The mother-in-law blamed her daughter-in-law for throwing pots and pans on the floor while staying in bed. Her son was praised for his words. Netizens quarreled
Since ancient times, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most fundamental problem of a family.
does not rule out that in some families, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along very well, and some even get married into mother-daughter, but most mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are incompatible. Even if some are polite on the surface, they never regard each other as relatives in their hearts.
Today's story, please comment on it. Which is right and who is wrong?
incident occurred in Qingdao, Shandong.
A man returned home and found that the pots and pans fell all over the floor, looking quite messy, and was confused. He didn't know what happened World War , so he hurried to the bedroom to ask his wife. The wife was sleeping with her head covering, looking sulking. The man asked her wife what had happened. The wife said angrily: "Ask your mother!"
It is obvious that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a conflict.
The man then ran to ask his mother what was going on. My mother said angrily: "Ask your wife!" What happened that made the whole family tense?
It turned out that this mother-in-law disliked her daughter-in-law for not getting up early to cook for the couple, but she still couldn't get up. She was furious and threw the pots and pans! What a guy, he has such a big temper!
This matter has developed to this point. According to 80% common sense, the filial son will definitely beat his wife up without asking for it and ask his wife to apologize to his mother. However, this man's actions aroused the anger of many netizens.
The mother-in-law said when will the daughter-in-law be able to get back, and said with confidence: "I'm so angry, what's wrong? Who doesn't get up early? Let's not eat together?"
The man said to his mother: "What does it have to do with you if she can't get up? You two can make your own meals! Are you willing to eat or not? If you don't eat, you'll get over it!"
The man's mother was so angry that she said: "You say another one? I'll marry you. What are the wife doing? "
's son replied to his mother, "It's mine to marry a wife, it has nothing to do with you! It's not for you to marry, we are naked, you didn't spend money."
's man's mother was speechless all of a sudden, and finally said, "I want you to have it in vain."
While feeling sad for this old lady, many netizens also said that the man did the right thing and could not be biased towards his parents without principles and wronged his wife.
Let’s talk about it again. This mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are under the same roof. They should understand each other. Young people like to sleep in when they are fine. The elderly like to get up early. Why do they have to make breakfast for you old couples? Haven't you gotten good at it? It’s better to cook whatever you want. You have to let your daughter-in-law cook. The daughter-in-law is not here to be a nanny when she gets married into a family.
In addition, in order to avoid conflicts, you can live in your own place. In reality, many parents like to live with their sons and daughters-in-law. In fact, living together for a short time can be done. How can a pot and bowl not touch the edge of the pot after a long time? If you want to have a happy life, living by yourself is the best strategy.
After watching the video of this man calling his mother, netizens quarreled and each had their own positions.
is more supportive of men:
should be posted, such a scandal. An old man who loves to cause trouble. Like the Queen. Do you have to be served by someone? Can't you cook for yourself? I can do it myself in the past few decades, but why can’t my wife do it when she comes to my family? Are your hands and feet disabled? Or do you want to treat your daughter-in-law as a nanny?
has nothing to say. Marrying a wife is not something you can do for you. It is your own business to get up. The elderly dislike their daughter-in-law and don’t get up, so don’t live with them.
This mother-in-law... is in good health and not disabled, so why can't she do it by herself?
Why does a daughter-in-law make breakfast for her mother-in-law? My daughter-in-law was not raised by her mother-in-law! You have to cook and find your own son.
There are also
html that supports mother-in-law. My son's words are so hurtful, this is your dear mother! How can we make the elderly sad?Naked marriage is your own choice, it is not your bargaining chip. Many people don’t understand this and think that it is because of a naked marriage. It seems that the parents-in-law owes their daughter-in-law and the elderly do not owe their children. If they feel that they have lost money, they should not get married at that time.
This son is wrong. Filial piety is the first of all virtues. He must be filial at any time. He cannot be too spoiled to his wife. He can divorce him and marry him again. There is only one mother, let alone, who has brought you up with great difficulty? Really unscrupulous. What do you think about
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