In life, I am always worried, understood, and taken care of. I can hear anything happening, "It doesn't matter, I'm here." There is really someone guarding me.
is mostly down-to-earth and rarely feels uneasy or helpless.
If someone can shelter you from the wind and rain, you will have full confidence. You will not be entangled in one thing for too long, and you will not change your plan because of one thing.
is not afraid, bravely move forward, never think of regressing, gradually becoming stronger, and can also have more things on your own, and you can clearly feel that you have a sense of existence.
is suitable for two people who are together and like each other. They will grow together and make life more exciting and interesting, and are happier and fulfilling than a single life.
Men and women not only match all aspects, but also have a strong affection for each other. Only by willingly giving can it be called the best combination and make life better.
Good love is to nourish each other and achieve each other.
If two people get along, keep quarreling, and always have cold wars, they will not feel happy, and they will feel that choosing the other person is a torture and a mistake.
In the interaction between the opposite sex, whether you have found the right person, what is the probability of having happiness, and what is the possibility of changing your life, it depends on how you feel when you get along.
To put it bluntly, if you have these three feelings when you get along, you like each other.
Trust: Never doubt the other party
As long as the other party goes out, he thinks that the other party is dating someone else. Every time the other party does not reply to a message, he thinks that the other party is talking and laughing with others.
When two people are not together, they will think of many problems, think that the other party does not love him enough, is not sincere to him, and will not accompany him too far.
quarrel over something, and they feel that the other party is not at all interested. They choose to be with them just to have a relationship, or even say it is just a fun thing.
tell the truth, and suspicion of each other, and not seeing each other's sincerity will not last long.
Two people who do not love each other in particular cannot love each other well. Similarly, there is no feeling of being loved, just like they are just living by the way.
Love or not love is really different, and there is a big difference.
True love is mutual trust. Even if the other party does not reply to the message in time, he will not feel that the other party will do things that owes him or say heartbreaking words.
Same frequency: There are endless things to say
A casual relationship will not be invested too much time, nor will it analyze the other party’s little thoughts. To put it bluntly, I didn't care about this relationship at all.
is not brought together because of love. It doesn’t care about the process or the result.
When quarreling with the other party, I didn't think about giving in, so I would rather have a cold war than please, and would not say "sorry". The thought in my heart is that it's okay to be reconciled.
Without love, you won’t care about the other person’s feelings.
But if you love, you will know how to feel sorry for the other person, you will adopt the other person's thinking, and you will cooperate with the other person, giving the other person a sense of matching the two people, and a sense of familiarity.
are all true love. If you invest your true feelings, you are willing to accommodate the other party and find ways to make the other party happier, that is, you are willing to please and cater to them.
Easy: Don't feel uncomfortable
Just want to be together for the time being and accompany the other party for a while, then there is no too much tolerance. Once the other party doesn't go along with his wishes, he will turn against the other party.
It may feel nothing to be together in a short time, but over time, you will feel tired and want to keep a certain distance and not allow the other party to get close to you.
didn't love much, and when you feel unhappy, you will let go decisively.
Such feelings without love are destined not to last long and will sooner or later become unfamiliar. Even if there is hatred, the mood will change as long as the other person is mentioned.
But if you like each other, you will be accommodated and will hardly turn against each other.
Both people always have this attitude, they can feel warmth, and at the same time they feel that they are happy, and it is really a blessing to be able to meet each other.
Summary:
During the interaction of the opposite sex, you feel pain. It is incorrect to choose to fall in love with the other person, and it is a torture for yourself. Then the beginning of this love is the wrong choice.
The most important thing between couples is to feel.
If you trust each other, have endless things to say, are willing to work together, and feel relaxed and happy more often, you are finding someone who matches you and is willing to go on with yourself.
Truthful, in this world, it is not easy to meet the opposite sex, it is difficult to meet the right people, and it is hard to get along well with yourself.
This means that being able to meet is a blessing.
Since you like each other, it is difficult to meet each other, you should cherish it even more.
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Author: A senior mentor who is with books, uses writing as a fun, is a freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.
