Good evening for my friend, this is my 142nd time chatting with you in my second year.
This morning, a former colleague I had not contacted for a long time asked me what I was doing recently.
We chatted for a few words, and she said she envied me and said that she would be me.
When I saw her words, I was shocked: What? Some people envy me as a dog’s life?
I just shattered a dream recently, and I was very disappointed.
Later I asked the reason, and my former colleague saw that my circle of friends was very popular, and envied me for having children, striving for progress, and motivation.
I felt depressed in my heart, oh, what's the matter?
I don’t specialize in my circle of friends’ personality. Basically, I post the most realistic state. Even though I force myself to stop learning by checking in my circle of friends during the National Day holiday, I am still reading books and thinking seriously, not pretending. The same goes for the official account of
html on the 1st update. It is basically the most real thing I look like. Friends who often read it know that I am intermittently and positive. When I am lost, it is also boundless.
So I thought of my previous insight. At that time, I wrote an article specifically, which roughly means that people's life is just envying others and sad about others.
I feel like a messy life will be envied by others.
Because I received a message from my former colleague today, I began to think about the importance of people exerting subjective initiative in their lives.
exerts subjective initiative, and dogs may have shining points in their lives and are envied by others.
Of course, the purpose of our doing this is not to make others envious, but to make our lives not so doggy, and we can be slightly better.
I think mentality is very important in exerting subjective initiative. My experience is that people should learn to talk to themselves and believe that they can do it.
For example, when I woke up on the first day of the festival in my country, I really wanted to go out for fun, but for well-known reasons, the reason I mentioned is that I had no money, not the one you thought. In short, because of this reason, I couldn't go out. I was very powerless in bed.
At that time, I thought, do nothing and watch TV series. I have 8 days off. Apart from the time I spent with Suo Suo, the rest of the show is enough.
At that time, I asked myself, is this kind of escape meaningful? Now I am sad because I can't go out to play. After the holiday, I find that I have done nothing but watching TV shows. Then I am upset, and I will only be even worse. Since this is the case, most people will not study hard during the holidays, why don’t I set a learning goal and task?
So I have my holiday daily study check-in.
However, it is also good to have this setting. I actually couldn't stand it until today. I was a little embarrassed, and I didn't have that much energy to study, but because I was so arrogant, I will continue tomorrow and the day after tomorrow.
The same thing happened when I bought a house. I was sad that day and posted a circle of friends with a broken dream. My brother-in-law left me a message, encouraging me not to be too sad, saying that I was much better than him at that time.
Actually, this sentence did not give me much comfort, because I actually want more.
However, this sentence gave me a little hint. If some things are not urgent, it doesn’t matter if I can’t hurry up, it doesn’t matter if I am slower, after all, I still have time.
Just like when I was about to give up buying that house, I felt ache in my heart, but I always thought about what I wanted to do, make money, and give myself a deposit. When I encounter such a situation, I can seize the opportunity.
I never think that this house is too expensive and I can't afford it in my life.
I won’t think about it either. I already have a house and it’s like this for the rest of my life.
In summary, I may lose, I may lose frequently, but I will never be defeated.
This is related to my mentality. I am always confused and feel that I can do it.
But how confident am I, is it born or acquired? I can't tell it clearly myself.
