, if you have time to add a little exercise, it may be better
The first weight loss was in 2018, not 2019, and I also successfully lost weight. I started to lose weight in January 2018, and it seemed that in August or July that year, I lost 81 pounds. It should be that weight is right. I still have some impression that I have a scale at home. About 8 months ago, I felt, hey, this is not successful, it will not decrease. I gradually increased my diet a little bit, and finally I remembered that my weight returned to 83 later, and then I stayed at 83-85. This is my first time losing weight. This is a benign weight loss method. It takes a long time, and I am not eager for quick success and instant benefits, and I even feel a little relaxed. After all, I used to be just that big. I was not a very greedy person. I don’t even like to eat meat. Sometimes I think vegetables are more delicious.
I feel that for my height, 83-85 may be a healthier weight, because this is the easiest weight I maintain. I don’t need to eat less deliberately. If I eat more occasionally, my weight will not grow up. Then when others see me, they will not say that I am fat or that I am too thin.
The second weight loss was in this 19 years. I lost from 83 pounds to 71 pounds, and it was in a short time. Now I think about it, but I might have been a little paranoid at that time.
The cause of the second weight loss was my aunt??, which was to introduce me to a and c. In 2019, I had long since stopped contacting C. Then I remember that on a holiday in 2019, I went back to my hometown. Although the place where I work is far from my hometown, I can still go back to celebrate the holiday on legal holidays . I feel that it may be May Day because the weather will no longer be very cold at that time. I went home, and then I forgot why, my aunt and I got on the same car to the county town, and then my aunt suddenly told me that I could go to the hospital to make some adjustments. Let me say, I am a little bit full of money, and my mother has a little bit, which should be inherited from my mother. I have a cousin and a cousin, but I don’t feel it very serious. I can hardly see it from the front, but it’s just a bit abusive on the side. No one has ever laughed at me since I was a child. I also happened to graduate from junior high school and once when I saw a photo of my side face taken by someone else, I found that my chin was a bit protruding and it was not good-looking.
My aunt didn't say why she asked me to tidy up her chin. After she said that, I was a little confused, but I also ummed twice. I was not a person who would directly criticize the elders I didn't know. Actually, I can guess the meaning, my chin is a bit flawed, it’s a bit better to look at it, it’s a blind date. Actually, my aunt, no matter how much I say, she has never read much. She seems to be the third or fourth child of my grandmother. I don’t know how old I am older than my mother, and there should be still 5.6 years old. My mother studied kindergarten teacher after junior high school, which is equivalent to having a high school education, because my mother herself said that her grades were OK when she was studying. My aunt usually brainwashs my mother or me and makes me gain weight. She says it’s easy to get pregnant, and I’m a little thin at 83.I don’t know what other girls feel when they hear it, so I’m very angry. Do you think of me as a fertility tool? After all, I was in college. This is not because I showed off my excellence, but because I really can’t accept it. That kind of thing makes me feel that I am a fertility tool in the future. No matter who this person is, if my mother said this, of course my mother wouldn’t be able to say such things to me, and I would definitely be directly arguing.
I know my aunt may not have any malicious intentions, but just said this to me from the perspective of my blind date. However, our thoughts were not on the same side, and I was stunned by the words. I have been a child since I was a child, although no one pursued me, in fact, I thought that there were still people who had pursued me in junior high school. But I was devoted to studying and didn’t care at all. Then I became a male classmate with good relationships, but I was not ugly or fat. Moreover, I had good grades in junior high school. Not to mention my appearance, my relatives around me would only praise me for my good schooling when I saw me. I couldn’t keep up with mathematics, physics and chemistry in high school, and I didn’t get well in college in the end.
Continue to write, after listening to what my aunt said to me, I felt very sad. Is my appearance so useless? It's worth my teething. Actually, I learned about it later. In fact, my aunt's granddaughter is also a bit damn good. As expected, the family inherited it and then had braces to correct it, so she gave me such a suggestion. After I found out, I thought, it turned out that this was the case. It was not just belittled my appearance, but it was a little too late. I found out from my mother later. And I was already an adult at that time and was 26 years old. The younger I was, the better the effect, and it was probably a considerable expense. I have less than two years of graduation, so how could I have the money to do this? This is what I thought later.
I just returned to the city where I went to work with a heart that was hit. At that time, I might have really had a glass heart for appearance, after all, no one had ever poked it before. Then I planned to change my image. What I thought of is weight loss. The effect of weight loss on becoming beautiful should be very direct. It is also okay to take your time with clothes and makeup. Don’t say anything about plastic surgery. I don’t have money and have never considered it. As for what my aunt said, "Get fatter, give birth to children and get married, I will get out of here, whoever loves to give birth to them."
After I returned to the city where I worked, I started to lose weight, but this time I encountered a bottleneck period for my second weight loss. Maybe 83 is down, which is the real weight loss for me. I seemed to have controlled my diet for a month, and my weight had almost not dropped much. I had no choice but to eat less. On Saturdays and Sundays, I had a boiled egg in the morning, a starchy sausage at noon, and a boiled egg in the evening. I also had 50-100 sit-ups at night, so that I could lose 2 pounds in two days on Saturdays and Sundays. At that time, I started buying a scale to weigh every day. From Monday to Friday, we control our diet as before, because we have to go to work, it is not feasible to be too hungry. As long as the 2 pounds that can be lost are not grown back. This is how I may have lost about 8 kilograms in the next two months. To be honest, I can still bear this method, after all, I still have a normal meal from Monday to Friday.
I can continue to talk about D below, I also met during the weight loss process. This boy was introduced by my junior high school classmate. My junior high school classmate has very few contacts. This classmate really had a good time in junior high school, so he also had contact with him after high school and after graduation. She also asked me on WeChat that day if I had a boyfriend. I said no, and she said whether she would introduce me to me. I agreed. I didn't refuse like before. I was a little convinced. I always wanted to see you. What my classmates introduced me is, I hope it will be successful.
She roughly introduced to me about this boy, her husband's college classmate or high school classmate, and also worked in the city where I was. She sent a photo of him, and there were 4 or 5 boys in the photo. Her husband and this boy are buddies. Let me tell you that my classmate and his husband also met on blind dates. They succeeded shortly after graduation, and were from the same town. She circled the boys, and the photos looked OK, but she didn't know the boy, she was just a classmate of her husband, so she tried to ask me to add WeChat to chat.
I added it, and I forgot how many months at that time, probably around June. After adding this d, it is also a fixed process for blind dates. First, report each other's names, then talk about school, and then send photos to each other. In fact, my classmate has already given me photos. I asked him if he had seen the photos. In fact, he had seen them, and it was also my classmate who showed them, but I still sent him a selfie. He saw them, and it was the same sentence, "You look so small." Now this sentence is irritating.
How to say this D, I have been chatting on WeChat for about 3 months. Usually when I go to work in the morning, he will send me a "morning" and a "get off work" after get off work in the evening, and will continue chatting in the evening. But I didn't talk much about it when I talked to him, so I actually had a little problem with the first time. These three months have a bit of a clock-in blind date. We send each other early to work, and we send each other off work after get off work. We chat for a while in the evening without any trouble. And there is one thing that he usually sends it to me first, especially in the evening. After dinner, he takes the initiative to look for me. He looks for me almost every night and chats with me for a long time, but I take the initiative to look for him. Now I think about it, there should be only a handful of times, and I guess it’s not a few times.
