Yes, don’t imagine that this type of third party will be ruthless to you, and they will not let you go because of your hard begging. After all, for her, you are just competitors, and only one of the two survives. If you are soft-hearted to you, then they will be the ones who are hurt in the end. This has already involved personal interests.
Maybe many conscientious original wives will never be able to understand in their entire lives:
How can this world have a third party who specializes in destroying other people's families? Why are they so shameless? Do they have no family, children, and parents, and aren’t they afraid of shame for their families?
How can you be born as a human being without a bottom line to this level? They are all women, why don’t they have compassion? empathize with . A good family is because of their intervention, so the family cannot get married. Anyone who encounters a third party like
will be a disaster. And once you get involved in your family, it will be like a gangrene that is attached to the bone and is difficult to get rid of.
For you, being involved in
means that marriage is trampled on,
means that the relationship between husband and wife is broken and reversed;
means that this relationship may be lost at any time;
means that the growth of children will be affected,
means that past investment and efforts will be wiped out.
But for a third party, her intervention
means that she can enjoy the man's concern for her;
means that she can enjoy the man's caress on her;
means that she can enjoy the man's spending money on her;
means that she can have a support from now on.
is bustling with people, all for profit.
So what kind of people are used to being a 3?
1. My family is very average, I dropped out of school early, and I ended my compulsory teaching early at the age of fifteen or sixteen. Some may go to vocational school , and some even go directly to a factory to find a job.
got married and gave birth to children before he was a grown-up. It is precisely because I have not grown up that the so-called marriage means holding a banquet, and I have not received an marriage certificate . After a few years, even the children have existed, and the relationship between husband and wife has broken down. At that time, I was only in my early twenties, so I went straight to a completely unfamiliar environment and started a new life again.
is not very skilled because of its low education. But if you want to live in a strange city and live well, the fastest way is to accumulate wealth through flesh-color transactions. To please a person is far easier than to please a group of people. So becoming a third party is the fastest and most comfortable channel for them.
2. There is no fixed job, no stable source of income, and no like to endure hardships.
Such women have one common characteristic: self-confidence and narcissism.
The expression of self-confidence is to like to show outwardly. They will appear in various social channels. For us, it is to share life, but for them, it is to capture prey.
They never stingy with showing their bodies outward, nor do they easily refuse men's deliberate teasing.
They can show weakness and show their helplessness and pity in front of men, thereby inspiring the heroic complex of men; they can also show determination and make decisions under the impulse of hesitating men.
Other people’s life and death have nothing to do with them. Your own experience is the king.
3. Divorced woman. Compared with unmarried or mixed women, divorced women have less constraints and bonds they should have. And there is no need for the awesome loyalty to marriage.
Love and loyalty are jokes to them, only interests and being loved are their points of pursuit.
Because they have a marriage history, they understand the psychology of the original wife and their weaknesses and pain points; because they have lost their marriage, they are unscrupulous and unscrupulous.
Because they have a history of marriage, they have a clear understanding of human nature and are well aware of men's needs.For them, a romantic relationship is like a cat and mouse game, which seems to be restrained, but in fact it has been controlled.
4. Ear reading, eye-to-eye and eye-to-eye teaching,
For parents, in addition to paying attention to learning in their children's personal growth, we will also pay attention to teaching children's morality. Be a person first, then do things.
But for some families, morality is illusory, and only interests are real. Moreover, they themselves may be third parties, so they always sneer at secular constraints.
So they not only encourage their children to intervene in other people's families, but also look for their children to screen for prey. Assisting in time when necessary.
For men, cheating and raising children is not a glorious thing. It is because parents who need to avoid third parties, fearing that the other party's parents will have some concerns if they think they are doing their children. However, in the face of such a family, the other party’s parents will not only not discourage their children, but will also encourage them.
So, living in such a family, intervening is family tradition.
In summary, they are either unemployed or engaged in some jobs with gray transactions. For example, anchors, service industries, bars, nightclubs, etc.
And because they are abusive, they not only know men well, but also have a clearer understanding of the psychological dynamics of the original wife. They have intervened in more than just your marriage, so they have sufficient experience in confronting their original wife.
This is why when faced with this type of third party, the original partner often feels powerless and feels that the other party is impeccable.
Many original partners may have such questions: How dare men date such third parties? Are you not afraid of backlash? Are you swallowed without any bones?
For some men with relatively successful careers:
I worked hard for half my life and finally accumulated so much wealth. I finally got from a country child to being supported and praised by others. Why can't I enjoy it?
For the family, as a man, I am the economic pillar of the family, and I am not irresponsible for what I should bear;
For the wife, as my husband, I provide her with wealth that 80% of men cannot provide. I don’t let her worry about money, and I don’t have to run around for life. Although I owe her my cheating, I have given her some other things to make up for it, and she should be smarter. After all, cheating is not a big deal. Who wouldn’t cheat with my partner or business friends? There is one that is clean. Moreover, men's cheating is a skill and a reflection of personal ability. Sometimes, it is a helping to promote career. Why can't you be smarter and more contented?
For children, my cheating will not affect my children. Whenever, the children are my biological children. I will do what my father should do and lay the foundation and plan for my child’s future.
This kind of men are very confident in themselves. They confidently believe that they control everything, including the lovers they are dating now. He believes that he is just playing with the other party and will not fall into this relationship. Moreover, he can completely control such a three-person relationship and will not affect his family or his children.
But he overestimated his own control ability and underestimated the ambition of a third party.
For him, when he first started dating a third party, he might be just greedy for the other party’s appearance, figure, young body, and good interests, but as the relationship is cultivated, the feelings will be gradually cultivated. After all, if you have physical dependence on a third party, it is easy to develop emotional dependence.
And it may be that your cheating at the beginning will indeed balance the relationship between your wife and lover, but as the date time grows, the gap and distance between husband and wife will definitely become bigger and bigger.
These are still subjective changes. The objective impact is even more serious.
After all, for a third party, meeting this type of high-quality man is a money tree. As long as you follow him, you won’t have to change your lover frequently in the future.
Serving one is much easier than servicing multiple. So he still kept surrounding the man, catering to him as much as possible, pleasing him and pleasing him.
In this process, do you think she wants to get ahead? Will it be possible to establish two people through extreme methods, such as pregnancy, etc. In my consulting career, I have encountered many third parties similar to those, whose demands are not only to separate the original wife, but also to separate the fourth party as third parties.
Their sense of crisis is much greater than that of the original partner. Many of the original wives have a good financial situation, but they are also used to being thrifty in their family. Not willing to invest too much in marriage in men. However, for this type of third parties, even if their financial conditions are average, they will spend a lot of money to consolidate their relationship.
For men with sperm, they will capsize in the gutter. So how can people with lower abilities tell whether they are angels or demons?
