-01-
Love someone on tiptoe. If you have too long, you will be tired!
Recently watched a love variety show. There is a female guest in
. When the first time a man and a woman had a dinner to describe the first impression of each other, a boy was given a sentence, "It seems like an old friend is coming."
Then, in the following episodes of the show, the boy pursued her straight and persistently, dedicated and innocent:
writes letters to this girl every day, and every letter is full of affection. Every time you go on a separate date, you are eager to be with this girl. You must be with the girl in the same roof when you choose a yard... But you did so many things, and the answer the girl gave him was: You put too much pressure on me.
The girl was enjoying the surprise brought to her by the boy. She was grateful to him, but she felt guilty. She thought about making it clear to the other party, but every time, when she was wronged in front of the male guest she liked, she turned her eyes to him, and the two of them were just ambiguous.
Many people are in the barrage and call the boys: Don’t love them so humbly anymore!
Yes, I’ve been tiptoing to love someone, are you tired?
It’s a pity that the boy only has that girl in his eyes. Even if he is tired, he will not shout it out, let alone quit.
I guess all viewers can see that this boy did not enter the girl's heart at all, and just wrote poems and confessed and gave gifts. For this girl, except for being moved, she had never given him a substantial love response.
Even at the end of the show, the girl chose to be with him because she had no choice, so she temporarily became a pair with him.
It can be seen that there are always some people who are a little vain. When they can't get the person they like, they will think that at least there is still this person who can give him a little comfort, so they are reluctant to explain it clearly and do not want the other party to let him go;
Of course, there is also one thing, that is, he can't bear to refuse directly, he is afraid of making a person who is infatuated with him sad. After all, there is a person he likes very much in his heart, and he knows the tormenting mood very well.
However, even if this kind of love that is together is difficult to get to the point where you enter love.
-02-
There is a sign between men and women. It seems to be "together", but it is just "make up"
Still remember, when I was a student, there was a time when the teacher guided everyone to discuss a topic:
"If a person likes you very much and is particularly good to you, but you are not moved by him at all, will you be with him?"
Someone said: You should not refuse. After all, it feels good to find someone who likes you when you are in love.
Someone said: I guess that person will eventually become a spare tire around him.
Someone said: It's difficult. If I don't fall in love with him, I will hardly give him hope.
...
It can be seen that in love, there will be a phenomenon: even if the person you love does nothing, you will like it very much; and no matter how much the person you love does, you will treat it as a kind of comfort in loneliness.
In life, there is always a kind of relationship between men and women. One party is trying his best to make the other party happy, while the other party is sad for the person he is happy as soon as he meets.
When two people have this sign, they are probably just a douche with each other, and there is no such thing as falling in love at all.
Yes, he pleases you in every way. Although you don’t like him so much, fortunately, he can try every means to make you happy when you are lonely; when you need help, call him and he will come in a hurry; you can get drunk together and talk about your worries together... Although you don’t love him, whenever you want to find comfort, you can’t help but look at him.
So, you are becoming more and more ambiguous. You can feel the deep affection in his eyes when he looks at you. Unfortunately, you can't like him in your heart, and you are also very guilty and sad.
However, in your heart, you are still thinking about the person you love but don’t love you.
how sad!
-03-
Love, you can't "make it"!
I have read a novel.
describes such a pair of men and women.
Women are the school beauties, and men are famous rich second-generation young masters.
Women originally had a boyfriend, but because their boyfriend was going abroad to study, the rich second generation fell in love with the heroine and immediately seized the opportunity to come and show their attention.
Women were originally disdainful of this kind of peach blossom, but a girl who had a crush on her boyfriend made trouble. This rich second generation often appeared just right when she was in trouble, giving her a lot of security.
At this time, news suddenly came that my boyfriend was with other girls abroad. Although the girl still loved her boyfriend very much, she was still with the rich second generation in the end.
Rich second generation is very affectionate. Whenever she sends a message to a girl, she has to think about it for a long time. He agrees to what the girl asks for, and does everything in the ground. He even has a dispute with his family because she has.
However, just one year after the two got married, the girl's former boyfriend returned to China, and the three of them were involved in a love triangle.
and pull each other, the final outcome is that all the efforts of the rich second generation were "in vain", and the girl was with her ex-boyfriend again.
shows that in this love, there will still be lovers who truly love each other and finally get married. Only the foolish person who gives is the only loser.
There are always some people who do not love the other person, but are just moved by the other person's behavior, and they selfishly feel that since that person loves him so much, loves him and can make him happy at any time, then okay, anyway, the person I like doesn't love me, wouldn't it be better to find someone who loves him?
There are always some people who know that the other party does not love him, but he still gives everything for the other party without hesitation. He thought that as long as he persisted, he would definitely touch the other party's heart, but in the end he was just someone else's runaway.
Love, really, can't be "make it"!
-04-
True love, you need to be in love with each other in order to be together for a long time
In life, men and women will be together, and there will be some imperfections.
may have disagreeable personalities, inconsistent views, or have different family backgrounds, but the saddest thing is: the person you don’t like loves you deeply, and the person you like does not love you.
is just because a person who doesn’t love you, he doesn’t love you, and no matter how much you do, he just looks at you hastily. He can’t see your efforts at all.
However, what is surprising is that many people in , when facing a person they don’t love, they don’t want to refuse, but are eager to be hurt in front of the person they like, and they can look for comfort in this person again and again.
Then, he left the other party again and again because of guilt, and repeatedly tossed and treated others as a "spare tire".
Perhaps, in the emotional world, people who try their best to make you laugh will never be as good as those who can feel infinitely turbulent in your heart when you look at him.
However, if a person has been giving in love, he will definitely want to ask for rewards. After countless times of "not getting it", he will feel infinite emotions in his heart, he will become more and more unhappy, and the more he loves, the more he feels, the more he is depressed. A love like
is definitely just a short-term "make-up", and such "together" is just an ambiguous relationship.
So, don’t love it too seriously. When it’s time to let go, let it go!
Try to love someone else, and you will find that you can also fall in love with others again and make yourself devote yourself to it again, simple, innocent, and affectionate.
Under the day, although there are few encounters between the two people who love each other, love should have love for each other in order to survive this ups and downs and ups and downs.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
