Lao Yang yelled angrily at his wife Ms. Huang, When did I hit you, when did I hit you, and then walked to the bedroom, picked up a small wooden stool and smashed it hard on his head. The mediator quickly stopped and threw him to the ground, causing the glass next to him to break. Lao Yang was lying on the ground and burst into tears, while Ms. Huang stood blankly at the door...
What happened? What did the wife do to make her husband Lao Yang so angry?
All of this starts with the help of his wife Ms. Huang. She said that her husband, who has been married for more than ten years, insisted on a divorce. She wanted the mediator to help persuade her. When Lao Yang was still Xiao Yang, she chose to marry Ms. Huang, a third-marriage woman who was three years older than him and had a 14-year-old daughter. Xiao Yang took a lot of courage to get married. , but she has been living a harmonious life for so many years, but after her stepdaughter got married, the couple started to quarrel.
Ms. Huang said that her husband disliked her daughter because she was not born, and she was afraid that she would not be guaranteed when she got old in the future. For this reason, she has been separated from her for more than a year. She felt very aggrieved and started to wipe her tears. Then she said that her husband disliked her as a tiger and could eat people, so her ex-husband was in a car accident and was hit and killed by .
Lao Yang immediately denied it, saying that he had never said this. instead, his wife has always suspected that she had other women outside. Even the male property management manager gave her a pair of pants, his wife could doubt . She was the most pitiful person. Ms. Huang said that she was not a random guess, everything was evidence. Her husband could not fulfill her promise to grow old together. The couple blamed each other.
The mediator asked the daughter beside him. The daughter said that when her mother and stepfather got married, she was only 14 years old, and she is now 30 years old. She can feel the care of her stepfather for so many years, and she is also grateful to this father from the bottom of her heart. When Lao Yang heard this, he began to complain to the mediator and tell him his difficulties.
Lao Yang said that his wife often found him quarrels, and he disdained to quarrel with his wife. Even if his wife doesn't go to work, he will support her. Besides, he has an old lady in her 80s who is seriously ill. Now that he is deaf in his ears and his eyes are almost blind . It all depends on his two brothers to take care of him. In this case, his wife is still quarreling with him, which really makes him physically and mentally exhausted.
Sometimes even my wife even says that her daughter is not his biological child and has been stimulating herself. Who can bear this after hearing this? What's more, over the past 16 years, I have been heart-wrenching to my stepdaughter and gave her everything. Ms. Huang said next to her that she had never said it and kept muttering. Seeing her wife like this, Lao Yang became anxious and said that she would not mediate and was going to work. She was persuaded by the mediator.
Ms. Huang said that the reason why she is like this is because she is old and is insecure. When Lao Yang heard this, he said that if he is insecure, it is her own. Her daughter is not her own . The mediator asked her daughter to come out to express her opinion. As a result, Ms. Huang hurriedly interrupted, "My daughter is kind to her." The mediator couldn't persuade her and shouted that her husband would say it with conscience."
Lao Yang was angry when he heard this and stood up again, expressing his unwillingness to continue mediation.
The mediator once again comforted Lao Yang and criticized Ms. Huang, could she let others finish their words and not interrupt others? Lao Yang didn't want to hear his wife say that she worked hard to make money for this family. Although her daughter is married, she still has to buy a house. In the future, she has children. There are many places that need money. . It can be heard that Lao Yang has considered a lot for this family and a lot for her daughter. She even has cardiovascular diseases. She doesn't care and is still working hard for this family.
result Ms. Huang's words at this time made Lao Yang angry again. Ms. Huang said, Why do you have the face to say that your daughter is not good? Isn't it all she taking care of you when you have surgery? ? Lao Yang shouted loudly, when did he say she was wrong? He said that every word he said could be misinterpreted by his wife into another meaning. The mediator hurriedly persuaded both parties to calm down.
Ms. Huang expressed her true thoughts, She really loves her husband and is afraid of losing her. Her daughter also said that she regards Lao Yang as her biological father and will treat him as her biological father in the future to live in the old age and send him to her for the end of her life. The reason why her mother is like this is because her mother is too inferior. Her first marriage failed, her husband died in a car accident in the second marriage, and her third marriage was so unsuccessful, which made her feel deeply inferior.
