中文 has no airtight wall .
Some things you never thought of have happened, but they still happened, and even after they happened, you can't believe them.
It’s not that we are too young, maybe society is changing too fast.
Married for nearly twenty years, my cousin has always been the object of envy of everyone. Her husband is hardworking and willing to work hard and makes money. Her children make up a "good" and her life is quite comfortable.
In recent years, left-behind women born in the 1980s and 1990s in rural areas have basically no longer found farming.
In addition to taking care of children's life and going to school full-time, some will do odd jobs in factories and supermarkets in towns, some will work as kindergarten teachers , and some will do nothing.
In addition to playing mahjong, square dance.
The first thing I learned about my cousin’s cheating was that my wife quietly sent me a message.
My own two daughters could have been taken care of by my parents, but no matter how well they brought them and how much they paid, my wife always seemed to have something to say.
So I followed her and asked her to take care of her at home, and I worked hard in the city alone.
One night in May this year, I had a video call with my two children as usual. After my wife hung up the phone, she sent a message.
"Your cousin cheated"
"What does it mean? Which cousin?" I was a little confused because my father has four uncles and brothers and three cousins.
"It's your aunt's daughter who cheated on her, and many people know it."
"How do you know? Don't talk nonsense!"
"A teacher in our kindergarten in the same village said it, and now everyone in the village knows it!"
"WC, then does my aunt know?"
"I don't know, I should have been hiding it from her."
I was shocked. My cousin was born in the early 1980s and didn't study much, so I survived the hard days.
But since I married my cousin's husband on a blind date, my life has changed drastically.
does not have to farm, and they follow the trends, play mobile phones, play D sounds, and play mahjong, and often dress up themselves as another landscape.
A few years after the eldest son graduated from junior high school, he studied cook in a restaurant, and his younger children went to junior high school, and there was no financial burden at all.
My cousin's husband speaks little and is taciturn. In addition to smoking and drinking, I also like to play some small cards. I have worked outside for many years and earned money. I should have saved a lot of money over the years.
My cousin's husband works as a "big work" on the construction site. The only things that migrant workers can make a lot of money on construction sites are plastering and tiling.
And my cousin's wife has been plastering for so many years, and her deposits are definitely no less than six figures.
Don’t worry about food and drink, why did my cousin do this?
In the era of big data, we have to admire the magic of technology. It seems to be able to understand people's minds and will always launch content related to you at the right time.
After getting off work in the evening, I actually heard my cousin's D sound.
I, who are both born in the 1980s, rarely play this, and even my circle of friends is rarely updated twice a year.
So, I didn’t follow the social accounts of many relatives and friends.
clicks to open my cousin’s homepage and sees that there are more than 100 updates, and more than 80% of them are selfies after applying makeup.
What’s more important is that there are several choruses with a young man, and their relationships are very ambiguous.
This made me a little angry and strange, when did my cousin become so open?
Which cheating object is the card friend? Or a bachelor's face? Or is it a swinger in the town? A husband with a wife?
What I am more worried about is whether the miserable aunt knows it? How can I accept it?
The aunt gave birth to three children in total:
After my cousin got married, due to the strength of my cousin's wife, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's disagreement often made the family mess.
After getting married in the early years, my cousin bleeded heavily when she gave birth to her son. Due to backward medical conditions at that time, she unfortunately died at the operating table of a township hospital.
I originally thought that my youngest daughter was my only sustenance and pride, but unexpectedly another scandal happened.
Good things don’t go out, bad things spread thousands of miles.Even if there is no Internet in the countryside, the spread of some rumors is enough to bloom thousands of pear trees overnight.
However, this is just the beginning.
After the incident, my cousin never returned to the village, and rarely went back to her parents' home, and lived directly in a rental house in the town.
But for some reason, at the door of her rented house, she was often thrown into feces in the middle of the night, and it lasted for a long time.
Perhaps, someone is taking revenge.
Later, my cousin's husband rushed back from another place. After learning the truth, he became mentally ill and was sent to the county psychiatric hospital for recuperation for a long time.
What's this?
is a bit realistic, it is really more bloody than a TV series.
As a relative, no matter what happened between the couple, the reasons and excuses, I feel that my cheating cousin is unforgivable.
As a man, his wife put a hat on him, which was still green, but she didn't fight or make a fuss or divorce, and even made herself crazy...
is simply incredible!
What's even more incredible is that this time I went back to my hometown on National Day, and I met my cousin in the town. She greeted me warmly from afar, and chatted and laughed calmly with the people next to me, as if that thing had never happened before.
Stately pointing to her, but she is still calm.
Yes, I knew it before, but I don’t know it or I don’t know it. Time may dilute everything.
As long as she doesn't go back to the village, what can those flying spit do to her?
Is our life really getting better and better?
In the 1980s and 1990s, life was hard and life was difficult, but there were very few cases of cheating and divorce, and even the conversation changed drastically.
In recent years, material life has been getting better and better, but the wind of cheating has spread from cities to rural areas, even from hidden to public.
Where is the source of sin? The cost of cheating on
is too small!
"Once infidelity, no need for life" may be just a play. Most cheaters' other half choose silence and forbearance because of their feelings, children, and various influences.
Even if you choose to divorce, what punishment can the cheater be considered? Perhaps, they have already paved the way out and are fearless.
This makes some couples who break through their minds because of feelings, money and desires unable to hold on, eager to try, and finally break through the final moral defense line.
If morality cannot be stopped, derailment should be legislated!
