I am a very realistic person. My friends say that I live a transparent and live a life of fireworks. My purpose of choosing a boyfriend is to get married, and the love of young people is too far away from me. Being able to live together is the primary issue I consider, but I didn’t expect that the person who ended up becoming my boyfriend was because of his circle of friends.
8 years old, I began to consider getting married.
When the aunt and aunt heard that I was considering getting married, they were particularly happy to introduce the young talents around me. After all, they have advised me for so many years. I have always been busy with work and many life goals have not been achieved as an excuse and politely refuse.
After more than half a year of getting along, I am not sure who should establish a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with between the two of them.
Let me call these two men Xiao A and Xiao B first.
Xiao A has a cheerful personality, sunny and handsome, two years older than me, just the age of Yizhihua.
He is humorous, can catch all my memes, will make me happy, and will take the initiative to buy me gifts. When it comes to holidays and birthdays, I feel a lot of ritual, so I send flowers to buy cakes. It is hard for a man like
not to make people feel moved, I am indeed a little moved by Xiao A.
Xiao B is the opposite of Xiao A. He is a bit dull person. He is not as smart as Xiao A, but he is absolutely reliable in doing things and will do what he promised. As long as I need it, he will definitely come by my side. I have a little difficulty in making a choice for two people like
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Later, I became boyfriend and girlfriend with Xiao B, and what made me decide was because of the circle of friends of the two.
Xiao A is a person who is very good at living, has a lot of life interests and has a wide range of hobbies. We have done a lot with our friends: going over the mountains together, cycling together, and volunteering together.
Xiao A takes a lot of photos and likes to post on Moments. He posts every day, and even posts many messages a day. But we have known each other for half a year, and there has never been a photo of me in all his circle of friends, let alone a photo of us.
I asked Xiao A why, and he said that the circle of friends is just a casual post and he doesn’t talk about love on the circle of friends. I laughed, and I had already guessed in my heart.
Xiao B doesn’t like taking photos very much, nor does he like to post on WeChat Moments. In the six months since we met, he posted on Moments 20 times, and I was seen 18 times.
was my back photo at first, and then my side photo at later, and even posted our photos twice recently.
He and I have a common friend. When I saw someone ask him who I am, his reply was simple and clear: I like someone.
I said that Xiao B and I became boyfriend and girlfriend because of Xiao B’s circle of friends, and everyone found it incredible. I think I must be joking.
Little B, how could a person who doesn’t post on WeChat Moments very much? I smiled without saying a word.
My friend said that when I heard such an answer, I didn’t feel like me. A person who lives in a realistic and transparent way actually chose a boyfriend in his circle of friends.
and my particularly good friend said, "I didn't expect you, a person who is almost 30 years old, are still so superficial. You actually want to show your love in your circle of friends."
When I finished telling the reason, they showed a look that was the same and gave me a thumbs up.
" Xiao A is unwilling to post any information about me on his Moments, because he is afraid that I will scare away other fish in his pond. A feeling that needs to be hidden in his Moments is not love, but ambiguity. I may just be one of the many fish in the pond he wants to catch. Even if I choose him, he may not necessarily choose me. He should always think about whether he can meet a better one. If he finally chooses me, it should be just because he has no better choice, and I don't want to be his second choice."
" Xiao B is willing to post messages about me on his Moments, and he takes great risks. A person who dares to say that he likes me in his Moments when we are not sure whether we will become boyfriend and girlfriend has rejected others. "
Later, Xiao A and I met several times. There were different girls around him. He still updated his circle of friends every day, but there was still no girl in his circle of friends, and there was no photo of him and the girl.
When Xiao B and I became boyfriend and girlfriend, he wanted to tell the world that I could not stop him from showing his love in his circle of friends.
The little pussy said that when you are in a real relationship, you should send a circle of friends to tell everyone that they are
He took me to meet his friends, his colleagues and his family, told me Everyone I am his girlfriend, she wants to get married. A person who is not good at speaking gives me all the security I want.
National Day, I agreed to Xiao B's proposal.
I am @Xiao Xiejie Emotional , looking forward to meeting you in the world of text.
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