Marriage talks about feelings, but it is also a game, and the disparity in status concerns whether a woman can live a comfortable and happy life in marriage.
"Money", many people are afraid of talking about it, thinking that love should be pure, how can it be linked to secular material such as money?
However, in fact, money runs through every stage of our life.
We can maintain a contemptuous attitude towards it, but we cannot do without it, because in this world of material desires, it is really hard to move without money.
Drinking water with friendship Full, two people in love don’t have to worry about money, even if they have no place to live or sleep in the open, as long as they have someone they like to be by their side, they will be happy.
But marriage is no longer like this. Poor couples are sad. If there is no money in the marriage, it means the end.
Therefore, all feelings in the world cannot be separated from money, especially marriage.
Why do women have to learn to talk about money for a good marriage?
案例：在没有踏入婚姻之前，在没有成为一个妈妈之前，她也和所有没有踏入婚姻这座围城的姑娘们一样，觉得两个人相爱就够了，没必要通过钱来衡量一段感情。
It was not until after the baby was born that as a full-time mother who took care of the baby, she realized how important it is to talk about money in marriage.
has not gone out to work, so there is no source of income. In the eyes of her mother-in-law, she is a person who only knows how to spend her son's money;
In the eyes of her husband, she is a person who only knows that she only has the palm up, and she only has the leisure task of taking care of her children at home a day;
In the eyes of her friends, she is a person who enjoys her happiness. She doesn't have to go out to work every day, but just needs to see her children at home. This is something that no women can envy.
However, they only saw full-time mothers who don’t have to go to work, but they couldn’t see the hardships behind them.
Because there is no source of income, my husband has no good face every time he asks for money. He also sarcastically said that money is not easy to make. He doesn't remember at all that he asked readers not to go to work. He said that he would support her for the rest of his life.
In addition, her husband also had an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex, blatantly, she was very angry but couldn't do anything about it, because her heart was on the child, and she had no money on and , so she couldn't divorce, and she dared not divorce.
She regretted that she quit her job. If she had money and financial resources now, would the situation be different?
Through this bad marriage, she realized that if a woman wants to have a good marriage, she must learn to talk about money.
Don’t give up your income for the sake of your family or for anyone
Kim Ji-young in the movie "Kim Ji-young born in 82" faces the same situation as readers. At that time, she was very confused. She obviously gave so much for this family, but in the end she became useless in the eyes of others.
Later, Kim Ji-young began to write books on the computer, became a writer, realized his childhood dream, and had a source of income.
Although his husband willingly raised her and never complained, in Kim Ji-young's opinion, the money must be earned by by , which is interesting to spend.
在一段婚姻里，我们不能因为男人的一句“我养你”，而天真地相信对方可以为自己付出，人性都是黑暗的，没有人能够做到毫无怨言地一直为一个人付出，哪怕是最亲密的关系。
If a woman chooses to rely on a man financially, not to work or contact society, then when a man is no longer willing to pay money, what is waiting for a woman will be a deep abyss.
We can believe in love, but at the same time we must also believe in the darkness of human nature. People are and will become .
People who had no regrets at the beginning may say sadly later, so if the heart has a habitat, it must be the most reliable place in your heart.
Therefore, women should never give up their income for the sake of their family or for anyone. This is the confidence of women in marriage.
money can provide us with more choices
an apple, a pear. You like to eat apples, but the other party only gives you one pear. At this time, if you have money, then you can buy yourself a fruit you like to eat, or even more.
But if you don’t have money, you will know that you don’t like pears and dare not complain, because it was bought by someone else, but you don’t have money.
In marriage, if a woman achieves financial independence, she can buy what she likes as she pleases without looking at other people's faces.
Even if the marriage is unhappy, she can choose to give up and fight for the custody of her children. She does not have to compromise because she has no money and swallow her anger.
The things that depend on others are always unreliable, because we cannot guarantee whether this dependence can be maintained for a long time, but if we rely on ourselves, we will have the confidence and courage that will never be lost.
So, instead of relying on others, it is better to make yourself a rich person.
money can provide us with more choices
an apple, a pear. You like to eat apples, but the other party only gives you one pear. At this time, if you have money, then you can buy yourself a fruit you like to eat, or even more.
But if you don’t have money, you will know that you don’t like pears and dare not complain, because it was bought by someone else, but you don’t have money.
In marriage, if a woman achieves financial independence, she can buy what she likes as she pleases without looking at other people's faces.
Even if the marriage is unhappy, she can choose to give up and fight for the custody of her children. She does not have to compromise because she has no money and swallow her anger.
The things that depend on others are always unreliable, because we cannot guarantee whether this dependence can be maintained for a long time, but if we rely on ourselves, we will have the confidence and courage that will never be lost.
So, instead of relying on others, it is better to make yourself a rich person.
