Author: No. 1 Emotion
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About marriage, I believe that everyone chooses to get married for happiness, and hopes to be able to work with the other party for a lifetime. But reality is always cruel. Not every marriage can end. Of course, there are many happy half-way couples.
Love itself is elusive, let alone marriage? But since we are destined to enter the palace of marriage, I believe that no one is willing to face the divorce, but if we really get to this point, we have to face it. However, for men and women, they are facing the dilemma of divorce, and the mentality of the two will definitely be different.
I have to admit that women are often more afraid of divorce than men. Why is this happening? Let's take a look at their true thoughts!
Afraid of losing the custody of the child
The reason why women are afraid of divorce is nothing more than because of their children. The reason why many couples who cannot survive still insist on not getting divorced is that they do not want their children to be hurt, especially for women with delicate minds, the least they don’t want to see is losing the custody of the child.
Since you already have a child, you have to face this problem. No matter what the reason is, women do not want their children to bear all this. What they are worried about is not the divorce, but the trauma caused to the child after the divorce, and the possibility of losing the custody of the child.
After all, women themselves are vulnerable groups. If they lose custody of their children after divorce, it will be a big blow to women. They even regret choosing to divorce. After all, children are the flesh of every mother, and they are more eager to let their children be by their side.
Afraid that life alone will be more difficult
When a woman divorces, she has to consider her future life. She can indeed choose to divorce, but what if life alone will become more difficult? Especially for those women who do not plan to remarry, they will inevitably fall into confusion after divorce and cannot find their own position, and their lives will naturally become depressed.
A person's life is not as good as two people after all. If it is not a matter of principle, I believe that most women will choose not to divorce because of this. After all, the future is difficult to predict. Since it is not until the point of divorce, there is a possibility of turning around.
Many women are still very reluctant to face divorce, and a person’s life cannot be guaranteed to be happy. If it is not as good as the current life, it is better to continue to stick to it. Perhaps the situation will develop in a good direction.
Afraid of parents suffering with them
The reason why women are afraid of divorce is that in addition to the above two reasons, the biggest weakness is their parents. Divorce between two people seems to be a matter of two people, but in fact it is a matter of two families. Once you have no place to live, it will inevitably affect your parents' mood and life.
The reason why many women don’t choose to divorce is, on the one hand, it’s for their children, and on the other hand, it’s for their parents. After all, they are all old and it’s hard to bear this blow. If it’s not that they really can’t survive, women are more willing to turn big things into small things for their parents and try not to choose divorce as much as possible.
Although the divorce rate is very high nowadays, parents' thoughts are still relatively traditional, so they have to take into account their parents' feelings. Of course, if they really can't survive, I believe that their parents will support them, after all, they don't want to see their daughter be wronged. At this time, women are most afraid of their parents' discomforts with them and do not want them to suffer this sin.
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Women are often more afraid of divorce than men because these three things are their weaknesses!
Women make up their minds to divorce are a very complicated process, either for their children, for their future life, and for their parents. But once women make up their minds, it means that they really have no chance, because these weaknesses cannot hinder the harm they will suffer from you.
What are the most feared by women when they divorce? Seeing the voices of people who have experienced it, I believe you can also understand women. If you don’t want to divorce, don’t hurt the person who has always been by your side. If you don’t cherish it yourself, you may face the fact that they choose to divorce you.
So, cherish the people around you and don’t joke about divorce. After all, after some paths are taken, there is no way to regret it.
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