. Old Chen may not be the first person to have such an idea, but he has the opportunity to do so.
For families with only children, parents know that their children cannot just accompany them. They have to take care of both husband and wife. Two people raise the four elders. Children have difficulties in both energy and financial terms.
If you join the family to support your elderly care, this problem may be solved. The elderly can take care of each other, and it is convenient for children to take care of them. No matter how you think about it, it is a good thing that is beneficial and harmless.
Old Chen has only one only son. He had considered the pension issue of his husband and wife for a long time, and even gave himself the expectation of building a nursing home in the past. He hopes that his son can relax his pension issues and try not to cause trouble for his children.
The second year after my son went to another place to go to college, he told Lao Chen that he was in love when he came home during the winter vacation. The other party was his college classmate and a girl from the city. Old Chen felt very happy. The son was in love, which means he had grown up. He told his son to have a serious conversation and be worthy of the girl.
The son and partner chose to come back to work after graduating from college. At this time, Lao Chen saw another possibility: the girl is also the only daughter of the family, and the two families have only two children. Will there be a chance to join the family in the future? The elderly help their lives together, and the children are relaxed, and the elderly can take care of each other and share the joy of family.
Soon, Lao Chen and his in-laws Lao Zhao met. The two families ate a meal. They regretted that they met too late and were both satisfied.
said it was the first time we met, and eating was just a manifestation. In fact, during the three years when the children were in love, Lao Chen and Lao Zhao had already touched each other's family and people through their relationship. Their hometown is not big and nothing can be hidden from others.
Lao Chen and Lao Zhao are both righteous families. They both have good units and good jobs. Their families are not rich, but they are also well-off in small towns. Now that the children are together, there is no reason for their dissatisfaction.
The child has an emotional foundation, both parents are satisfied, and there is no financial pressure yet, and the marriage is quickly confirmed. After the children's wedding house was selected, Lao Chen had a sudden idea and solicited opinions from his in-laws, whether he would like to buy a house in each of the children's communities. It would be better for the two families to be on the same building and the same floor. In the future, the children could go home without running away, which would also be convenient for taking care of the children.
Lao Zhao of the in-laws responded without cheating. He thought this was the best way. Even if the children were busy and didn’t care about taking care of the elderly, the four elderly people could take care of each other and keep warm. Once the matter of
was settled, it soon became a reality. Lao Chen and Lao Zhao chose two houses on the same floor, imagining that this floor was their territory, and with grandchildren in the future, they could open their doors.
Everything is moving towards the direction planned by Lao Chen, and it is indeed the case after his son gets married. The two families are always open, and they go wherever they want, laughter and joy. Old Chen and his in-laws also get together from time to time. The two families eat, drink, and chat together, which makes everyone around them envious of them. Such a family and such elderly care should be regarded as a model and a model.
Later, Old Chen had a grandson. The grandson grew up almost on this floor when he was born. The grandfather loved his grandfather and the grandmother loved his grandmother. As the children grew up day by day, Old Chen gradually realized that the door between him and his in-laws seemed to be closing longer and longer.
has been neighbors with the in-laws for five years. Old Chen felt that he was getting more and more irritable, and he didn't feel how bad the in-laws were, but he could still feel that the gap between the two families was getting bigger and bigger.
It's a long story. Old Chen and his in-laws treat young couples sincerely, and always want the children to go to their homes more, even if they don't eat, they can sit down. In order to make more children, the old Chen and his wife cooked in different ways and arranged recipes every day. The children were very supportive at first, but later they felt consciously ruling.
When the young grandson was in his own home, Lao Chen also met the young grandson's requirements to the greatest extent and almost responded to any request. But Lao Chen found that his wife seemed to have been hiding from them recently. He didn't understand, what would they have to do with him because he was so kind to them? Could it be the in-laws side...
The more my son said that the in-laws had no objection, the more Lao Chen felt that they had opinions, and the more he wanted them to have opinions, the more he wanted to spend money to buy things for his son... He said that he was a little crazy.
Finally, my son couldn't help it. He said, "If you don't move out, we are tired... Old Chen is a little dazed." The son said: We are really comfortable when you are together, and we enjoy nothing, but we can’t bear it when you are together. Look, the children are spoiled now! You don’t know, now we have to sneak in any house we go to, as if we have done something wrong. It’s better for one of you to move in. We still go and take care of each other often, and we won’t be unfilial to any party…
Lao Chen was sad for several days. He didn’t want his son to make things difficult, so he found a reason to move back to the old house. Although he was unwilling to do so, there was no other good idea.
It’s strange to say that since he moved, he felt extremely relaxed and his life felt good. His son and daughter-in-law often come back with his grandson, and he feels happier than in the past five years!
In fact, Lao Chen's family is all good people and they are all giving their children sincerely, but over time, their enthusiasm without rules and space will be limited. If you want to maintain a good relationship with your in-laws and son, it is actually not complicated. As long as you keep a sense of distance under the original sincerity, all your worries will be solved.
Lao Chen’s group to support her idea, and once hoped that the two families would unite. But the two companies are not one after all, which is the same as when people get along with each other. The sense of proportion and distance will make the relationship more harmonious. If it is too close, it will easily cause conflicts. Even if you feel that you have no regrets, you will inevitably be petty and jealous!
is pretty good like now, and Old Chen’s happiness is just around the corner!
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