My husband is a son-in-law with a good temper and no bad habits. I paid 8,000 yuan a month and never left private money. Yesterday he paid the salary but didn't pay it to me. I asked and he had a big fight with me. I was excited for a moment and slapped him in the face. What happened later made me regret it.
My name is Kong Weiling, I am 28 years old this year. My husband is from Congolese, Burmese, and his name is Tonga, and their native language is Chinese. We communicate very easily. He is one year older than me and we have a daughter. Because my husband married into our family, the child naturally took my surname Kong. They have no surnames for Burmese people, so they also follow my surname Kong, and we are colleagues. At that time, there was no one in his hometown, so he came to China to develop. If you have no nationality, you can only marry into China and be considered a legal citizen. Later we worked in the same company and I was the human resources manager. He is a salesperson in the company. He was an honest man, and we were not in love at the time.
I remember that I looked down on him very much at that time and thought his conditions were too poor, so I didn’t feel anything about Tongjia. At work, I found that he was very nice to me, so I started to pay attention to him. After
, the company organized a dinner party. Unexpectedly, Tongjia would propose to me in front of everyone. I was shocked at that time and he took out a ring. At that time, I was not prepared at all, and in full view of everyone, I agreed to him.
A few months after we were together, we rented a house. He treats me very well. And very hardworking. At home, I am an only child and basically don’t do housework, so I have all the housework at home. His salary was 4,000 yuan at that time. My salary was 6,000. I asked him to pay 4,000 yuan a month, but he did not object and gave it to me every month.
When I took him back to my house for the first time, my parents were very polite to him. My mother said, "Tongjia, I only have such a daughter, so I hope she can stay with us. We don't want a penny of the bride price. We will cover all the fees for marriage. We will help you with your household registration, but you must marry into our house, and your surname is Kong. That's all."
At that time, he said without hesitation: Auntie, I agree, as long as I can be with Xiaoling, I will follow your arrangements! My parents and I were very satisfied at that time. Not long after, we applied for the marriage certificate and held a wedding.
Half a year after marriage, I became pregnant. Tongjia is very attentive to me and takes good care of my family. Because the salary is not too high, my father later asked someone to arrange him in a large company. He has a skill and the company values him very much, but his salary is only 8,000 yuan. It is because he is not a Chinese citizen.
After his daughter was born, he still handed me his salary on time every month. So he has no money left on his chances. I will give him pocket money occasionally. He doesn’t smoke or drink, so his life expenses are also small.
I received an additional salary yesterday, but the next day, I haven't given it to me yet. I was very surprised and asked him on his own initiative: "Have you not paid this month's salary?" Tongjia said: "I can't give you the salary this month." I said angrily at the time, "You don't drink or smoke. If you don't give me money, what do you want to do?"
Tongjia said: From next month, I will give you half of your salary every month. "I was excited for a moment and slapped him in the face. He looked at me hatefully and ran out of the door. At this time, my mother heard us quarrel, walked out of the house and asked what was going on? I told my mother that he had not paid his salary this month. My mother said, "Does he have something urgent? Don't get me wrong about him. "
I cried and said, "He is now earning 8,000 yuan, and he just gave me 4,000 yuan, and there are still 4,000 yuan left. Has he raised a woman outside? His wings are hard. This is. "My mother comforted me and said, "Tongjia is an honest child and will not mess around outside. You have no evidence, so don't be suspicious. "
I didn't give up. That day I waited for him downstairs of their company. I saw him get into a black car, and there was a woman sitting next to him. In order to find out the truth, I followed him quietly. I came to the People's Hospital in the city.
I saw him and that woman entered the hospital building. I also took photos of the scene with my cell phone and followed them all the way. Unexpectedly, what happened later made me feel overwhelmed.
I followed them quietly. Following them to a ward, I looked in and saw a man lying on the hospital bed with her husband sitting next to her.
Only then did I see clearly that the man actually looked a bit like him. I suddenly realized that the money left by my husband should be used to treat this man?
I was about to leave when the woman saw me and said why my sister-in-law was here. At this time, Tongjia turned around and saw me and asked me why I was here. I was at a loss. I couldn't say I came with him secretly. I said: I accompanied my colleague to see a doctor. I happened to see you downstairs and followed me. Then I asked Tonga who were these two people?
Usually said that the person lying on the hospital bed is his cousin, and the woman is his sister-in-law. I quickly interrupted and said, "Brother is sick, why didn't you tell me? I just rushed downstairs and forgot to buy something. Husband, please accompany me to buy some fruit for the field!" After
came out, he quickly apologized to me and said, "I was wrong this morning, and I shouldn't be angry at you. It was my brother who was sick and was in a hurry to have a surgery." I also said awkwardly, "Your brother is short of money for treatment, you can tell me!" Seeing me saying this, Tongjia nodded with confidence.
My husband is a miserable child. When he was young, he lived in Myanmar . After his parents died, his uncle in China brought him over. Unexpectedly, his uncle and aunt also passed away. My cousin depended on him for life. Now his cousin is sick and encounters difficulties. It is all my fault that he didn't notice it. I also reflected on myself. In the future, I will give my classmates an additional 1,000 yuan in living expenses every month. My husband nodded silently with tears in his eyes.
Everyone said, am I doing it right?
