Author: Yidou
Picture: From the Internet
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No matter how you put a bowl of water, the palm of your hand and back are still different. Some parents always shout "fair and just" slogans, claiming that they treat their sons and daughters the same love, but once they are implemented in their behavior, the gap immediately appears.
To protect the elderly, the older generation always thinks that the son is the support for the rest of his life. When they were young, they had a very obsession with having a son. They finally waited for their son. They were afraid of melting when they held it in their mouths, and afraid of falling when they held it in their hands. No matter what requests their son made, they would meet them unconditionally.
While spoiling her son, she is constantly slapping her daughter, borrowing her daughter's marriage to make a big fuss, breaking up her daughter's love, asking for high gifts, and supplementing her son. There are also some parents who confiscate all their income in order to give full play to their daughter's greatest value and treat their daughter as free labor.
In the eyes of this kind of parents who prefer boys over girls, no matter what their son does, it is right. No matter how filial the daughter is, it will not be exchanged for their sincerity. They will only try every means to squeeze their daughter to satisfy their son's selfish desires. In the end, the son was spoiled and the daughter was heartbroken.
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"You gave all the demolition money of more than 1.4 million yuan to your son, but their daughter didn't get a penny. Is there anyone who is like you who are parents like this? The demolition money is all given to your son, but you have to rely on your daughter to support her. If you don't say hello, you will move in and don't treat yourself as an outsider. I really don't know what you are doing. Have the good intention to live in my son's house? "
Dawei's mother really couldn't stand what the old couple in the family did, and couldn't help but speak up. She knew that if she didn't stand up at this time, her son's life would definitely not be easy in the future. Moreover, her son has always been cowardly, honest, kind-hearted, and bullied. As a mother, she couldn't bear to see her son being bullied so much!
Two years ago, Dawei and Xiangqin got married. Dawei's mother initially opposed this marriage, because Xiangqin's parents asked for a 300,000 yuan gift. Dawei's family is well-off, but according to local customs, the gift is only over 100,000 yuan. Xiangqin's parents asked for so much gift, and they felt that their intentions were impure.
How dare Dawei be happy. When he met on a blind date for the first time, he fell in love with Xiangqin. Before this, Dawei was single for 29 years and had never been in a relationship. Dawei's mother was very anxious about this. She even doubted her son's sexual orientation. Now that her son has a woman she likes, she is not easy to deal with.
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Dawei's parents reluctantly paid 300,000 yuan gifts and 80,000 yuan three gold coins before marrying their daughter-in-law Xiangqin into the house. It was originally agreed that Xiangqin would bring back some gifts, but on the wedding day, Xiangqin had no other dowry except for a few worthless quilts.
Dawei's parents were sulking a lot about this matter and blamed their son for being stubborn and impulsive. They insisted on spending a high price to marry such a woman. In the future, they will inevitably suffer and suffer. However, after seeing his son Dawei and daughter-in-law Xiangqin live a loving life, the old couple felt a little comforted and their anger disappeared little by little.
But at this moment, Xiangqin's parents made trouble again. Originally, the house in my hometown was under demolition, which was a great thing. Xiangqin and Dawei were still planning to share some demolition payments with them, and the two planned to use the money to travel.
never thought that after the demolition payment was completed, the parents gave it to their son directly. For their daughter Xiangqin, they gave it casually with the sentence " The water splashed by the daughter ". Dawei was open-minded about this. He comforted his wife. Without this money, their lives would be as usual and travel could be arranged.
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Unexpectedly, the father-in-law and mother-in-law actually made a request to come to their daughter and son-in-law for retirement. After the house was demolished, they had no place to live and gave all the money to their son, but their daughter-in-law did not want to live with them, so their parents wanted to join their daughter and son-in-law. In this way, they just saved their son a lot of living expenses.
Dawei is an honest man. Of course, he doesn't want to live with his parents-in-law, but when he talks to his mouth, he can't speak, so he can only let the old couple live in. Xiangqin was very happy about her parents' arrival. Even though her parents treated her badly, she still couldn't get rid of her blood ties.
Dawei's mother was so embarrassed that she couldn't bear it when she saw her son being bullied. She immediately came to the door and angrily criticized her in-laws. Faced with Dawei's mother's reprimand, Xiangqin's parents were speechless and they pretended to be mute. Dawei's mother picked up her in-laws' luggage and threw it down the stairs.
Xiangqin next to her wanted to explain to her parents, and Dawei's mother said directly: "Either you stay in this home and live a good life with my son, or get out with your mother's family!"
Seeing her mother-in-law's strong appearance, Xiangqin was so scared that she dared not move, let alone speak.
In a marriage, if you want happiness, men and women must work together. When encountering problems, you cannot blindly emphasize human feelings. At critical moments, you should be rational. When faced with unreasonable requests from relatives, sometimes you have to learn to refuse, otherwise you will be ruthlessly exploited.
There is no need to feel sorry for parents who are confused and prefer boys over girls. They have given you life, but they have not fulfilled their responsibilities for raising them. If they have to care, when they regard your marriage as a transaction, you have already paid off your debts with money. Since they have no slight pity for you, you don’t have to take it seriously.
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How do you view Dawei's mother's behavior of kicking out the old couple from the house? Is it arrogant and unkindness, or is it awesome?
