text | Zhu Singyong
Some time ago, I asked the wives in the community, "What kind of San'er are they most afraid of meeting?" Some people said they were afraid of meeting someone younger and more beautiful than themselves, some people said they were afraid of meeting someone who dared to spend a lot of money on men, some people said they were afraid of meeting someone with higher education and higher awareness than themselves, and some people said they were afraid of meeting someone who didn't want anything...
However, the type with the highest votes in the end was "San'er who took the initiative to think about three people".
They don’t need men to marry, they enjoy the “three-person” relationship. Such women are in a hurry to do this position, and it will definitely be difficult to repel them. This is the woman their wives are most afraid of meeting.
has no problem that cannot be solved. If you want to fight back the difficult Saner, you must first figure out what they want, and figure out what the driving force of their desire to "three people".
1. San'er, who wants to spend money, hopes to be a parasite with money.
My third brother in a case, found out that he was pregnant and hid and gave birth to the child. After giving birth, he found a man to discuss money. From now on, he would have to pay child support, nanny fees, living expenses, and buy 2 houses for her and her child. One set for yourself, and the other set for your children.
2, San'er of the picture resources, her goal is to get a promotion and raise salary.
won’t ask for money directly, and will even give gifts and bring breakfast to men, make money through resources, and get the source of benefits. Saner appears in many institutions such as
, or the man's partner.
3, Saner for exercise and fun in the bedroom. She wanted to find a man who was tacit and unwilling to bother others. Some women like
play very high, meet frequently, have multiple playmates, and some meet once or twice a year, or even once a few years.
Two points to be paid attention to when repelling these San'er:
1. Breaking the chain of interests between these San'er and men is that it is broken.
San'er, who is looking for money, wants to cut off her financial path. She can't get the money, and she even wants to spit it out for you, and she will find this extramarital relationship boring. Some people even make requirements that as long as you don’t have money, she will automatically withdraw.
The resource of the picture, San'er, wants to tear her face and talk to her with the resources she cares most. As long as she leaves, the previous benefits can be retained. Otherwise, we will reveal her identity. She will lose her bamboo basket, not only lose her resources, but also lose her reputation and dignity.
2. Grasp San'er's pain points.
People who are San'er usually feel guilty. Although she doesn't want to quit, she doesn't want to make a fuss. In short, you have to find the point she cares most, which is her pain point.
Some San'er is afraid of being beaten, and she is afraid that you will make trouble in her unit.
Some San'er is afraid of her family breaking up and her husband knows, so if you talk to her marriage, she is willing to quit.
Some San'er cares about reputation and opens a store, relying on her reputation. Others know that she is San'er, how can she do business? So if you go to her store, she has to quit.
Some San'er is timid. If you fuck her hard several times, she will really want to get rid of you and get rid of you, so she quit.
In my case, I also met some San'er who did not want to destroy other people's families. San'er is very narcissistic. She just likes to break all rules and likes to see a man like to fall in love with him and obsessed with him, and then she leaves.
Especially when a man can't stop, she said, "You must not hurt your wife and children for me, and then disappear." San'er proved her charm and ran away. Such a woman is very pitiful. She has a lack of heart and can only get satisfaction from the feeling of constantly changing men.
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