And at that time, I was ambitious to take the certificate exam, and planned to take the exam for 4 exams a year. I had already passed 2 exams at that time and had to read books after getting off work every night. After I added this boy on WeChat, I told him soon that I had to read books at night and might not be able to chat every night, and he himself also expressed his understanding. But later, I didn’t want to read books after get off work, and he might have come to me to chat 5 days a week. As long as he comes to me, I feel disturbed and don’t want to chat. Sometimes I’m perfunctory in chatting, but I’m embarrassed to say, I want to read books, don’t talk to me. Sometimes I just read books, put them next to my phone, and chat with him. If he doesn't finish the conversation and is still sending me a message for 2 hours, I will say I won't be able to chat anymore, I'm reading. It was in this situation that he insisted on chatting with me for 3 months. I felt that the certificate I took was the biggest obstacle on my blind date. I feel very sorry for D. He can definitely feel my perfunctoryness, but he still continues to chat with me. I will no longer be able to go on blind dates while taking the exam, as I will be sorry to others and myself at all.
It should have been about 3 months since he chatted, and he asked me to meet him. In the past three months, I have no special impression of the chat content. I know that he works in a Taiwanese-funded company. The company is quite far away from me. He is a designer, a designer in science and engineering, not in art, and the company hardly works overtime.
When I was about to meet, my body and appearance were already very anxious, and I was afraid of failure to date on the blind date. I felt that if I lose weight, I would become better, so that others would not reject me and fail to date on the blind date. It was so pitiful. So when I met him, I weighed only 71 kilograms. 83 has lost weight, 71 has a piece of paper figure. If you lose weight by weight, you will lose weight by the more extreme dieting method above.
And before meeting, I dyed my hair and cut my bangs. I didn’t leave bangs before because it was too troublesome, but at that time I had short hair. When buying clothes, skirts, high heels, contact lenses, I have myopia, 570 degrees on one side and 270 degrees on the other. I bought cosmetics online before, and then I learned how to put on makeup online, although the makeup was not very good. Think about it, if I meet on a blind date later, I will do the same thing. Just do it. I will dye my hair for 300 and buy cosmetics for 300 (at least, it is definitely not just that there are more people there. It must be spread evenly, it cannot be counted on the head at one time), 100 clothes, 100 skirts (in summer, clothes and skirts are cheaper), 200 shoes, 100 contact lenses, a total of about 1,100. This was just a meeting. Every time I met him, I bought a new set of clothes and skirts. I met him about 4 times, so I remember correctly because I am really rough in my daily life and can’t wear clothes for work.
Abstract a sentence, but in fact, I don’t usually introduce it to others. I have read a sentence before, saying that being a human being is not a matchmaker, and the other is not a security guard. I feel it's a bit thankless to introduce people, what if others think you're meddling in other people's business. So I never took the initiative to introduce myself to others before. The only time I introduced myself to my cousin was that he told me himself. I guess my brother was also anxious. My cousin told me before, my aunt told me several times and asked me to introduce it to my brother, but I didn't even have it. Then, this kind of classmate introduced me to a partner. I was really afraid of affecting my relationship with my classmates. After all, friendship is very fragile and I can basically not make friends after graduation. Haha, how to say, I have become much more indifferent after graduation. I am completely a standard indifference. It is not that I often have a cold face, but that I have no desire to socialize, and I have no social desire at all. As a result, I felt a little guilty because of this D. I was not embarrassed to contact my junior high school classmate, so I would be afraid of whatever I am afraid of.
The first time I met, he asked me to watch a movie. What should I do if I had any advice, and I asked me to choose the location. The place to watch the movies is in a shopping mall not far from where I live. On the day we met, I dressed up and went to the mall. We made an appointment to meet in the cinema. After we arrived, we called him on WeChat and saw him after we knew the location. The first impression is not much different from what I imagined. After all, I have seen the photos and there are no surprises. The clothes are just for normal boys. He is not fat and is quite thin. Then I saw him laughing and it was not bad, because it still meets my expectations. I remember that after he saw me, he seemed a little nervous, but in fact I was not nervous. I would not be nervous about the people who didn’t like me, nor did I surprise me, and I even laughed when I was afraid of the cold. After we picked it up, we walked into the theater because I remember that the movie seemed to be about to start. I saw it as "Your Boy", which is also a romance film. I walked side by side with him. When I got closer, I found that his beard was not shaved very clean. I didn't want to say anything, I just saw it. Let me talk about his height. I was 152. I wore high heels about 4 cm at that time. I couldn't wear them if they were too tall, which was about 156. I walked side by side with him. I felt that his ears were probably a little shorter, and I didn't take a photo with him. This was still behind me. My college classmate asked me about his situation, which I estimated myself. Because I had never asked about his height, he should be around 161-165.
Tell me what I felt like that day. Anyway, I looked in the mirror and thought it looked pretty good. I probably asked me to go from 50 to 65 points. After all, I also put on makeup, and I still spent money to let the beauty shop downstairs put on it for me. 25 times, I put on light makeup, which was not very exaggerated. After all, I don’t have any skills and I’m afraid I’ll mess it up. And I lost a lot of weight. I remember clearly that when I went to the bus stop to take the bus that day, a handsome guy looked back at me and said, "Oh my god, maybe besides being short, my back is still OK."
After that, we went in to watch the movie. The process of watching was quite serious. In fact, I have watched it online later. Others said that we should not watch movies when we meet on blind dates for the first time. We can’t speak loudly, and we can’t speak. Isn’t it just to understand the other person’s personality when we meet? If we don’t say a word, we can understand what we can do. So after we watched the movie, I'm sorry that I don't have much impression of his face because the theater is too dark. After the movie was over, it was about 5 pm and left the theater. We chatted for a while for a while. Then he told me, "Go back." I thought we would have to go around the mall and chat, or have a meal or something. After all, we didn't say anything when watching the movie. Then I said yes, in fact, I didn’t have any surprises or joy when meeting, and I wanted to go back too. Then we took the bus back.
After we went back, we still chatted with the same thing as before, which means I did not die when I saw the light, and he gave me the feeling that I did not die when I saw the light. At least we didn’t say that we would stop chatting after we went back.I had another blind date later. I chatted on WeChat for a month and made me feel that true love was coming. I could put my marriage on the agenda immediately. As a result, the other party saw me and my disillusion was shattered. I just died in the light. Maybe I went to see him casually that day and didn't put on much makeup. My psychological expectations and he were too different. We ended up after it. So, it is still very important to dress yourself up before meeting.
The second time I met, he asked me to go to the nearby where he lives to treat me to a local specialty. He said it was quite famous. The second time it should have been about a month since the first meeting. We went to eat at noon that day, so I took the bus. I still dressed up that day and wore high heels. After we met, it was almost noon and we went to the place where we had dinner. It was a restaurant, which was quite big, not the kind of roadside stall, so I felt it was not authentic, but it tasted okay after eating. I lost weight at that time and ate very little. After eating, I walked on the roadside, went to a drink shop next to me, ordered a drink, sat down and chatted for a while. After that, we walked to the bus stop. Because I had something to do in the afternoon and wanted to clean up my place of residence, he accompanied me to the bus stop and I went back by myself.
