Writer Andy Andrews said: " People have two impulses in their lives, one is a journey that can go on as they say, and the other is a love that is selfless."
True love is not the deep affection when they were young, but through middle age, and still keeping away from each other when they encounter ups and downs.
This is the case with a 47-year-old man. When a netizen on a self-driving tour saw him, he drove a tractor and walked over.
I have seen people driving by car and hiking, but this is the first time I have seen them driving a tractor to Lhasa.
Seeing a question from a netizen, the man stopped the tractor and told him: "The tractor was given by a kind person. I used to pull a cart."
The man lives in the northeast and turned out to be a miner. When he mentioned his work, he had pride in his eyes: "I am the foreman, and a hundred kilograms of steel bars are carried by himself. The foreman is the most capable. I will take everyone to work."
Before his wife got sick, he had a happy family. His daughter was well-behaved and sensible, and his wife was gentle and virtuous. His monthly income was not very high, but he could also buy a house in the local area, and there was a car to take his family out for fun.
One day, my wife was feeling unwell and couldn't eat anything. When she went to the hospital for examination, she found that she had cancer. There were cancer cells in many parts of her body. She couldn't stand such a heavy blow, and she was in a low mood and didn't talk all day long.
In order to treat his wife, the man sold his house and car and spent more than 500,000 yuan to improve his condition. Instead, his wife's health became even weaker. She felt sorry for the expenses and felt that she had dragged down her family. Seeing his wife's weakness, the man felt as if he was cut off.
The man asked his wife, "Do you have any wishes?"
The wife said, "I want to go out and see, but I don't want to stay in the hospital."
So, the man sold all the things at home. In fact, there was no valuable stuff anymore, that is, some daily necessities. After several years of medical treatment, he spent all the money selling houses and cars, and owed 100,000 foreign debts, but none of these stumped him.
didn't have money to buy a car, so he made a board car with the materials, moved some daily necessities to the car, and then asked his wife to get in the car, and he pulled his wife and set off.
Family and relatives have also questioned that he is a nonsense, and others traveling is a poor family and a rich family. He is a complete and poor trip. If something happens, how should the two of them survive?
The man thought it very clearly. He felt that no one could help him with relatives and friends, and he had to live his life by himself. He would not make a vow, but he could never leave his wife. As long as he had his own meal, he would not let his wife go hungry.
They went to Tibet along the national highway, and they walked very slowly along the way. Sometimes they walked more than ten kilometers a day. When they encountered a hillside, they needed to bend over and pull the cart hard. Some kind-hearted people would help when they saw it and helped push the cart behind.
Travel was very difficult, but since he came out, his wife's face has more smiles. Although she was eating simple food, her illness was gradually alleviating. During the 3408-day trip, the man took his wife to the hospital for examination. The doctor told him that his condition had recovered 60%.
This may be the best encouragement for the man. He still wants to stick with it. He has no income on the way, so he picks up scrap iron along the way, saves it and sells it for living expenses. After a kind-hearted person knows his situation, he takes the initiative to donate to him a tractor so that he can not pull the car and the journey will be a little easier.
When talking about his experience, the man's face was full of smiles and no sadness at all. He said that he had no clear goal. After going to Lhasa, he had to travel elsewhere, and the place where he had a wife was home.
RomainRomanRoland once said: "Real heroism means that you still love life after seeing through the truth of life."
A man's behavior is the embodiment of this sentence. Life is pressed to the bottom. As long as you don't give up, you will not be abandoned.
Do you still remember Ding Yizhou and Lai Min? They have similar stories.
Lai Min was diagnosed with "penguin disease", which is a family inheritance. Her parents both passed away due to illness. If nothing unexpected happens, her life is also predicted. It is difficult to take care of herself for the rest of her life, and even walking becomes difficult.
Ding Yizhou is her junior high school classmate. After learning about her situation, he decisively took her home and took a trip that he could go without hesitation.
Along the way, Ding Yizhou was riding a modified bicycle, Lai Min sat behind and smiled like a child. She was in a bad mood, but she was in a good mood. Is there anything happier than being cared about?
Take Lai Min to travel, Ding Yizhou was fully prepared. He only had a few hundred yuan in his pocket, so he could only buy groceries and cook on the road. If he really had no money, he set up a stall to get a haircut. 8 yuan per person was used to maintain the expenses on the road.
and they walked all the way to Tibet. In front of Potala Palace , Ding Yizhou proposed to Lai Min. The onlookers blessed him, and Lai Min was surrounded by happiness.
Travel changed Lai Min's fate and expanded her horizons. While feeling love, she gave birth to a child for Ding Yizhou. The two of them also found a place suitable for their lives and opened an inn to watch the sunrise and sunset every day.
I love across the mountains and seas, and all the mountains and seas can be level.
When there is love between husband and wife, no matter how hard the days are, you can taste a hint of sweetness.
Love is not just a promise, but also a never-ending relationship when the other party encounters difficulties.
We appreciate those who are constantly working hard to improve their living standards, and we respect those who dare to face challenges when encountering problems.
Most of them are unknown in their lives, but they never shirk their responsibilities and do what they think is right. Such people are full of positive energy. It is precisely because of their existence that life is full of expectations.
Ding Yizhou said it well: " I don't think she is dragging me down, but she is fulfilling me and fulfilling my responsibility as a man."
Yes, the essence of love is to fulfill each other. You have given love for each other and gained care and warmth.
People need to encourage and support each other. When each other is surrounded by care, it can resolve difficulties and it is very likely to produce miracles. Just like Lai Min and the woman on the tractor, their health is getting better and better, and their lives have more possibilities.
