A few days ago I saw an article with the general meaning of the title:
"Girls who are in their thirties cannot find a partner. Don't be anxious. There is no partner not because you are not good, but because you are too excellent"
I transferred this article to a friend, who works in an marriage agency company and has five or six years of experience in organizing blind dates.
has matched countless men and women in her hands and successfully found the partner they like, and the marriage rate in the end was also very high.
When she saw this title, she threw me the voice:
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This is the same as saying that you can’t find a partner because you are too good!
Based on my six years of experience as a matchmaker, I can assert that:
No matter whether you are a man or a woman, don’t say it’s excellent. As long as you are a normal person, you won’t be able to find a partner in your thirties. “
Do you think this is reasonable?
I personally think it is a bit extreme.
Maybe my friend is from the perspective of her senior matchmaker. Anyway, there are not ten thousand men and women she has seen, but there are eight thousand.
In terms of marriage, it can be said that it can understand the mentality of men and women thoroughly.
From the perspective of an ordinary person, I talk about the reasons why women or men over the age of thirty cannot find a partner.
I met a little sister in the reading group before.
This little sister called her Xiao Zhao. She was 26 years old when she started blind dates.
Actually, this age is not among friends at all, but her parents are still quite anxious.
has been arranging a blind date for her and asked someone to help her introduce her.
Xiao Zhao is a more traditional good girl and is not very repulsive to blind dates.
She told me that most of the men she met on blind dates were better than hers.
Xiao Zhao's conditions are as follows:
26 years old, with a master's degree, a third-tier city public institution, with an annual income of 10+
Her family bought her a small house in the city. Both her parents retired in physical condition and have good pension benefits.
Xiao Zhao himself looks average and dresses in a gentle style.
Almost every blind date partner expressed her satisfaction with her!
is really not an exaggeration. There are a few who are particularly moved by her. They even asked to buy her a car as soon as they met.
Xiao Zhao was so scared that he said no, but he just met him and was actually a stranger, and he didn't even understand him. Just buy a car for
?
Then she picked it for about a year, and there were about ten of them.
By the end of the year, in the middle of winter, relatives introduced her to another one.
The weather was too cold, she wanted to break the appointment, but she thought it was really impolite.
so they went there with a bit of bullets. As a result, after meeting, they really called each other at first sight.
After learning about it, I learned that
This boy is the same age as her and his birthday is a little older than her.
html earns twice her annual income, and she looks very refreshing, even if it is a college student, some people believe it.Then this boy doesn't smoke, drink, or plays games. His only hobby is: cooking...
is really not a pretend character. Later, after they got married, they have always been the man cooking.
Miss Xiao Zhao thought at that time that he had to hurry up and marry!
So the relationship was finalized. The two were in love for two years and registered to serve wine at the end of the second year.
After hearing about her love and marriage story, all of us thought:
She is the ceiling for ordinary people to date and get married!
Isn't it?
The woman has a stable income and a decent job, she has a house and a car, and she is looking for a partner of the same age, and is better than her in terms of economics.
and there is no machism at all. Most of them cook, and the woman is responsible for cleaning.
I feel like the two of them are singing in harmony and holding each other's faces together. How great it is.
But among our friends, there is a single female friend in her thirties. She sneered at Xiao Zhao's couple:
"The little girl has never seen any good men, and she will be a treasure when she sees this level. Her annual salary is more than 200,000 yuan, not as high as me!"
"Little local women are like this. They have never seen the world in their lifetime, and their eyes are shallow. If they don't die, they will die."
In short, they feel that they look down on their marriage.
And she herself, she had two boyfriends when she was in her twenties, and it was not short.
One for three years, one for four years, but in the end, no one achieved the right result.
is still alone now.
She is indeed very successful in her career and is now in a middle-level manager of an Internet company.
But I think she has a bad mentality!
In fact, whether to choose to fall in love or to get married is nothing like high or low.
This is all personal choice.
Whether you choose to enter the siege of marriage or choose to be a free and single life, as long as people can be responsible for themselves, there is nothing to blame.
After all, life is like drinking water, and you will know the warmth and coldness.
Discussion
"The object cannot be found because you are too excellent and others are not worthy of it" What do you think of the view that you are?
welcome to share in the comment area.