The third time I met, I invited him to a snack near my company. In fact, the characteristics of him treat me were the same, but the recipe was different. I thought it was delicious, so I said I would take you to try it. It seemed like it was about 2 weeks after the last meeting. I don’t remember it very much, so I met first and then I took him to eat.
In the meantime, my feeling about him is, um...why, it's not as good as I like it. During this period, my college classmates came to me to play for a few days and came from Sichuan. At that time, we were all single young women, worried about finding a partner. Now she is married and will hold a wedding this year. My classmate also asked me what I felt about this blind date, and I: I didn’t like it very much.
The fourth time I met, I had an appointment to have a meal at a shopping mall closer to my house. It was dinner. He invited me, and it seemed like I had a stew pot, and they all went home after eating. I remember when I was having this meal, he talked to me. He usually likes to watch Korean dramas. I was a little surprised and said that you like to watch Korean dramas. Generally, girls prefer to watch them. He said it was right. He was the only one in his dormitory who watched Korean dramas, and he also recommended a Korean drama to me, which seemed to be called "Crash Landing of Love". Haha, it's hard for me to remember. I should have really watched it later. After all, I also watched Korean dramas and didn't like them very much, but I would watch popular Korean dramas. That drama is not very much to my liking, I didn’t watch it after watching 1.2 episodes.
The character of this d, I have been chatting and meeting for so long, and I feel that I am a polite boy. I don’t know if it is considered introverted. I have never seen him get along with others. I respect me during the process of getting along. I didn’t touch me. I also asked me what movies I watch or what I eat. I also felt that human character is OK. But, I feel a little too gentle. I like Korean dramas, and it doesn’t seem like I love sports. Actually, I like boys who love basketball, and sports are a little more sunny. I also love to play badminton. In the past, I loved running with my classmates in college. I felt that if I didn’t look at the skirts and high heels on my body, I might actually be more manly than him because I am a straight girl.
And we talked about buying a house on WeChat, and he asked me, do you want to buy a house here in the future? I said, of course no, the house prices here are so expensive, why do you have to buy it here? It's really expensive. I can't afford it even if I have worked hard for two lifetimes. If I want to buy it, I will buy it back to my hometown. He said his parents seemed willing to help him buy it here, but he did not plan to buy it here. He himself is the only son of his family, and his village is actually very close to the village next to me. He asked me this question at that time, probably because he asked me a question, if I really get together in the future, I would like to buy a house in the future. But in fact, I didn’t want to be with him at that time. I did it entirely from the perspective of saving money to buy a house in the future. I went back to my hometown to buy it. Only I could afford the house price in my hometown.
And after the fourth meeting, it should be after the fourth time, I was about to take the exam. One night, on my way home from the company, he confessed to me on the phone, saying that he liked me and could not wait for me to finish the exam, because he wanted to meet me again before, but I said I was going to take the exam, and I saw me again after the exam. It should have been around early October at that time, and the exam was at the end of October. After listening to it, I was happy, but I was happy. The first time I was confessed to me in my life, I said I was still on the bus, so let’s talk on WeChat. Then he seemed to send me this WeChat message, so suddenly, I didn’t scare you, I said no, I replied to him, I actually like you very much. Sorry, I was a little lying. Maybe I was blinded by someone’s confession for a while, and maybe there were reasons why I didn’t want to fail the blind date. People like me and confessed to me.
Wow, I have written too much in the fourth place, I'll write it faster. Then I took the exam. When I finished the exam at the end of October, I had been lying on the body for about 10 days, and I went home to lie on the body every day after get off work, because it was really stressful to prepare for the exam. I also delayed meeting me for a week. By the second week of the exam, we made an appointment to meet. I suddenly remembered that we should have met 6 times. Sorry, I remembered it wrongly. This time we met, we went to watch a movie again. It seemed that Nezha was watching. Then we only watched the movie that day, and we didn’t have supper. After watching it, we went home. While waiting for the bus at the station, he asked me, would you like to be with me? I said I didn’t agree on WeChat last time. Well, this boy is very ritualistic when making friends step by step, and there is no problem with his character.
The sixth time I met, he asked me to go hiking at night. Haha, now I remember that he asked me to go hiking at that time. If I could travel through time, I would definitely tell him in advance, do you think I still have a chance hahaha
I will write again. It was also a night owl, but I think it was so slow. I asked me to climb our famous mountain. I had no experience in dating and didn't think much about why I asked me to go there at night. At that time, we were counted together, so going up to climb was considered as a date. The mountain road in that mountain is very wide, a bit like a big road, and it is not difficult to get up, but it is actually like taking a walk at night. There were definitely not many people in that mountain at night, the lights were good, and I could see the road clearly. Then November was in that time, and it was already a little cold. After we started walking for a while, we just walked while chatting, and then he held my hand and said, "Your hand feels quite cold." I said, my hand is usually very cold in winter, and I don't feel anything when he holds my hand, but it just feels a little sudden." Then after walking to the top of the mountain, we sat down next to a flowerbed. The lights were very dim. After chatting for a while, he turned to me and leaned over a little. I was a little suddenly, maybe I fell back a little, and I forgot a little. Then he told me, can I kiss you? I looked at his eyes and closed my eyes, which means I made a decision. In this way, the first kiss disappeared. He kissed me for a while and stuck his tongue into my mouth, but his teeth bit my tongue. It was estimated that it would take 5.6 seconds for kissing. He left, but he turned to his shoulder with his hands and told me that this was his first time in love. As for me, I said that I was too. Then he said that he had already told his parents about me and asked me if I had told my parents that I had told him that it was bad, but I didn’t. I honestly told him, and he felt a little forced. He asked, when are you going to say it? I started to feel embarrassed and I didn’t know, so I told him, I’ll tell you as soon as possible.
I have never told my parents about this d, and he seems to have told his parents a long time ago. Judging from the discussion on buying a house, it is possible that he told his parents at that time, and he guessed it. After I was kissed by him, I was actually a little stiff. After he asked me that question, I twisted my body back. I looked ahead and didn't know what to do because I was so embarrassed. I just wanted to leave, but in fact, I might have wanted to leave too, so I told him, let's go back. He agreed, so we went down the mountain. There were chats on the road, talking about my exams, and talking about bad things about our respective leaders.After kissing, I was completely embarrassed, except to leave. To be honest, this kiss is completely different from what I had imagined before. As expected, idol dramas and fantasies are all deceitful. After we went down the mountain, we took a taxi back. He took me downstairs for the first time. In the past, we all went home, and then he went back. When I got back, I asked my classmate and told him that after the boy kissed me, I didn’t feel anything, so I really wanted to leave. My classmate said that it must be different from idol dramas, but it is also a problem if you just want to leave.
