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Good marriage will make women feel happy and beautiful, but if you marry the wrong man, you will fall into trouble in the future. No matter how hard you struggle, it is difficult to escape.
After marriage, truly smart men will cherish their existing family and will not vent all their bad emotions on their wives.
However, men with narrow hearts are mostly macho and it is difficult to respect their partner's feelings.
Once a man gets married, he will only have a better life by learning to be kind to his wife first.
On the contrary, the more a couple gets along, the more difficult it is for a man who will treat his wife like this.
01: A irritable personality, never feel sorry for your wife, never give in every quarrel
When in love, a man will try his best to meet your requirements in order to please you, and his temper will also appear gentle.
When you are in a bad temper, he will find a way to make you happy. Even if he feels wronged, he will not get angry with you.
However, after marriage, the other person's personality changed a few times and he would no longer tolerate your little emotions like before.
If a man has a very irritable personality, never knows how to feel sorry for his wife's efforts, and never give in every quarrel, then his career is destined to be difficult to succeed.
He doesn’t even know how to tolerate and give love to his closest partner, so how could he be patient with the people around him?
Li Ze (pseudonym) and his wife have been married for less than three years. Every time he quarreled, his attitude was very tough. Regardless of whether he had any reason or not, he felt that it was right, and his wife had no right to refute him as a woman.
His personality is very strong and he has to do everything according to his requirements, otherwise he will throw things. At home, Li Ze has a very bad temper and his emotions are always out of control.
The wife is not only good-looking, but also very family-oriented. The friends around her envy Li Ze for being able to meet such a good woman.
But he doesn't know how to cherish it at all and always picks on his wife's minor problems.
When a couple gets along, if a man always has a bad temper towards his partner and does not know how to give in, his life is destined to be unhappy.
Especially after middle age, when the partner accumulates enough disappointment, he will make up his mind to leave him.
A man with a selfish personality and cannot control his emotions will find it difficult to seize the real opportunity, and his career will be in a mess.
02: There is no boundary to get along with the opposite sex, and his attitude towards marriage is very frivolous
A man with a sense of responsibility knows how to keep a distance from the opposite sex during the love process, let alone after getting married.
Because they care about their lover's feelings and do not want to lose their existing happiness, they will always remind themselves not to cross the line easily.
However, some men have a frivolous attitude towards marriage. Even if they get married, they feel as if they are still single, and they will get along with the opposite sex casually.
In their opinion, even if they have a family, they still have the right to get close to the opposite sex.
When the wife discovers his ambiguous relationship and confronts him, the man will be angry and blame the woman for being too stingy and not having a big mind.
Wang Ting (pseudonym) got married to her husband in the fourth year. She had just given birth to a child shortly after she thought her husband would be better for her. However, he worked overtime until late at night every day before returning home.
If he really did it for work, Wang Ting wouldn't be angry. But in fact, my husband is just spending money outside and not really considering his family.
Wang Ting saw that there were many contact information of the opposite sex on his mobile phone, and the chat content on WeChat was also very close.
She felt very sad and would quarrel with her husband over these things.
But the other party never felt that he had done something wrong, and even became more arrogant. Wang Ting endured all the hardships for the child.
However, when she had the ability to leave, Wang Ting did not leave any more.
A few years later, after her career gradually improved, she decided to divorce her husband. Wang Ting has the ability to give her children a comfortable life, and she also has her own plans for the future, and she is very confident in her heart.
And my husband is almost forty years old, has no achievements, and has done very poorly. They soon divorced, and no matter how much her ex-husband pleaded for mercy, she was not soft-hearted.
. The more a man treats his wife like this, the harder it will be to have a future.
Those truly successful men know how to cherish their partner’s love and dedication. They will only lose their temper with outsiders and will tolerate and respect their lovers.
If you want to have a happy family and have a good career development, being good for your wife is a prerequisite. Only when you do this will your life begin to move uphill.
