Emotional Cases
"She is not as good as me everywhere, why did you betray me?"
This is what makes many girls in love confused.
When a girl has a third party in her relationship, she will have a curiosity and want to see what the other party looks like. In her opinion, it is because the third party is so beautiful that she has attracted her boyfriend's heart. But in fact, this may not be the case in many cases.
interferes with the third party in your relationship. That woman is likely not as beautiful as you, and her figure and education are not as good as you.
When the other party is inferior to us, we will be indignant and really can't figure out how our relationship has come to this point today?
Lingfang is like this. Lingfang has good conditions and is a leader in both education and appearance. She has been in love with her boyfriend for three years, and the relationship between the two has always been good, but they have always quarrels recently because the marriage has not been discussed properly.
Lingfang never thought that her boyfriend would betray her?
And the other party is a woman who is inferior to her everywhere.
"I admit that both of us felt very tired during the quarrel, but this cannot be a reason for him to cheat. We have been in love for three years and have reached the point of getting married. How could he betray me? I can't accept it, I can't figure it out if I don't understand it." When Lingfang threw the problem to me, I thought of a famous saying about love: Tiredness is a bottleneck that is easy to encounter when maintaining long-term relationships, but it is a problem that is not easy to see.
The more tired you are in your relationship, the other person will have an opportunity to take advantage of.
YIBAO Emotional Say
When the relationship between two people is in a stage of fatigue, but at this time you are unwilling to go back and spend time managing each other's relationship, but instead look for stimulation from the outside world. This practice is quite stupid. Do you think that external stimulation must be suitable for you? Little do you know that it is just going to the dusk market to pick the remaining fish. You think you have got the so-called freshness, but in fact, what you choose is just the leftover fish and shrimp.
There is a saying: If you lack taste, you will mistakenly treat the fishy smell as umami to stimulate your tired appetite. Isn’t this the case with Chen Junsheng in “ My First Half of Life ”?
Chen Junsheng clearly has a very happy family, but he always feels annoyed by his wife. He felt that Luo Zijun, , would only know nothing, and did not know how to understand and understand him. He especially needed a gentle woman to comfort him, but Luo Zijun did not have these factors. Then the old woman in the office Ling Ling looked at a young talent like Chen Junsheng. She thought Chen Junsheng was a person worth relying on. She let Chen Junsheng see her diligence. When Chen Junsheng was sick, she bought him stomach medicine, which made Chen Junsheng feel that she was so considerate.
Over time, Chen Junsheng was very tired of Luo Zijun, and instead fell in love with Ling Ling.
But when Chen Junsheng was really with Ling Ling, he realized that his life was still a mess.
In marriage, it doesn’t matter if two people are not synchronized. You have to guide the other person forward instead of not solving the problem and go outside to find freshness and excitement.
What did Ling Ling say, "Flies don't bite seamless eggs."
There is a problem with Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's marriage, but it is not your turn to criticize him.
Don’t use this sentence to get rid of your guilt, you will feel that there is no shame in interfering in other people’s families.
There was a problem with the marriage between Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun because their marriage also reached a period of fatigue. This period of fatigue will make people who have expectations for their relationship more and more discouraged in their marriage life. Before he knew it, he walked to the dusk market and tried to buy a fish that was still acceptable at a low price, and mistakenly regarded the fishy smell as umami. My approach is quite stupid and not cost-effective.
After Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling got married, they complicated their relationship. He loves his children so much, but in the end he lets other people's children occupy his family. He is still raising other people's children with hard work. What is he trying to do?
So, this article reminds some people who want to betray their marriage: Don’t look for excitement outside of marriage. You think you have got the so-called sense of happiness, but you don’t know it’s just a stinky fish and shrimp, that’s all. Don’t do things that are undeserved. The older you are, the more you should learn to cherish them, instead of thinking about changing to another one. The same is true in love. Some people feel that their love has reached a period of fatigue and want to find some freshness.
of course can get a temporary freshness, but over time, you will find that things have been complicated and hurt the person you love the most. Why bother?
In this world, no love is flawless, and no relationship is a solid wall. When two people fall in love, they always have to experience some setbacks. This is very normal. You have to find the most suitable way to get along through mutual interaction. Love is a dynamic balance process.
Why do we want to fall in love?
is to achieve a relatively harmonious state through talk and getting along.
And when neither of you finds that sense of balance, you cannot use this relationship as an excuse for infidelity and betrayal. What to do with
? How to get through the fatigue of love?
First of all, you must correct your attitude, not complain about yourself, and not always quarrel with your partner, but learn to analyze what kind of problems you have encountered. After the analysis is clear, prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem.
quarrels and quarrels are just an emotional vent that will destroy each other's feelings.
When I was in love with my boyfriend, I had a year-long running-in period. During that period, the two of us always broke up. We often quarrel, and in the end we felt that it was meaningless because no one wanted to leave anyone. We are still quite determined whether to be together.
analyzes the problems we encounter clearly, but it is just the objection of our parents.
But we are both financially independent of each other, what can our parents’ opposition be considered? The key is whether the two of us feel it is appropriate.
Think about it, after the goals are consistent, we get the marriage certificate.
We don’t have any fatigue period in marriage, because both of us pay great attention to maintaining love. We will take a walk together and talk about the children now. The day before yesterday, I sent my son to a painting class. When I went back, I met my husband who had just finished throwing the garbage, so we rode an electric bike to have coffee. It's very romantic, I like this kind of plain romance.
So, the most important thing is the parties themselves, what kind of mentality should they maintain your relationship.
"She is not as good as me everywhere, why did you betray me?"
It was him who did the wrong thing, and you have to see clearly whether there is still a need to continue this relationship. If he goes to the outside world to look for fresh stimulation just because he is tired, then such a person is unreliable and there is no regret for breaking up.
is not your fault, but it is not suitable for you.
Topic today: How do you survive the period of emotional fatigue? Welcome to leave a message.
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