In view of the fact that I didn’t feel very good about this kiss, I began to hesitate. Shouldn’t I agree to be with him? This d, and talking about friends step by step. This time, this kiss, then the next time is a possibility of having sex, no matter whether it is next time, I will always go to that step. And after his family knew about me, they were already asking me because my cousin had heard of it. I feel very stressed, and I can only say that I am very honest and don’t want to go to the point where I have sex. Then, another week later, when he asked me to meet, I confessed to him on WeChat, whether it was about ending our relationship or whether it was not suitable for us. I don’t know what to say. I feel that I can’t control this thing, and I don’t like it, I just don’t like it. He was surprised and said why it was so sudden, love can be loved over time, so I would give him another chance to try it. I am not a person who can hold others' backs. I was wrong to promise to be with him before. Why do I agree to be with him if I don't like others? I said there is no way, so I'd better break up. I didn't continue chatting later, and this d is over.
D is over, let me talk about why I have been so painful this year. First, I transitioned to diet and lost weight. In order to keep my weight at 71-73 every time I met with D, I started to overeat. Because I have to read books in the middle, I am very efficient when I am hungry and I must eat. But I feel anxious when I get a little bit higher. So when I meet him, I start dieting and not eating. After meeting him, I eat big again. After 3.4 times, I start to overeat. Those who have really lost weight should understand that dieting is easy to lose weight. There are many such videos on Bilibili. So every time I meet him, I feel very anxious. On the one hand, I am under great pressure to read books, and on the other hand, I also have to lose weight. After breaking up with D, I completely suffered from the symptoms of overeating, which is that I could eat for 2 days in one meal, so I could make my stomach burst out, and then I wouldn't eat at all for the next two days. And my temper was very bad. My mother asked me to eat more and I yelled at her. At that time, I couldn't control my temper anymore, and I felt that I was not controlled by myself. Whether it was my stomach or my temper, this was the first time I hurt my mother. I was very sorry for her, but I really couldn't control it at that time.
The other side of being unable to control overeating is that I have anorexia. I don’t want to eat, and I eat very little every time. I checked this myself later. It was considered a mental illness. It was completely caused by myself. You can go to the hospital for a visit. The most serious thing about anorexia is to sniffle. Use your fingers to force yourself to spit out, or use a sniffle tube. I don’t know if that is called a sniffle tube. Oh, it seems to be called a drainage tube, which is a rubber tube that directly penetrates the stomach and leads out the food you have eaten from the tube. They also have an exclusive name, called "rabbit". Then I also learned a little gossip, that is, in order to maintain my figure, many female celebrities are rabbits. Because when the rabbits pick their teeth, their finger joints will leave scars, so some rabbits can be seen. During this process, except for not stinging, the symptoms were the same as others. After seeing this method of stinging, I was also moved, but I still held back. They said that it is addictive to stinging and it is difficult to quit.
It took me a year to adjust this overeating before I recovered. In fact, I was too anxious to go on a diet. This year, I guess I have never eaten well, and I have eaten one meal but one meal, which has caused great damage to my body. After the breakup, when the diet was the worst, I didn’t come to my aunt for 2 months because I ate too little and had no nutrition.I feel like taking drugs when losing weight is really affected by it. It may not be like smoking. It is a bit like smoking. It is not like smoking. It is also smoking. Whether you quit smoking or not, you will think about it all your life. When I was hungry, I saw food, it was like seeing drugs, but I had to endure it. Strictly speaking, it took two years to adjust my mentality. Now I don’t think about losing weight at all times, but I still think from time to time that as long as I go on a blind date, I want to make myself lose weight and see people. Maybe I won’t think about it when I get married, right??
The second pain is that I failed the exam that year. I was too confident and prepared for four subjects. As a result, I saw all four subjects, but I didn’t finish the four subjects. By about one month before the exam, I realized that there was not enough time, and it was too late. So I didn't get any exams well and I didn't pass every subject. I was about to cry to death. When I entered the exam room, I was completely unsure of the results, and the final results were the same as I thought. I really have been reading books since that year during the Chinese New Year. In the next year, I didn’t go out except to go out with D, and I didn’t have any other social interactions, so this blow was also very big. I was really exhausted over the year.
19 years have passed, and it has been 20 years. At the end of 2019, the epidemic has actually come. After the New Year, I went to work from home. I was in a very bad state because of overeating, I was not active in my work, and my efficiency was very poor. My leaders were dissatisfied with me and probably wanted to drive me. Of course, at that time, 996 was not so quick to recruit people, and I didn’t turn on me. My computer was still broken at that time, and all the information was gone. My leader was speechless. Think about it, when people are in trouble, drinking cold water will stuff your teeth.
As I was writing just now, I suddenly remembered two more, which were before d. Maybe because the time was too short, I didn’t remember that I wrote d too early, so I could write these two digits too.
E and F are introduced by the same relative, and are my aunt. It seems that they are in the second half of 2018 and early 2019 respectively. Let’s write about E for 18 years. This is my cousin’s physical education teacher. My cousin has been swimming since elementary school, so my aunt naturally knew this physical education teacher. After she knew that the physical education teacher was not married, she said she wanted to introduce him. He agreed and pushed me on WeChat. My aunt also told me that she wanted to introduce my younger brother's physical education teacher to me. I had no objection. At that time, there were elders who gave me a blind date, but I usually didn't refuse. This physical education teacher should be not much older than me. He may be a few years older than me. In addition, he also reported his names to each other and chatted about the school. I don’t remember the others. We couldn’t continue talking, and maybe we didn’t continue talking after saying a few words. Maybe he was not interested in me.
eAfter about a week, there was basically nothing to say between them. Then he accidentally discovered that a cousin was also working as a physical education teacher in the county town. He asked about my cousin a few more questions, and after asking, he was speechless. My aunt introduced me to this e. The county town is rich, but I didn’t say how rich it is. It just implies that I seize the opportunity, and then told me that he didn’t have much demands on his wife, but he wanted to allow him to go out to play after getting married, hahaha, that should be what he meant. Me: Well? Are these three views a bit incorrect? Can you still play like this? Then my aunt also said that if we can really succeed, it will definitely be of many benefits to my younger brother learning to swim. I... think about my brother, it's nothing wrong. But it seems that e is not interested in me, and he has not chatted anymore since then and just lay in the address book.
F, introduced by my aunt in early 2019. My aunt didn't say hello to me, and directly sent WeChat to f, f added me, the introduction was introduced by my aunt, and I passed. As soon as this f came up, I first asked me about my name, age and other basic information. I searched my circle of friends and found my photos and asked me which one was you. I said I was wearing glasses. He was looking for a photo of me and my college roommate. He said he looked very gentle. Then he sent a photo himself and said it was my photo. How come I said, I don’t know how my aunt met this f, nor do I know what the situation is. However, when I look at him in the photo, he looks like he is a teenager older than me, with a beer belly, and looks like a middle-aged man.I don’t know if they look old, but I seem to have forgotten to ask him about his age. Then he told me again that I work in my hometown county, and then took a video of myself driving over and said that I will come to the city where you work this weekend and we will meet. In my heart:??, my friend, who are you? Who said you want to meet you?
Maybe it was mainly because of that photo, and after he added me, there were a series of problems. I feel that what about checking the household registration? Then I sent F: Sorry, my aunt gave you WeChat by herself. I don’t know, I don’t mean to go on a blind date now. This is not my pretentiousness. I showed the photos to my classmates later. She: I can be your father. Why did my aunt introduce him to me? I guess, she may have a good job and seems to work in a county unit. I a little forgot that he seemed to tell me that he works in the unit. I was a little speechless and didn't ask my aunt later.
