Real marriage has always been the destination of love, not the carrier of interests. If we have to say which one is more beneficial to the marriage, I think in today's society of equality between men and women, both men and women will enjoy the beauty of marriage in marriage, and at the same time, we can experience the ups and downs of marriage together. Marriage belongs to two people, either harmonious coexistence or both losses. Whether it is happiness or pain, it requires two people to share weal and woe. Both parties to a beautiful marriage are beneficiaries, and the victims of a failed marriage are also two people, just like two grasshoppers on a rope, prospering and losing both, and they will never tend toward either party.
Modern marriage, men and women are equal, and both men and women are beneficiaries of good marriages. Any view that one party benefits more is biased. Men and women in marriage jointly assume the responsibilities of the family and play different roles. Most families are men working hard outside to make money to support the family. Women are more responsible for housework, raising children, and serving the elderly. Both parties are working hard to contribute to the family. There is no such thing as benefiting or harming. It is just that the division of labor in the family is different, and the way in which value is reflected is different. Men work hard to make money to live a wealthy life in order to make money. It is not to make money by themselves. Women do housework and take care of the family. They are also for the happiness and harmony of the family. They never care about their own gains and losses. When a husband and wife work together to create a happy and harmonious family, what benefits are the men and women and the entire family. Where can I say how much benefit? The prosperous days are inseparable from men's hard work, and the happy atmosphere is even more inseparable from women's hard work day and night. Good days are the result of the joint efforts of both husband and wife. Only when the zither and zither are harmonious can the most beautiful music be played, and the best state of marriage is the same. Such a family wife is noble and prosperous. From this point of view, are you the one who benefits yourself?
Of course, there are always some different voices for such a view. Some people believe that men pay too much for marriage, and most of the bride price of houses, cars and brides are borne by the man. Women will become the owners of these properties without any effort. Marriage is the most beneficial to women. From this point of view, I don't deny it. But on the other hand, have you ever thought about how much a woman’s family has paid for her in the twenty or thirty years from birth to marriage? The woman’s family has not benefited. When the woman grows up and gets married to a man, don’t you think men are a bit suspicious of enjoying their success? If you think this way, who do you think benefits? What's more, men pay brides for buying a house and a car to get married. The ultimate beneficiary of these efforts is the couple. The house and car are shared by you and your wife. The brides cannot be given to your parents' home. They will also bring them back to their in-laws' home as the woman gets married, and even bring a lot of dowry. Who benefits this?
Therefore, marriage must not be related to these vulgar interests. If you always care about who benefits from the perspective of interests, it will not only be difficult to explain, but it will also cause fatal harm to the marriage.
Couples are a community of shared destiny. When two people come together, they are destined to cultivate for a hundred years. Tolerant, mutual understanding, loving and loving are the true meaning of happiness and the way marriage should be. A good marriage must benefit both the husband and wife. If the failed marriage is also injured, the husband and wife will also benefit. There is no saying that who benefits more.
