Most men don’t like to visit their mother-in-law’s house because in their hearts, it is not their home. They can’t sit or stand steadily, and even lying down is uncomfortable.
Most mother-in-law are very enthusiastic about their son-in-law. They not only serve them with delicious food and drink, but also stuff the trunk of the car with local specialties before leaving.
We all understand that the mother-in-law is good to the son-in-law in order to make the son-in-law better to his daughter, and to avoid suffering losses in the in-laws' house.
Of course, there is also a special existence. Just like the man shared, he is also a son-in-law, but he is the only one who doesn’t go to the table when eating. It makes people feel moved when watching it.
According to this man, his family conditions are very average and he lives a close life after getting married to his wife.
Although they are not doing well, when it is time to go to their mother-in-law's house, they will still actively go there and never let other brothers and sisters compete.
They arrived again as promised during this short holiday. My wife has two sisters and a younger brother. Every time she arrives, the house will be very crowded, and sometimes people can't sit down when they are eating.
This time is no exception. When eating, the dining table predecessors were full. Looking at the dining table full of people, the father-in-law actually asked him to move a stool to eat outside.
A bowl of white rice was filled with a little dish, and I just made do with it.
According to rural customs, a daughter is not considered a guest when she returns to her parents' home, but a son-in-law is definitely considered a guest when she returns to her parents' home. Don't you talk about the entertainment of good wine and good food? At least, the son-in-law should not be allowed to go out for dinner.
The family is indeed not in good condition, but it is indeed a bit unreasonable to treat the son-in-law like this, and anyone will have any ideas.
The man said that in addition to him, his wife's second sister also took the child and did not go to the table, so she moved a small stool and sat outside to feed the child. In addition to the two of them, there were also people standing at the dining table with rice bowls in hand.
It seems that the conditions at the mother-in-law's house are indeed not good. It may be because the children don't go home many times a year, and the elderly are reluctant to buy even a larger dining table.
The man said: All other son-in-laws have been on the table, but I didn’t. Maybe it’s because my conditions are too poor!
A few years ago, my brother-in-law wanted to buy a house after getting married, so we asked us to pay 400,000 yuan. At that time, we had just gotten married, and we only paid 100,000 yuan, while the other brother-in-law paid 500,000 to 600,000 yuan.
He felt that it was because of this that he was treated differently by his mother-in-law's family. He felt discriminated against for not letting him go to the table after dinner and felt very wronged.
A female netizen said: If my husband suffers this grievance at my house, no one can think of eating this meal.
Some netizens also said: If it were me, I would never go again in the future. I have this temper.
Some netizens said: It seems that the father-in-law’s family conditions are not , why ? You are the only one who didn’t serve the table, you didn’t see anyone standing next to the dining table to eat? Another one was feeding the child. You can't starve even if you make do with it.
This is a careful and generous netizen. He discovered the embarrassment of his mother-in-law's family and also found that most people did not eat this meal well.
It’s just that other son-in-law have served the table, but he didn’t let him serve. This is indeed not a way to treat guests, so he feels wronged and understandable.
If I were this father-in-law, I would ask others to give up a seat and let the son-in-law sit in. After all, he is a guest and will not make the son-in-law feel treated differently.
If I were this son-in-law, I would quickly finish the rice in the bowl and do whatever I should do, rather than thinking about whether others can look down on me. Only when you are strong can you get respect from others, right?
What would you do if you were this son-in-law?