To continue to say that for 20 years, I have not had a blind date this year. I have been tortured by overeating. I have a very bad mentality and don’t want to go on blind dates at all. My mother and relatives introduced me, but I refused. There should be two rejections. One was introduced to me by my uncle and cousin. My uncle grew up watching him. There is a house in the city. The parents at home do waste recycling. It seems that there is only one son, and his son is a little fat. The other one was told by my mother that her colleague in the factory wanted to introduce me to me, saying that the man’s parents have made money in raising pigs in recent years and bought a house for his son in the city where I work. He didn’t know what the son was doing, and only talked about his parents’ situation. Because I didn't look at it, I just said it casually. Alas, you will be tired even if you are on blind dates. Anyway, you will have no appearance that year.
Oh, I remember that something has actually happened in 20 years. It’s not a blind date, but I’ll record it. When I just graduated, it was the second half of 2017. In fact, I went to work in the capital for half a year. Because my cousin and cousin were working in Beijing at that time, I had a good time with my cousin, so I went to Beijing to find a job. At that time, many fellow villagers worked in Beijing together, so I met a fellow villager. In 1992, a boy was about 172 years old, very thin, and had a gentle appearance. Anyway, he was very handsome hahaha. He and my brother-in-law have a good time playing games. My brother-in-law is also in Beijing, so I often meet him and actually live not far away. Then he often came over to us to play King of Glory with my cousin. I also played at that time, but I was a completely rookie. Then when I moved with my cousin, he came to help, that is, a boy with a very good personality. If you write his name, it is not the object of blind dates. It is considered to be the person you like. Xiao He, everyone calls him Xiao He anyway. Although I am younger than him, I usually call him Xiao He. At that time, I thought this boy had a good personality and looked pretty, so he just had a good impression, but I was a very cowardly person, although I had a good impression, I didn’t take any action. And maybe I spent a short time together. I went back to Fujian after the Chinese New Year that year, and my cousin also came back, so I only met for half a year. I didn’t even want WeChat, and my life was gone later.
Damn, sorry, I just looked through the chat history with my cousin. It was not a matter of 20 years, but a matter of 21 years, so there is nothing to say in 20 years?? I continued to write. In July 21, one day my cousin sent me a message saying that she wanted to introduce me to a partner, but I refused again, saying that I would still be dissatisfied with me now. My cousin said, OK. After pausing for a while, I asked her about Xiao He, because she and Xiao He played King of Glory, and she had WeChat and asked her if she still remembered Xiao He?
Cousin: Remember, what's wrong?
Me: He has a girlfriend, is he married?
Cousin: I don’t know, I have to ask. If you like it, please help your friend ask.
Me: My friends are almost married, please ask me.
Cousin: She is very good. I just don’t know if there is any girlfriend
Then my cousin asked for me. Xiao He returned to my cousin after a while, so I chatted with my cousin for a while. Then, unfortunately, Xiao He was already married, which was the wedding he held at the beginning of that year.
Hey, so there is a reason why I have been single for so long. If someone likes it, I don’t know how to take the initiative to fight for it earlier. My cousin also said that I should act in Beijing. I am careful with the people I like. I used to study. If someone I like, even if I have a crush on it, I dare not confess my love. I am afraid of being rejected. I am the same with Xiao He. The reason why I finally dared to ask about him that year was that I felt that I had gone on a blind date, met some people introduced to me by others, and tried to get what I like. It turned out to be late. It was actually a long time since I met.
It seems that you can post pictures, send 2 screenshots to commemorate
The first one is a conversation between me and my cousin, and the next one is Xiao He's reply to my cousin
It's been 21 years since I wrote it, and I finally feel like I'm about to finish it! Around November 21, when I finished the exam, I was lying for about ten days. I had no choice but to remember that my major personnel and affairs had not yet been settled, so I asked my little sister on WeChat, who was that cousin and asked her about the boy she introduced to me before. I said I wanted to take the exam and check it out after the exam. I was about to get to the boy's WeChat and then added him. I reached G in order. It was around 10 pm at that time. After I added it, the other party failed to pass, so I left it first. The other party passed around around 8 pm. Later, I knew that he went to work early, so he went to bed early, and usually went to bed at 10 pm.
G, fellow villager, turned out to be from the next village, and later moved to the town. Why did my cousin push g to me? It was a bit complicated. I was afraid that I would faint if I said it. Anyway, it was G's cousin who helped G find a partner. G's cousin married my cousin's cousin, so they naturally met. After G's cousin knew that I had no partner, she introduced her brother to me. I continued to say that after passing me in the morning, I said sorry, I went to bed early last night and didn’t see any news of adding friends. I said it was okay, and then he explained to me that he worked 8 pm in the morning and was working in the county town. He was a training institution to help primary school students make up for the lessons (it was quite coincidental, the same profession as the one who ignored me before).
This g is very good at chatting, so I know a lot of information, so I will talk about the situation roughly. After we added, we reported each other's names and photos. He posted a photo with his mother. The photo looked quite tall and fat. I posted a selfie, and his first impression was that I looked like a minor. Then I asked him how tall he was. He said he was 170 and about 140. I also reported my height and weight, saying that I was quite short, and I probably stood beside you. He said that he had to know if he was short. Alas, this time is approaching, I feel that I remember it very clearly. Don’t write it in such detail, otherwise it will be another big paragraph.
g is from 1990, four years older than me, and has a married sister at home. He used to work in the city. At the beginning of that year, because of her mother's health and other reasons, she quit her job in the city and returned to the county town to find a job. My current job is introduced by a relative, but the salary is low, and it is a small county town, and the salary is low.
I studied information technology in college, but after graduation I have been doing sales. I have been doing sales for about 7 years. The cities where I used to work were all the cities where I went to college, and I only came back this year. The school is also a second-tier university, a school in the province, and our high school is an alumni. Since adding WeChat, we have chatted every day, which is quite a chat. After chatting for about half a month, he wanted to videotape with me, so I said let's speak first, and then we spoke. As a result, we chatted for 3 hours and it was midnight.
The main content is to listen to his ex-girlfriend’s story. Hahaha, I’m sorry, I felt a little listened to the story at that time. He was the one who talked about the emotional experiences of both parties first. I asked him to talk about it first, and he told me.
This g is also a male classmate with a story. Later, my cousin commented: I didn’t expect to be an old driver. I had three girlfriends and started having a girlfriend in college. Because my roommates had all been married, his roommate introduced him to him, so I also got married. In my senior year, I may be under great pressure to find jobs from both parties and so on, and I often quarrel and break up after graduation.The second one was when we met after graduation. We broke up after dating for about two years. The third one was a colleague. The other party took the initiative to ask him for dinner, and then they were together, but the two broke up before he returned to his hometown. Maybe that's what I told me. I just listened to the story. I listened to whatever he told me, and didn't ask too much. Then I thought it was quite interesting because I was a novice and even teased him afterwards. I won't bring you sad memories, he said no.
After finishing, I explained myself, I am just like the previous g, I talked for a month, but I didn’t have a complete conversation. After hearing this, he also said that your emotional experience is very blank, and your life is a bit boring. This is probably what it means.
