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Marriage is a lifelong event for a person. Every family begins with marriage and exists based on marriage. Marriage begins with love and is based on love, but it is not just about love.
Marriage is not just a matter of two people, but a matter of two families and countless interpersonal relationships.
The marriage of two people must also be "reviewed" by the two families. The sincere blessings from relatives and friends of both families are great happiness in marriage.
If a marriage does not receive blessings and recognition from both parents, then no matter how good the relationship between the two people is, sooner or later there will be a day of collapse.
Love is actually a very easy thing. It is natural for two people to fall together to love each other. If fate comes, it will naturally come true.
To gain recognition from both families, it not only requires deep feelings between the two, but also requires "matchful matches" between the two parties, especially the man must have a certain financial strength.
Men should marry when they are old, as the saying goes, women should marry when they are old. As the saying goes, women should not stay together. Every family with a daughter will face the happiness and pain of marrying a daughter.
A daughter who has raised for more than 20 years will leave her family one day to go to her own life. How can she not let her parents cry?
So, while many men consider how to "conquer" the female parents, they also need to consider whether there are any criticisms in their own family.
You should know that truly visionary parents will not let their daughter marry into three types of families.
There are frequent conflicts and noisy families
The theme of the family should be harmonious and warm, and the care between relatives and relatives are the basic attributes of a family.
But there are always families who will have frequent conflicts due to various reasons, the relationship between elders and children is inconsistent, and brothers become enemies. There are actually many such families, and once there are long-term conflicts between relatives, it will be difficult to reach a reconciliation. The deep-rooted conflicts will turn the family into a battlefield.
Marrying into such a family is undoubtedly "joining the war" and wade into a muddy water.
says that it is difficult for honest officials to make up for family affairs. As a relative outsider, women must advance and retreat with their husbands. In fact, no matter which side they are in, the harm caused by conflicts and quarrels are mutual, and few people can protect themselves in family conflicts.
Some people may think that this statement is too absolute. After all, marriage is a life for two people, but as parents of visionary women, they will view their daughter's marriage at different heights, and will coordinate the love between the two people, family situation, financial strength, etc.
After all, no one wants to leave hidden dangers to his daughter's future marriage life. This is indeed a major "score reduction item".
Family that is excessively doting and protecting children
The term "mama's boy" is popular in women's communication circles. It mostly refers to men who listen to their mothers in everything. They have no opinions and are relatively weak and incompetent. There are really many men like
. Some families have very strong financial strength, so they are too doting their children and fully plan their lives. They arrange their work from studying to their future work. It can be said that they live completely in a greenhouse.
One of the most taboo shortcomings of men is that they have no opinions and are immature. Once a woman marrys such a man, she will be restrained by her parents in life.
In this way, it is difficult to have a sense of belonging to the family and to have the identity of the "master". Contradictory naturally arises from this.
It is difficult for women to gain a foothold when marrying into a family where parents have all their say, because no one really considers it from the perspective of a woman. Once a conflict occurs, a man will either inaction or stand on his parents' side. A woman will naturally be unable to fight against four hands when fighting alone, and she will inevitably be unable to be happy in the long run.
It is not a good thing for parents to interfere too much in their children's career and love. It seems to be protecting, but it is actually destroying.
prefer boys over girls and disrespect women's families
Women can stand half the sky. In the old society, the idea of favoring boys over girls was quite serious, so the national level began to call on equality of men and women and respect women, which is also an inevitable requirement for building a harmonious society.
Today, the concept of equality between men and women has been deeply rooted in people's hearts, but there are still some families with more or less patriarchal ideas, and traditional but conservative is actually a pathological idea.
There have been countless cases where women marry into the man's home and are not valued or even treated unequally. For example, a woman came to her boyfriend's home as a girlfriend, and she kindly cooked a large table of dishes, but her parents were kicked off the table while eating.
In a similar family, how can a woman be happy to marry into a family? Which parent would agree to her daughter marry into a family?
To today's modern society, the word "marrying" is more of a reference verb for marriage, and modern couples are more of a family and separated from their parents' lives. A marriage lifestyle like
can avoid many conflicts and make two people live a relaxed and comfortable life. The woman does not have to face the man’s parents so restrained every day.
This is true, so if you can effectively avoid it, you will not face it hard. After all, the theme of marriage is to live a life of two people.
Time and Emotional Class:
Should marriage pay attention to "equal matches"? This has always been a widely discussed issue.
Of course, the pressure here is given to the man more. You should know that many parents will weigh the pros and cons of their future son-in-law's family relationship and even the growth environment.
From the essence of marriage, a happy life is created by two people, and from the perspective of elders, a certain kind of equality is needed to ensure the happy life of children in the future.
Very few parents would just find a family just because they wanted to marry their daughter out soon.
Almost all female parents have a serious and repulsive mentality when facing the man for the first time.
When the man uses his own advantages to collide with the disadvantages selected by the woman's elders, it becomes a common occurrence.
Of course, this is irreproachable. Think about it from another perspective, if you have a daughter, will you dare to treat it casually when you want to marry a daughter?
Facts have proved that no visionary parents can marry their daughter into these three families— Frequent conflicts, noisy families, families that dote and protect their children too much, and families that prefer boys over girls and disrespect women.
prefer boys over girls and disrespect women's families
Women can stand half the sky. In the old society, the idea of favoring boys over girls was quite serious, so the national level began to call on equality of men and women and respect women, which is also an inevitable requirement for building a harmonious society.
Today, the concept of equality between men and women has been deeply rooted in people's hearts, but there are still some families with more or less patriarchal ideas, and traditional but conservative is actually a pathological idea.
There have been countless cases where women marry into the man's home and are not valued or even treated unequally. For example, a woman came to her boyfriend's home as a girlfriend, and she kindly cooked a large table of dishes, but her parents were kicked off the table while eating.
In a similar family, how can a woman be happy to marry into a family? Which parent would agree to her daughter marry into a family?
To today's modern society, the word "marrying" is more of a reference verb for marriage, and modern couples are more of a family and separated from their parents' lives. A marriage lifestyle like
can avoid many conflicts and make two people live a relaxed and comfortable life. The woman does not have to face the man’s parents so restrained every day.
This is true, so if you can effectively avoid it, you will not face it hard. After all, the theme of marriage is to live a life of two people.
Time and Emotional Class:
Should marriage pay attention to "equal matches"? This has always been a widely discussed issue.
Of course, the pressure here is given to the man more. You should know that many parents will weigh the pros and cons of their future son-in-law's family relationship and even the growth environment.
From the essence of marriage, a happy life is created by two people, and from the perspective of elders, a certain kind of equality is needed to ensure the happy life of children in the future.
Very few parents would just find a family just because they wanted to marry their daughter out soon.
Almost all female parents have a serious and repulsive mentality when facing the man for the first time.
When the man uses his own advantages to collide with the disadvantages selected by the woman's elders, it becomes a common occurrence.
Of course, this is irreproachable. Think about it from another perspective, if you have a daughter, will you dare to treat it casually when you want to marry a daughter?
Facts have proved that no visionary parents can marry their daughter into these three families— Frequent conflicts, noisy families, families that dote and protect their children too much, and families that prefer boys over girls and disrespect women.
