After a few days off, I went to work on the first day and found that my colleague Xiaoqiang looked wrong. After asking, it turned out that he was a quarrel with his wife. Due to the epidemic, Xiaoqiang and his wife did not travel abroad during the National Day holiday. They just visited some attractions in the city. In the end, they wanted to rest for the rest for the rest of the day. Xiaoqiang picked up his mobile phone and played games. Unexpectedly, her wife had a big fight with him because of this, saying that Xiaoqiang was not motivated and did not do his job properly. He was in his twenties and only knew how to play games.
I will understand Xiaoqiang's situation. I have no other hobbies. I just play mobile games occasionally when I am bored, and I don't recharge and spend money, and I don't have any addiction to games. I only play them two or three times a week. For him, the game is just a simple leisure. But his wife just couldn't watch him play games. Every time she saw her play games, she would complain. When Xiaoqiang wanted to play, he could only play it once or twice in the office using his lunch break. This time, he was bored at home during holidays and wanted to play once, but his wife complained again, and he couldn't help but start arguing.
It is not uncommon for husbands to play games and quarrel in life. Do women not like men to play games? In fact, this is not the case. It is not just about playing games. Men's other hobbies, such as fishing, running, playing ball, singing, and skewers. As long as men like and enjoy entertainment, many of them will be opposed by their wives or girlfriends.
Why do men get angry when playing games? Is it really because the game is not motivated? In fact, women oppose men playing games, and there are several main psychological aspects:
1. Not confident in the relationship between them
Many women will feel very insecure in their relationship, have no confidence in their relationship, or have no confidence in their importance in their husband (boyfriend). When a husband (boyfriend) puts his mind on other people or things, he will have a mentality that someone else will take away his husband, and he will feel that his husband does not value him and will lose him.
It is precisely because of this lack of confidence that she doesn't want to see her husband focus on other things. She can only focus all her energy, emotions and attention on her, so that she will feel relieved. The reason why you quarrel with you and accuse you of playing games is nothing more than trying to attract your attention in this way. From this point of view, such unconfident women are even more likely to be children who want to attract parents' attention.
2. Selfish, you do not allow yourself to have your own happiness
There are also some women. The reason why she opposes her husband or boyfriend to play games is not really because she thinks that games are not doing their jobs. Such people not only oppose games, but also oppose that their husband has any other hobbies. To put it bluntly, they only allow men to be happy because of her, and they absolutely do not allow men to have other ways to get happiness.
As long as you are happy about things other than her, she will have a quarrel, find various reasons to quarrel, fight coldly with you, break up and divorce, and force you to give up this hobby.
People like this only oppose men's hobbies, but men have other ways to have happiness. And she herself can go shopping, buy, eat, eat, and eat. Her happiness can be without you, but your happiness must be with her. That's all.
3. Implement PUA
on you by belittling your hobbies. This is also the psychology of many women. She hates you to play games, not because of the game itself, but just wants to find excuses to suppress you psychologically. No matter what your hobby is, she will belittle it and find various reasons to prove that your hobby is low-level, because whether your hobby is low-level, so you are also low-level and you are unreliable. Only by accepting some of the requests made by her can you gain her recognition. For example: paying wages, taking all housework, asking for instructions on everything, and not being able to make decisions without her permission.
or above three situations, no matter which one you encounter, your life will definitely be unfortunate, and this misfortune will always be with you.