Talking with people for so long in the middle of the night, and the conversation was quite speculative. I began to feel that I was very compatible with him. Later, I asked him if he played basketball. He said he played, and he often played with classmates in college and brought basketball back. He taught me how to play in the future. I... feel a little better about him. After all, it is good to find a few people who can match me on a blind date, and I can still talk about it. At that time, he was in his hometown and he asked me from time to time when I would go back. Actually, I wanted to meet him first, but he said that he would chat with me on WeChat for a while, because he was afraid that he would die when he saw the light. I didn't care, just talk. It took me a long time to get home and take a bus. I felt that I could see you when I should meet.
Then G and I chatted every day, every day, and every day that month, we chatted with everything. He also recommended a lot of good videos to me. I don’t know if you recognize the handmade memes, but he recommended it to me. Now I see the handmade memes and it’s hard to describe the videos.
And then, we chatted like this for a month, and I was already a little overwhelmed, and even felt that love finally came to me. Then around the end of December, we had been chatting on WeChat for a month, and I happened to have something to go home. Then he took a day off a week and a Monday. Because it was a training institution in the county, his colleagues were all younger girls, and they were all locals in the county. They went home for lunch, so he only had lunch by himself.
I just thought about going back to see him on Saturday, giving him a surprise, and having lunch with him and meeting him. In this way, I bought a ticket and went back. In order to see him before noon, I bought a very early ticket. Finally, I arrived to see him before noon. I was dressed casually that day and didn't put on much makeup. At most, I put on a layer of fans and put on eyebrows. I saw him a little twists and turns, because his company moved, so I called him on WeChat and he came to pick me up.
It would be better to write it simply, I think I'm writing so long-winded. However, I felt that surprise turned into shock. After seeing me, he should have been a little surprised. Because it was about 12 o'clock, he took me to dinner and invited me to a bowl of noodles. He said he didn't eat breakfast and was quite hungry. He kept eating after we came. During the break, I asked him, "You are not scared by me," he said no, but I still feel that there are.
After eating, he took me to the station, and I took the bus home by myself. I just felt that this was different from the meeting scene I imagined. Why didn’t he seem to be very happy? It seemed that I died in the light. After returning, that night, he had a dinner with his colleagues because they had made an appointment before.
The next day I said I was leaving tomorrow because I felt that I was really dead in the light, so I should go back to my workplace. He told me that I came to my house to see me in the evening, and I: "Is there still a chance?"
The result was not. He came to my house to decline me hahaha. Let me tell you, I went back alone, and I was the only one in my house, so he came to my house to meet me. At that time, I went to my grandparents' house for food.
Oh, let’s talk about it, after our voice, there was still a video, which was about an hour. When I saw him, it was consistent with my expectations. I even thought it was a little better. I felt that it was quite gentle and a boy with glasses, but he was not as fat as I thought.
He came to my house to sit for a while, and we sat and watched TV.He told me that this year he has been back, and he has met countless relatives and has been irritated. His mother has also looked for two girls for him. We will meet on New Year's Day. We will meet at the end of December, and New Year's Day is coming soon. Me:?Aren’t you going on a blind date with me? Why do you have to meet other girls? Now you look like this when you go on blind dates?
In fact, he was already rejecting me. I was in love (I don’t know if it counts). I didn’t hear it. Before leaving, he told me that he usually likes to plan things well and does not like very sudden things. It should mean that he doesn’t like me suddenly looking for him. Actually, if I can realize it here, it will be over, but I was stunned and didn't hear it.
We had no physical contact. Since I came back to see him, it might have been too cold at that time, so I put my hands in my pocket.
I wrote
The next afternoon, he took me to the station. Before leaving, he drove me to our industrial area for a while, for about 20 minutes. Because I went to the station early, I also bought 2 of our special snacks for me to eat on the way. Then I left. As a result, the key is that after I went back, we chatted normally for 2.3 days. Then, he mentioned to me again that his mother would find two blind date girls for him and meet on New Year's Day. In my heart:...what does this mean. I didn't understand, so I sent him a little later and asked him directly, "Aren't you going on a blind date with me?" Why do we still have to be different girls? The question I wrote above was what I thought about, so I asked him directly on WeChat here. Maybe it was a little late that day, he had already gone to bed, and I didn't reply to me after I sent it.
The next morning, when I was taking the bus, my phone vibrated. He replied and sent a text, "Oh, I forgot how I wrote it, which means I treat me as my sister, and I hope I can understand what he means.
This has been written to this level, but I can’t understand it. My heart was a little cold, and I understood it too. I replied to him: I understand. He sent me again: Tell me what do you understand? Is he afraid that I still can’t understand it properly? I: It’s just that we can’t do that. Then he sent me again: I'm still kidding.
I thought: Hehe, you are just joking before.
And I didn't reply to him anymore, and the fool understood. However, I didn’t delete his WeChat immediately. Now I think about why I didn’t delete it at that time! ! Because I usually delete other people's WeChat after I make it clear to others, and it's useless to keep it. However, this was rejected by others. I thought g could not contact me anymore, so I left it and didn't delete it.
As a result, he sent me another message at noon, saying that he had gotten off work, and I was confused. Didn’t he reject me? Why did he send it to me? Ask him: Did you send it wrong? He: Are you just talking about this? I vomited blood in my heart, and what else can I talk about if I refuse? He: I was so uncomfortable when I suddenly stopped chatting. Because we chatted too much in the past month, we usually send messages to each other after get off work at noon, and there is a fixed chat time. Then I was very backbone: OK, it’s time to have a meal after get off work.
In this way, the poster was a licking dog for a while. This is the first time the poster was a licking dog. Thinking about it, a mistake will lead to eternal regret. After my failure to confess my love to college, I was very strong and did not continue to disturb me. It was a bit funny to think about it. After I rejected me in the morning, I immediately cried to my college classmate and said that I was rejected and finally met someone I liked very much. Of course, my classmate always knew about the matter between me and G. I would tell her, and she thought we would succeed. My classmate comforted me: At least he clearly refused, he had a good character, he was a good boy, and he didn't hang me. Me: Right.
I really want to tell my classmate later that you have read it wrong! Of course, I misread it. I didn't even tell her that I and G had some chats, for fear that she would scold me.
Friends, don’t be moved before confirming your relationship with a blind date, as it will be troublesome. I also saw this view on Tianya’s posts before, don’t criticize it. My own experience is quite right. Originally, both sides are equal, and they will be together when they get along, and they will be separated if they don’t. Everyone should be a little bit easier, but if they are moved, it will not be easy to separate and be a licking dog.
So it was probably January 22, when we were chatting intermittently, so we definitely didn’t talk too hard. I would reply to him when he sent me messages and would take the initiative to send them to him. After all, he said he would continue to chat with me. In fact, it was the beginning of this year, and it was finally written for 22 years. Fortunately, I asked him how he was on a blind date and was not afraid of being abused. I comforted him, "Fuck, it's so cheap." I was not happy with this process, after all, I was very sad when I was rejected. Then when he sent me a message, I replied to him stupidly.
In fact, I have another one after that, and I have similar experiences, and I am a little clear about it. I chat with G too frequently, and I may have a sense of dependence. After all, I often chat at night and mistakenly regard that feeling as if I like it. Later, my cousin also told me that you have never really gotten along, and who knows whether it is appropriate to get along with each other. However, G still won this wave, after all, what you can't get is the best.
