A relationship, if you just enjoy temporary happiness without long-term planning, then no matter how long you spend together, you will never be able to get happiness.
There is a saying that if you don’t pursue marriage, you are all hooligans. If you are together, if you don’t have plans for the future, then being together is just entertainment.
Regarding feelings, everyone yearns for a happy relationship, but in real life, you will find that there are not so many beautiful things at all.
If you don’t give so much and don’t have so much true feelings, then you will naturally not be reluctant to leave when you leave.
A long-term and happy relationship depends not only on the original love, but also on the later management.
In real life, you will find that there are many feelings, and they are affectionate at the beginning, but when they part, they are like two strangers.
If two people want to maintain a long-term happy relationship, they actually need these qualities.
01. Only by treating it sincerely can you get more happiness
. Regarding feelings, it is never a one-man show, but requires the participation of two people.
If one person is always giving with heart while the other person is enjoying it for granted and stingy with everything about himself, then such a relationship will always be unequal and will cause more harm.
If you want to be happy in a relationship, you must exchange your sincerity for sincerity, so that you can get warmth and happiness.
In this real society, whoever treats you well will have a clear idea in your heart. If everything you give is ignored blindly, people's hearts will become cold.
Sincerity is the foundation of a relationship and the source of continuous creation of happiness.
02. Only by being inclusive of each other can you understand more
At the beginning, any relationship was relatively fresh, especially about feelings.
However, as time goes by, over a long period of time, you will find the other party’s shortcomings and advantages, and even various conflicts will occur due to the other party’s shortcomings.
If we want to gain a sincere relationship over the long years, we cannot just appreciate the other person's strengths, but also need to be tolerant.
will not contempt too much when facing each other's shortcomings, but will accept it calmly.
Sometimes, in real life, you still need to try to close your eyes. There is no need to be too concerned about any matter that does not involve principle.
There is no possibility of conflict in any intimate relationship, but only tolerance can make the two people truly go on.
In the long years, some people may be destined to be, but without so much sincerity and understanding, it is really difficult to reach the end of life.
Learn to cherish, the person who is truly good to you must have absolute loyalty to your feelings.
Because you don’t cherish it, then no matter how much you love you, you will leave you. By the time you regret it, everything will be too late.
author, Ran Xia Yingzi, a freelance writer, focusing on self-media operations, writing and live broadcast entrepreneurship. Welcome to follow and consult.
