50-year-old Mr. Li: "I accidentally had sex with the female leader after drinking. Should I tell my wife about this?"
Story provider: 50-year-old Mr. Li
My wife and I are college classmates and are also our first love. We have always had a good relationship after marriage.
Even if there is a small noise, it will make up quickly.
I used to be an art teacher in college, but because of the benefits and welfare issues, I quit two years ago and went to work in a chain decoration company.
This job was recommended by my wife’s uncle. He is a very senior decoration master in it, and I work as a designer in it.
At first I didn’t want to go. Several of the employees inside were wives and relatives, and I was afraid it was difficult to get along with.
But I resigned at this age and it is difficult to find a suitable job again. Besides, the company has good benefits and good prospects, so it is hard for me not to be moved.
Actually, my painting style and decoration design are not the same. My uncle took a lot of contacts to introduce me, so I cherish this job very much.
In the company, I am almost 50 years old, but I am still a newcomer.
I didn't want to disappoint my uncle and wife, so I worked hard day and night to make up for my professional knowledge.
Although I look like a designer, I still have to go out to socialize with customers. Because most of the customers we face are group companies, hotels, vacation homes, etc. The
line is very competitive and will be eliminated once it does not meet the needs of customers.
Our daughter is studying abroad, and the tuition fee is sky-high every year. My parents are both in the countryside, and they have no pension or income, so they rely on me to support them.
What my wife and I can do is to earn money hard and ensure that our family can have enough food and clothing.
I often have to go on business trips, so there will naturally be social engagements when I go on business trips, and of course, I will inevitably drink.
Because I first arrived at the company, I couldn’t stand alone, so I had to go on a business trip with an experienced designer, that is, my leader.
She is five years younger than me, and she has been working in the company after graduating from college, and has been working until now.
Her surname is Huang, she is our director, and I am her assistant.
Director Huang is a strong woman who is very versatile and has excellent design skills. He is a woman I admire very much.
I have been learning from her for two years since I joined the company, and have become a partner from her assistant.
We have a tacit understanding and are very successful in every cooperation. We are jokingly called "Golden Boy and Jade Girl" by the company.
I am actually very embarrassed about this title. After all, my wife's uncle and several cousins all work here.
When I was on a business trip, I helped her stop the wine and she was responsible for the business.
We have always maintained a safe distance, and we only talk about business and never private matters.
But not long ago, we accidentally did something wrong.
That day, we signed a big order.
When I was happy, I drank too much, and she drank too...
Since that day, there has been some gap between us.
I don’t know how to face her, and I don’t know how to face my wife at home.
I am very conflicted now. I feel guilty when I see my wife. I don’t know if I should tell her about this?
I was afraid that she would not forgive me when she found out, and even filed for divorce from me.
This is not the result I want, I still love her.
But if I don’t say anything, this guilt pressed on my heart and made me feel uncomfortable.