I will write it tomorrow. I am a little tired of writing. I will have the last two tomorrow! Good night, everyone,
. At the end of January 22, my mother told me that there was a boy on my aunt's side and wanted to introduce him to me. Actually, my aunt wanted to introduce this boy to me two years ago. At that time, I didn’t want to go on blind dates, so I didn’t go to look at him, and now I mentioned it to me again. I heard about the general situation. The other party was the son of my aunt's neighbor. He was from the same village and worked in the construction site. He often ran around work. In the past two years, he had paid full payment to buy a car and had a house in the county town. But my education is a college degree and not tall. I am probably about the same height as my cousin. My cousin is a neighbor and they are the same age and have grown up together since childhood. It seems that they are from 1990 and are 4 years older than me.
The order is H, the seventh one. After hearing this, I thought it was OK and just told my mother. About half a month later, I received a call from H on my way home from a business trip and asked me if I was so-and-so. I said yes, he said he was the blind date introduced by my aunt. I said, Oh, let's add WeChat to chat. I am on the road now, and then we add WeChat.
This h is a bit similar to a g, because I didn’t know that I shouldn’t chat too much with my blind date partner on WeChat. I also feel that I can chat with this H. After all, my fellow villager has a similar experience. He is my cousin's childhood friend, and there are so many things to talk about. I even feel that g and h cannot be distinguished, and my feelings about g are a little seamlessly connected to h. Maybe no matter who the other party is, it is enough to chat with me, so the feelings on the Internet are all illusory.
I didn't understand at that time, so I still chatted with H as usual. Of course, after chatting with H, I didn't take the initiative to chat with G again. I had talked very little before, and I didn't like to find abusers so much. After H and I started a blind date, there was another chat with G to find me, saying that he had changed jobs and his current job salary was too low. I: Oh, then look for it later.
Hey? This H is the eighth one. Sorry, I counted it wrong, so there are 9 in total. There is also
When adding WeChat to h, it was around January 14, and the 31st of the end of the month is New Year's Eve, and this year's New Year's Eve is early.
So we chatted for about half a month, and we basically chatted every day. Of course, I was very busy at that time and was in 996, so I was not very diligent. The chat content is about talking about their own experiences, and we talk about everything, and then sending photos to each other, and we post selfies. He took a photo the next day because when I asked him for a photo, he said he was not good-looking and sent it to me tomorrow. I thought he was going to find a colleague to take a photo for him the next day, but the next day he sent it a selfie.
The first feeling is that it is okay, and I didn’t say it’s not good-looking, it’s just ordinary appearance. He commented on my selfie, and it seemed that I was very beautiful. I probably praised it first after watching it. I have a clear understanding of my appearance, and I am just an ordinary person.Then I didn't ask about his height and weight. I first reported my height and weight. I thought he would report it to me with courtesy, but he didn't. I didn't ask if he didn't. After all, my mother said it was about the same height as my cousin and a little fatter than my brother. I must know that my cousin was about the same height as my cousin.
After chatting for almost half a month, it was almost the end of the year. He went back to his hometown on holiday first, and I was still at work. Then, by chance, he asked to come and pick me up. Anyway, he was on holiday, so I: No, I will go back with my cousin.
My cousin has a car, and I usually go back with my cousin when I go home during the Chinese New Year. But he still said, it's okay, I'll pick you up. Because at that time I asked my cousin that he was on vacation a little later than me. If I went back with my cousin, I would have to wait 2 days before leaving after the holiday. After h knew it, he seemed to say, then I will pick you up. Me: Are you kidding?
At that time, I thought I had refused him to pick me up, because he didn't go back to me after that. After all, he was not familiar with it. It took him 3.4 hours to drive from his hometown, which was quite troublesome.
When I went to work, at the company's annual meeting, he sent me a WeChat message at around 5 pm, saying that he was already on the road and had walked halfway, and now he was in the service area, and he could arrive at about the time of the day. I sent him:??Why did you really come to pick me up? Do you think you were joking yesterday. h: I said yesterday that I would come to pick you up. It’s okay, just attend the annual meeting. I’ll send you a message.
Writing it more concisely, it is really very long-winded. After having the experience of dying from the light last time, I dressed up myself before I went to the hotel last year. One hour after my annual meeting started, he arrived and we met. It's a bit different from what I expected. It's a little shorter than my cousin. My cousin is about 162, and then looks a little older. He may often work outdoors and has poor skin. We chatted for a while and then I went up to continue the annual meeting. After all, I felt a little bit like I felt when I met me. The difference was a bit big. When I met and chatted, I completely lost the feeling when I chatted on WeChat.
After my annual meeting, he drove me home and went downstairs where I lived. While walking side by side, he hugged my shoulders. I felt a little embarrassed, but I didn't shake it away. When he got downstairs, he had to go to my room to take a look. It was very late at that time, and it was probably almost 12 o'clock. I refused and said that my room was messy and had not been cleaned up, but he said he was just taking a look and was a little determined to go up.
I took him up and sat on the bed for a while. My room was quite small, with only a chair. He hugged my shoulders. I still felt embarrassed, so I asked him to go back. Before leaving, he kept joking that he would stay tonight, and later he went to his cousin's place to stay.
Continue writing, and the next day he sent me home, and his cousin and niece also went back together. When he went to the service area to rest, he held my hand, but I didn't refuse, his cousin and niece watched from the side. On the way back, I occasionally chatted with him, wanting to find the feeling when chatting on WeChat, but I couldn't find it anyway. I felt like two different people.
He sent me directly to my home. My parents and my uncle were at home. He sat down and drank some tea. My mother kept him for dinner. The Hakka people were hospitalized, but he didn't stay and went back.
I went to see my little sister in the afternoon. She asked me about this H situation. I probably told her, and then she asked me, do you like him? I thought about the feeling of seeing him since yesterday, and said, I couldn't say I liked him.
I feel a little emotional when I write this. People who are not close to me will only consider whether the conditions are suitable. Only those who really care about will ask you whether you like it or not. I don’t want to go on blind dates and force myself to look at me, but I haven’t gotten married for so many years, and I haven’t introduced so many relatives, and I don’t know what reputation I have made in my relatives.
Once, my uncle called me and asked about my recent situation. My uncle was very nice to me, but he rarely called me. Then my uncle told me that some things should be considered, and he should not read, and he would be stupid. I know that my uncle said this to me, and he really cared about me and my life, but I guess there are many statements around him, and he also heard that, so he called me to say this.Because I have rejected many blind dates over the years, I guess I am an outlier.
H sent me a message at night and asked me to go to our park the next day to visit. I was a little confused and wanted to call my little sister together, but after I imagined it, I felt that I didn’t want to go out together even if I called my little sister. I sent a message to my little sister, and my little sister said, you actually don’t want to go out with him. Me: Yes, then I'd better reject him.
So I sent him a message and rejected him, saying that we were not suitable. He was surprised and thought that why it was so sudden? Maybe he felt that I and him were holding hands, and he had been chatting well before. I said I looked at the feeling more. He argued with me for a while and said that this thing was unrealistic (probably the meaning, I forgot what I said specifically). He was honest and gave him a chance. Me: Maybe everyone has different opinions.
