I worked hard in Guangdong when I was eighteen years old with my husband who was three years older than me. Five years ago, I discovered that my husband had cheated on me.
I was going to divorce when I gave up this family. Everyone was persuading me to turn a blind eye. What I didn’t expect was that even my biological mother advised me in this way, which made me feel heartbroken.
My name is Tan Xiaomei, and everyone says I am the happiest woman in the village.
Because my husband runs a restaurant in the county town, there are five branches, and his annual income is quite large.
And as the boss lady, I naturally sit and enjoy my happiness.
This is true for so many years after marrying my husband Wanfu. We have basically never quarreled.
He makes money, I am responsible for being as beautiful as a flower, and my parents-in-law at home are also very sensible and never interferes in our husband and wife's affairs.
I was with me at the age of eighteen. After graduating from high school, I came to Guangdong with Wanfu, who was three years older than me. We were really poor at that time.
We clearly remember that on the night when we were fired from the restaurant, we couldn’t afford to stay in a hotel that cost 60 yuan a night.
So we are afraid of being poor. We both swear to live like the same person. We work hard to make money every day and night.
See the young people around you buying new clothes and new mobile phones.
We are reluctant to buy one, we know that only you will endure hardships first and come back on a good day.
Finally worked hard for five years, and the two of them had almost the same savings. Wanfu went to learn cooking. A year later, we returned to our hometown to open our first restaurant.
started with a bad business and even lost money. However, we knew we couldn't give up, so we slowly explored and finally found a way.
The business of the small restaurant is also good. When I was 26 years old, I married Wanfu and have been married for ten years in a blink of an eye.
There is also a cute five-year-old son. He lives a happy and peaceful life. I have nothing to do, so I just play cards.
Until this day, my peaceful days were broken and I found that my husband had a relationship with other women, which made me unacceptable.
My husband, who has always been gentle and considerate to me, swears that my husband, who only loves me, did such a thing.
After getting married, I basically don’t care about the affairs in the store anymore.
But my figure has not changed and my appearance is still very good. I don’t know what has changed.
On this day, I asked a few old sisters to have dinner at the restaurant, and the sisters said that they saw my husband and other women at the night market at night.
I didn't believe it at first, and told them that they must have read it wrong. When I got home, I began to have some doubts. My husband did love to go out these days.
So, my husband came back from get off work that night.
"Husband, aren't you resting yet?" I asked in confusion when I saw my husband tidying up his clothes.
Wanfu smiled at me: "There are still some things in the store, I have to go and work for a while. Wife, go to bed first, be good, come back later."
I nodded, not wanting to doubt my husband so good to me.
However, during the day, the words of the sisters seemed to echo in their ears. With curiosity, I put on my coat and walked out.
As expected, my husband did not walk towards the restaurant, but went to the night market.
I followed closely until my husband walked to the door of a beauty shop and looked at the time, as if he was waiting for someone.
I hid under a tree and watched. A minute later, a woman in a stunning dress came out.
naturally hugged Wanfu's shoulders. I also knew when I saw this scene. They walked towards the hotel with laughter and joy. I don’t want to know what happened next to
. I returned home in a daze and looked at the man in the wedding photos incredibly.
Why don’t I believe that the facts are all in front of me? The woman’s anger and jealousy made me decide to divorce immediately.
I can't stand it anymore. I was about to call Wanfu, but then I thought about it and talked to my mother first.
So I called my mother, and my mother was a little surprised and told me not to act rashly.
She will come tomorrow. I also listened to my mother and went back to the room to sleep until my husband came back in the middle of the night.
He has taken a shower and can't smell any girl, but I just feel disgusted!
The next day, I pretended to be nothing, waiting for my mother to arrive. I didn’t know how I watched Wanfu go out.
The moment my mother arrived, I started crying in pain, and my mother comforted me and said.
"Maybe you misunderstood, I'll help you find out the truth!"
I nodded, thinking about letting my mother figure it out first, so my mother followed my husband for half a month, and finally got the result.
That woman is the owner of the beauty shop. She is thirty years old and is still single!
My mother asked me what I thought? I said angrily, "What else can I do if this happens? Of course it is a divorce."
My mother just shook her head and said to me with a deep face, "Daughter, have you ever thought about it? If you divorce, then what will you do in your future life?
To put it nicely, now you are pampered. If you divorce, you may get some property, but this property has been enough for you to squander for a few years. According to now you are wearing a piece of clothing, which is no less than 500 yuan
and you are divorced. You must not be able to raise the child and can only follow his father. Are you willing?"
