and "same-sex deskmates" cannot be done. Don't think that the relationship is good, it will make people misunderstand
There are many teachers who deliberately arrange "same-sex deskmates" to sit together . On the one hand, it is to enhance communication between classmates, and on the other hand, it is also considered that girls are more careful, so the two can complement each other in terms of learning. However, the relationship between "same-sex deskmates" still needs to be mastered. After all, studying in the student days is the most important thing. Don't delay your studies because of the beginning of love.
What type of deskmate is the most popular?
During the study stage, each student has a completely different personality , and there are several types of deskmates who are very popular. These students are often very cheerful and have a good relationship with everyone. In addition, these students always have some distinct characteristics.
The first type of students are those who prefer to eat, and they usually bring a lot of snacks. Generally, in high school, except for three meals a day, there is basically no time to buy snacks, so when you are hungry, you can only endure it. But if there is a "foodie" deskmate, you won't go hungry, so such a deskmate is very popular during his school days.
As for this second category, those students with excellent grades, if they can be classmates with such classmates, then you don’t have to worry about academic problems, because you can ask questions at any time when you encounter questions you don’t know, which not only saves time but also labor.
Another type is those students with relatively outgoing and cheerful personalities . They get along well with every student. If you are in high school, you will face a lot of academic pressure. But if you can have such a deskmate, you won’t feel bored and you will become more optimistic and cheerful in daily communication.
What are the things that cannot be done with "the opposite sex"? In order to avoid misunderstandings among teachers,
" The same deskmate of the opposite sex" is also a very common combination in high school , but if the relationship is too close, it will also cause the teacher to misunderstand. After all, in the eyes of teachers, they are at the age of beginning of love, so students of the opposite sex will inevitably fall in love with each other in daily life. But in fact, many "family-sex deskmates" have no other ideas, they just have a better relationship. A large part of the relationship between
" deskmate" has a good relationship, but it is not ruled out that some students with disagreement become deskmates. Generally, it is quite common for "date-sex people" to have a better relationship. After all, girls are more delicate, while boys are mostly careless. They don't need to think so much about the two when getting along, but they will be easier.
However, it is precisely because of the close relationship that some teachers are a little worried. If an early love occurs during the study stage, it will generally affect your grades. If you don’t get into a good university, you will regret it even more.
In addition, if you meet a naughty pair of "deskmates", it will be very unfavorable for learning. If two people who are more good at playing sit together, they will be more distracted. Therefore, teachers usually find this phenomenon and separate such deskmates.
The "deskmate friendship" in the student days is rare. Teachers and parents should not worry about
" Deskmate" The word contains a very deep relationship , and it is also the person who has the closest relationship with you during your study period. You can share it with you whether it is joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness.It is also very touching to have such memories in , so teachers and parents do not need to interfere too much in this. The close relationship between
" The same deskmate of the opposite sex" is not necessarily the tendency to fall in love early. After all, it is reasonable for two people to sit together to study together and have a good relationship. What's more, the ability of "teachers of the opposite sex" to get along well with each other and to absorb their own advantages is also of great benefit to the development of the entire class.
Therefore, before understanding the real development of things, Parents and teachers should still respect their children . If a misunderstanding is caused, it will cause great harm to the child's self-esteem. It will be too late to regret it until then.
The "deskmate friendship" of the student days is very commendable, and it is also an unforgettable memory in the years to come. So in such a period, you should cherish the moments you spend with your deskmates. In addition to making progress together in your studies, you should also help each other in life.
Handling the relationship between "senior deskmates" is also very beneficial to one's own development. If you have an optimistic and cheerful deskmate, your own emotions will be motivated. When you meet a deskmate with excellent grades, you should also learn from his learning experience and work hard to improve yourself.
