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Love is not a one-man show. In this world, there are so many unrequited love that cannot be obtained.
If you love someone sincerely, don’t think about giving heart-to-heart or without asking for rewards. You might as well determine the other person’s character first. If you are worth loving and pursue it, if you are not worth loving, no matter how much you give, it will be useless. It will only hurt you more deeply and suffer greater losses.
If a girl often contacts you at the following three moments, she is probably not affectionate to you, but uses you as a spare tire. No matter how much you love, you must be careful.
1: Contact you when someone needs to pay the bill, it can be seen that it is not your people who value it, but your money
Some girls will deliberately have an ambiguous relationship with many friends of the opposite sex, making others mistakenly think that they have a chance, but in fact, she is just for the convenience of herself.
What she really values is not the other party’s people, but the other party’s money.
When she goes out for dinner or goes shopping, she will deliberately find someone to pay. If the other party accepts it, it will give him some sweetness; if she refuses, she will feel that the other party does not love her, and it is fake to treat her well usually.
Many men are too proud of their face and have to buy it when the atmosphere reaches this point, so they can only suffer the loss.
Once or twice is fine. If this is often the case and you still don’t realize that there is something wrong with her character, then it is your problem.
Girls who really like you and want to go with you for a long time will not use you like this at all. They always want to take advantage of you because they know how to understand you and have self-esteem.
2: Contact you when you need help, it means you have no true feelings for you. Instead, you can only use
Some men are always slow in their relationship. If you like someone, you will think about treating her with all your heart. However, this kind of goodness may be just your wishful thinking. The other party may not appreciate it or cherish it.
She will think you are stupid and easy to use, so she will bully you more unscrupulously.
For example, she always looks for you when she needs you, and usually just treats you as air. Such behavior shows that she does not regard you very much, does not respect you very much, and cares about you.
On the contrary, she just thinks that you are simple and sincere and can provide her with certain help. She can use you regardless of consequences or costs, which is a very cost-effective thing.
But you always think that she is asking you to give you a chance to perform well, so you give stupidly. But without exception, you will soon find that she doesn't need you anymore and immediately throws you aside.
If you often feel that you are not taken seriously and not taken seriously, you should stop the loss in time because she is not a good person. No matter how much you give, you will not get any response.
3: Contact you during the window of love, and do not confirm the relationship with you, just simply ambiguous
Ambiguous lies have always hurt others and oneself. They are obviously getting along like a couple, but they do not use the name of a couple. This kind of obvious behavior of playing with feelings cannot be touched by ordinary people, because you may not be able to afford to play and lose.
There are many women in life who always lack awe for their feelings.
When you are in love, you will be able to raise a lot of spare tires, and once you break up, you will immediately take it. For them, falling in love is as ordinary as eating, and they will be together as they like the taste, and they will break up directly if they are tired of it.
If you find a girl who always looks for you during the emotional window, but never confirms her relationship with you, it means that you are just one of her spare tires and there is no need to give too much emotion.
She is ambiguous with you, not likes you, but is just simply bored and lonely. Otherwise, she will not be ambiguous with you, but will remain loyal to you. You must always be alert to this.
When you don’t have much emotional experience, you may feel that loving someone is very difficult, but it is very difficult to fall in love with each other. It’s obvious that you have paid so much but still have no results. Is it because your life is too good?
But in fact, when you reach a certain stage, you will understand that in this world there are more love but no one.
Don’t stubbornly love someone who doesn’t love you, don’t be used and hurt by others in vain. If you realize that a relationship brings you only when you consume it, you should stop the loss in time. Don’t waste your best self on the wrong person. The real right person is still waiting for you ahead, you must believe it.
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