My mother's words confused me, and my mother's words may be a bit serious.
But this is the reality, and I also hope that the couple can get back together. My mother said she would discuss countermeasures with her in-laws and father-in-law.
will use a clever way to help the two couples repair their relationship. When I heard my mother's words, I was extremely reluctant.
Now I want to run out like a shrew and ask my husband loudly why he treats me like this. What's the good thing about that woman?
But that was just my impulse. I knew that once I did something embarrassing, it would cause many people to talk.
Later, my mother also told my parents-in-law about the situation. My parents-in-law were angry when they knew it and comforted me and said that they would definitely help me with justice.
begged me to give their son another chance. After all, the relationship over the years is not something that can be discarded casually.
If divorced, it will also have a bad impact on the child. They will make Wanfu cut off the woman's contact and guarantee that there will be no contact again.
My mother lived with me for a month and persuaded me with great sincerity.
told me that I must not divorce impulsively, and told me to turn a blind eye and say that there is no man who doesn’t steal fishy things. As long as I change it, it is rain and sunny .
But I didn't want to endure this way. Later, my parents-in-law taught Wanfu hard, and Wanfu knew that his affairs were exposed.
What my parents-in-law told them, I don’t know my son yet, as long as he breaks off the relationship with that woman, and guarantees that there will be no contact in the future.
can still maintain a happy and happy family. Wanfu was a little hesitant, but through his parents' repeated advice, he finally agreed.
Looking at my husband who stays by my side every day after get off work, I didn’t feel happy, but instead a estrangement arose in my heart.
Since then, Wanfu will change his way to make me happy and surprise me, and take me out for a trip, but I found that my relationship with him will never go back to the past.
There was a time when I also thought about running a family well for my children and repairing my relationship, but it was difficult to complete the broken mirror after all. The cracks in the relationship seemed to never be made up for it.
So I started to take over the restaurant account again. In five years, all three restaurants were brought to my name.
During this period, I felt like I was wearing a mask with my husband. I didn’t refuse to sleep in the same bed with him, but every night was a torment for me.
I don’t know why I feel this way. Some people may say that I am just too noble and arrogant, and it is too important to make my innocence.
But I finally find it difficult to overcome that ups and downs. I feel very disgusted when I think about my husband being with another woman.
The big reason why I stopped my divorce was because of my son. I wanted to give my children a perfect family, but this day made me subvert my own perception.
My husband has an affair with that woman again. I completely hate the man in front of me, and I hate him that he can't stand the temptation at all.
If that time was a loss five years ago, then what was this time? Do you make another mistake?
The child is already ten years old, and she can understand the basic human relationships and worldly styles. I will first communicate with the child.
finally decided...
This day, the sun is shining.
My husband and I formally filed for divorce, and my husband looked at me incredibly.
I said to him solemnly, "Actually, I already knew about you being with the beauty shop owner five years ago."
My husband, who heard this news, was instantly panicked.
"Wife, have you misunderstood something? I just went out to have dinner several times because I was just a friend."
I didn't listen to his quibbling, and told him seriously, "Let's get divorced. I know everything, you don't need to quibble. Also, because he has evidence of dating recently, I won't take it out, so as not to be embarrassed."
After receiving my affirmative reply, my husband regretted it and begged me to give him another chance.
"There are three restaurants in my name. I can't return this to you. After I married you at the age of 18, I admit that I am very happy and thank you for making me happy for so many years. But your cheating made me unacceptable. I can't continue with you in this marriage. The specific fate is to have a peaceful divorce."
My husband certainly disagreed, "Wife, I'm just having fun with her. You know the momentary freshness."
I was going to the side, and he still explained, "I swear that she and I will completely cut off in the future. If I lie to you, I will not die well. Give me another chance, for the sake of the child."
I shook my head and sighed and said, "I don't want people to watch jokes. It is the best to have a peaceful divorce."
If I had any concerns five years ago, then now I have the conditions and the capital to satisfy my life.
Then why should I endure what I don’t like?
The parents who were waiting for this news naturally said that they could cross the same boat for a hundred years and have a bed for a thousand years.
I also know very well that having such a father-in-law is the greatest happiness in my life.
But I really can't be with the person I once loved so much anymore. My heart seemed to be dead when I saw him being with another woman.
In the past five years, I have always thought about the hard days I have lived in the past and the sweetness of the past. It is precisely because I love him very much that I endured his little bit of infidelity.
