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Some people say that when a person reaches a certain age, four things must be thrown away: people who don’t love you, meaningless drinking parties, false friends, and relatives who have no sense of boundaries.
Getting along with relatives is a science. If you go too far, your relationship will become weak. If you go too close, you will have more grudges and grudges. When getting along with relatives, you must have a sense of boundaries and boundaries, rather than just doing things based on your own preferences.
Xiao Qin overestimates human nature and underestimates people's hearts. It was clearly the house they saved money to buy in the county town of their hometown. In order to be filial, their husband wrote it in the name of their parents-in-law, but was targeted by their husband's brother and sister-in-law, and they wanted to occupy it and make money in nothing.
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Xiao Qin is an only child. Before she married her husband, her parents bought a house for her in the provincial capital of her parents' home. After marriage, Xiao Qin and her husband lived in and lived and worked in the provincial capital of their parents.
Although I have no worries about food and clothing after marriage, my husband always thinks that Ye Luo returns to his roots. He hopes to buy a house in his hometown county town to facilitate living when he returns to his hometown. Xiao Qin also strongly agreed with this.
The couple emptied their family’s assets and bought a house. After thinking about it, the husband finally wrote the house in his in-laws’ name to facilitate their in-laws to live there. Although Xiao Qin was a little dissatisfied, she was not petty.
The couple paid for the renovation. After half a year of ventilation, their parents-in-law lived in. Xiao Qin and her husband will only stay there during the holidays. During the rest of the time, they are basically living in their parents-in-law.
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Because Xiao Qin and her husband live fewer, the house in the county town was targeted by her husband's brother and sister-in-law. My brother and sister-in-law cried poorly and said that their son was about to go to elementary school. The quality of the primary schools in the village was not good, so they wanted to send their children to the county town to attend elementary school. In order to facilitate schooling, they planned to move their household registration to the name of this house in the county town.
The brother and sister-in-law were poor. At the beginning, her in-laws were hiding it from Xiao Qin and his wife. But I can't stand the eldest son coming to make trouble every day, either crying for poverty or blaming the old couple for being partial. Since the house is in the name of their parents and the owner is his parents, he will have his share in this house in the future. Now that he is going to move his whole family's household registration to the name of this house, isn't this a matter of course?
Seeing that his parents didn't agree, my brother and sister-in-law thought of another trick, which was to bring 50,000 yuan, and said that she would not want this house in vain. 50,000 yuan was considered the house payment, and the house was transferred to his name immediately.
Looking at the 50,000 yuan sent by the eldest son and daughter-in-law, the parents-in-law felt very uncomfortable. The eldest son has always been lazy and is reluctant to support his wife and children. He lets them save money to buy a house by themselves, and they don’t know whether it’s the Year of the Monkey and Horse Month. But if they give up their youngest son's house, how can they raise their heads in front of their younger son and daughter-in-law?
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After thinking about it for a few days, my in-laws couldn't sit still and called Xiao Qin and her husband directly and asked them to come back quickly. They wanted to transfer the house to their younger son, so that they could not let the eldest son take advantage of it for nothing, and also save all kinds of troubles in the future.
When Xiao Qin received a call from her mother-in-law, she was still confused. Why did the house they bought themselves be missed by their brother and sister-in-law? Fortunately, my parents-in-law are not biased and can tell them clearly, otherwise their own house would be given to their brother and sister-in-law for nothing.
Thinking of my brother and sister-in-law’s empty gloves, Xiao Qin was a little depressed. My brother and sister-in-law are too big. Although the real estate certificate contains the name of her parents-in-law, it is also her husband's filial piety and filial piety, and she has nothing to do with her brother and sister-in-law.
just to avoid the long nights and dreams, Xiao Qin and her husband eventually transferred the house to their own name. As for my brother and sister-in-law who want their children to study in the county, then try to save money to buy a house by themselves. They don't want to support the ungrateful wolf in vain.
. Everything is easy to discuss, but my husband may not refuse cruelly. But my brother and sister-in-law wanted to kill first and then make money from the wolf, which made everyone disgusted. No one was willing to be soft-hearted. After all, if you don’t pay attention, you will lead the wolf into the house.
Today's topic:
Do you think your parents-in-law can clearly understand the right and wrong?
