This money is basically what young people's parents earn from working in big cities, washing dishes and sweeping the floor. They basically don't spend a penny, two people work three jobs, and then earn it. Use the money to buy a wedding house and let the children get married.
If a person does not fall in love freely in school and meets on blind dates, they are basically the same marriage conditions.
It is estimated that the cost of getting married will be higher in the past few years.
Poor men like to ask for bride gifts because they are not attractive enough. I don’t even think that if the bride price was borrowed and I would have to bear the debt, I would have a harder life in the future.
The marriage of the poor is even more a business marriage. Whoever gives more bride gifts will marry whoever the woman gives. The relationship between two people is not considered at all.
However, when shouting every day, men and women are equal , and men who believe it true will ask: What is the dowry? Why do you only give a dowry but not a dowry?
If the poorer family does not work outside, the 100,000 yuan bride price may really not be able to give it.
This bride price needs to be saved by a man. It is difficult for young people to save money.
County, a 34-year-old man with a monthly income of 4,000 yuan can't save a penny.
Rich men do not lack women at all, but women dare not ask for bride gifts. Because there are many women around rich men, only women who don’t have bride gifts can be competitive.
A poor man cares very much about money. 100,000 yuan is the life of their whole family. The poor are even more reluctant to give up money. 100,000 is an astronomical figure.
Unless a man is in a free relationship, his girlfriend will not have a bride price. If a woman doesn't make decisions or doesn't plan to live a good life at all, she just wants to get divorced after marriage. They will get married, but they will divorce soon after the marriage.
This is how many people divorce in rural areas. When a woman gives birth to a child, she goes out to work. In the first marriage, there is no marriage certificate , and there is no need to divorce. Find a suitable man outside and continue getting married and having children. Therefore, there are more couples who divorce in rural areas.
If you work, it is difficult for most men to save 200,000 yuan. This is what a man will say, "100,000, you took my family's life."