After that, I didn’t talk to him anymore. The next day, I also told my mother that I don’t like this boy very much. My mother: OK, then let me talk to your aunt. But I didn't delete the WeChat message immediately. I didn't delete it after the New Year. Because I also felt that it was a bit ruthless to delete it immediately, I never sent him a message again. But h still sends it to me from time to time, and I usually wait 1.2 hours before replying.
I went to work after the New Year, and h sent me a positioning, it was the city where I worked, and his new project was in the city where I worked. I didn’t reply, so I deleted it on WeChat.
The last one is finally coming!
Continue to write, i, the 9th one, actually this story is a bit simple, and the blind date is very short, and I guess it will be finished soon.
During the Chinese New Year, my cousin said that her family was very interested in me when she asked me about it, and a boy later added me.
We chatted on WeChat for a day, and the same town was also very good. Then I suggested meeting you tonight because I would go back to work the next day. In fact, the man’s parents originally wanted to come to my house the next day, but there were customers the next day, which was inconvenient.
So I went to my cousin’s house to play mahjong in the evening, and sent a message to i, and he came over, and his mother also came over. However, i can't play mahjong, so he watched me and my cousin and the others play. During my mahjong, he peeled two oranges for me to eat. Of course, I didn't keep playing mahjong, and I also chatted with him in the middle, but I don't feel like it's my dish.
The next day i sent me a message. I felt that I was probably satisfied with me, but I still sent him a message saying that I felt that we were not suitable, and he said: It doesn’t matter. There is no contact afterwards.
I, I asked him to meet so quickly, in addition to being about to go to work, there are also the first two experiences. I feel that it is useless to chat so much on WeChat. It is better to meet each other. No matter how much you chat, you should die in the light or die in the light. It is better to meet earlier, so it is easier to waste time when chatting, and meeting is also a hurdle for blind dates.
In fact, let’s talk about it a little bit. Many of my previous blind dates were invalid. It felt like I was playing. Young people pay attention to feelings and blind dates were on the condition, so I didn’t get into the state at all. I have a relative's child, who is 5 years younger than me and is also a college student. In fact, he had just graduated that year. I heard that the man's parents and the man's family went to see the woman during the New Year. Me: Are blind dates like this now?
In fact, the blind date market may be even more than that, because I am in a wrong state, just like no man’s family has come to my house to date me on a blind date, but it seems that this is quite common, and I also feel that this is a blind date. It depends on the conditions and the family. Both families think it is suitable, and the man and the woman think it is suitable. They will make the final decision and immediately discuss the dowry, engagement, marriage, and one-stop birth of a baby.
Even if the blind date story is finished, everyone will have fun.The first time I posted, thank you for your advice and friends who urged me to update. I will update you after I finish the next one! I hope the next one will succeed. Blessing
. I saw a joke on the Internet two days ago. It combined with my life of being urged to get married. I found it very interesting. Let me share it.
I have a very cute little niece. Every time I go home, I ask if I have a boyfriend, and I am speechless. But as a child, I asked her why she always asked me if I had a boyfriend. She said that because I got married and treated me, she could eat wedding candy.
Oh! It turns out that my little niece just wants to eat mat
Then will I die?
The little niece has a small situation and can only eat for one day after marriage. If we die, we can eat for three days
Friends, my blind date has begun to go in the magic direction, hahaha, of course there are some coincidences. Alas, I thought I could watch videos tonight without typing, but I didn’t expect that the blind date materials would come so soon.
Okay, it's actually what happened today. I've started live broadcasting. This is not added to WeChat, and it is highly unlikely, so you don’t need to number it, just write it like that.
Today, my cousin sent me a WeChat message asking if I have a boyfriend. I said no, and my cousin said he would introduce his sister-in-law’s son to me. In 1997, the house was in the town, and there were several houses next to my sister. She was three years younger than me. She didn’t mind that I was older than him. Now she also works in the city where I work, doing e-commerce, and has a sister who is about to get married. I asked if there were any photos, and my sister sent me a very thin boy. I felt thinner than me and couldn't tell my height.
And I asked my sister about my education, but my sister didn't answer me, but she probably saw that I was so cautious, and told me that the man had a girlfriend two years ago, but the girlfriend was messing around outside, and the man couldn't stand it, so he kicked the woman. I'll tell you the situation, don't tell me that my sister didn't tell me in the future. I was a little strange. I thought my ex-girlfriend was just a little bit, and the woman’s fault was nothing.
My cousin actually kept asking me to add WeChat, and I said to see you first when I go back on National Day. Because my sister held a full moon banquet during the National Day, she was likely to meet the man, so my sister said yes.
Write it simply, although the amount of information is very large.
I went to my parents for dinner in the evening. Because I didn’t ask the man’s education, I wanted my mother to ask. As soon as I asked, my mother asked if my cousin introduced me to me. It turned out that my cousin also called my mother today and introduced the man’s situation, but I found that it was a bit different than what I told me.
My mother: The man was married and held a banquet with the woman, but he did not get a certificate. The woman was having sex outside. The man couldn't stand it, so he kicked the woman.
I almost fell off after hearing this. This is different from what I heard. Then isn’t this a marriage? Then my mother told me something that even my cousin didn't know. The man actually had another sister who was born with a disabled person, could not speak, and could not walk. What happened later? He probably died.
My chin was wider and asked my mom how did you know. My mom said she just knew that the man’s mother had lived in the same place as my mom before, and she had a very close relationship.
Me:. . . Then there is also the possibility of genetic diseases.
There is no secret in the small place. Friends, if you are embarrassed to ask the introducer, or if you can't ask, you will definitely find your mother.
After eating, I went back to where I lived, and it turned out to be even more magical.
My mother called to ask my aunt (my cousin is my aunt’s daughter) at night and wanted to learn about the man’s situation. But my aunt said that this is not possible because the man and I are relatives. Hahaha, my mother and the man’s mother are from our family, and they are related by blood. My cousin may not know, because my cousin was actually adopted by my aunt. It was this coincidence that my cousin introduced the man to me.
And my aunt also involved an old past incident. The man's father married into a marriage. He had beaten my uncle before, and half of his face was foggy.My uncle had already passed away before I was born. I had never seen my uncle. I should be about 30 years old because my uncle had a son, but my uncle died of illness and had no money to treat him at that time, and no cause was found.
I was: wtf, then isn't this a bloody hatred (maybe a bit exaggerated, but I feel that it's lighter if I just write it), why would my cousin marry to that family?
My mother said that when my cousin got married, my aunts and uncles all hesitated, but because my cousin was in a relationship myself, and my cousin adopted it, and my cousin's mother-in-law even broke up with her. If it weren't for my cousin's mother-in-law, my uncle would have been beaten even more seriously, so I would have let my cousin marry.
So don’t say that my cousin doesn’t know about this, my mother and my youngest aunt don’t know about it either, because my mother and aunt were still young back then.
My aunt also told my mother that my grandmother hated the man who beat someone back then, so my relationship with this man is absolutely not good. If I had a conversation with this man, my mother would not go there when she finally got married.
I heard this, of course it was impossible. Maybe the man was not sent to prison for his sake because of his relatives.
So, this ended like lightning, and it was not considered a blind date, but in terms of the process, it was quite outrageous since the blind date, because the previous ones were dull.
After writing, good night, everyone,