Ms. Huang cried and said that even if she put her posture to the lowest point, still couldn't save the marriage. She also cried and said that her husband had used violent forces to her before. Lao Yang quickly denied it, and her daughter accused him. Once, she got angry with her mother and ran to Hangzhou to work alone. A person she didn't even know big words ran to Hangzhou to find him. Later, she found her father through contacts from multiple parties, but unexpectedly, there was a conflict and a quarrel.
mediator asked Lao Yang what he was thinking now and should express his opinion to his wife. When Lao Yang heard this, he became silent and said half a day later that If he really didn't want to live, he wouldn't have worked hard to raise his daughter for so many years, and he wouldn't have been married until his daughter got married. Even if he is in poor health, he still works hard to make money to buy a house for her. has never disliked his wife for not making money. After all, there are many people in this world who don't make money.
Ms. Huang immediately interrupted at this time and said that if she said this, she would feel much more comfortable. The mediator criticized her and did not interrupt others' speeches repeatedly. Ms. Huang immediately said that she married Lao Yang, and He had nothing, and she still had three rooms. Everything at home was bought by her daughter. Lao Yang was anxious and said that now that she would say that her daughter and son-in-law would choke her daughter with this. What should I do?
It seems that Lao Yang has considered a lot about his stepdaughter. Although he is not related by blood, his biological father is just like this. His daughter is not grateful. Instead, he accused Lao Yang with his mother. said that he just wants you all well. Can you care more about my mother? Lao Yang said, then who cares about me? My daughter also shouted loudly, I care about you, don’t I care about you ?
Lao Yang said angrily, You care about me, everything is right, I am wrong , very wrong, Ms. Huang was also very upset, and patted her face and said, "I don't have a husband, but I can't live, I'm useless, I hurt my daughter, and yelled hysterically, and the mediator hurriedly persuaded both sides to calm down."
At this time, Lao Yang said that his wife came over and broke her own cooking pot that day, and the handles were removed. As a result, Ms. Huang said that Lao Yang beat her and broke it. At this time, Lao Yang suddenly felt extremely wronged and burst out, yelling with his hands, "When will I hit you, when will I hit you... The scene at the beginning of the article happened.
Lao Yang stood up from the ground, was still very excited, and suddenly knelt down to his wife, and kept bowing, begging his wife to let him go. Ms. Huang also knelt against her husband, and her daughter also knelt begging Lao Yang to live a good life with her mother. . At this time, Lao Yang also told the mediator that she had been hospitalized before, and her daughter had indeed taken care of him for a while, and she was indeed grateful to her daughter, and her daughter just expressed that she only hoped that her parents could live a good life now.
mediator also said that it is uncomfortable for her daughter to be stuck in the middle now, but she also lets her understand Lao Yang, who has to take care of her 80-year-old mother and earn money to support Ms. Huang. And whenever there is something wrong, the mother and daughter will unite the front, accusing Lao Yang, and asking her if she has ever thought that her mother also has problems, don’t just blame her stepfather .
At this time, the family members calmed down. The mediator originally thought that the couple would resolve the conflict, but Ms. Huang's next sentence made the two sides completely break up. She said that the family belongs to her and her husband has nothing to do. When it comes to this, she waved her hand and said that she was unwilling to continue living. In this regard, nothing else means nothing. She has worked hard to make money to raise her daughter, but she got such a response from her wife.
mediator asked Ms. Huang again whether she was willing to continue living with Lao Yang. Ms. Huang suddenly changed her normal behavior and said that she was unwilling to continue living with her husband when she saw her irritable appearance. Lao Yang also said when she heard this family, she said that it would be enough to get divorced. However, the daughter still hoped that her father would care more about her mother. She said that if Lao Yang was willing to make up, she would work hard to match her. Look at him like this.
The mediator said that both parties are inferior, divorce may be the best way, and it is also a relief for both parties. He told his daughter that if he still wants his parents to reconcile, criticize the mother more and not criticize the stepfather, because he is the most wronged person. Ms. Huang is married for the third time and Lao Yang is married for the first time. From the beginning, the two parties have been in a psychological position with great contrast. When she had a daughter to raise, all conflicts were put on hold. Now that the daughter is married, all conflicts have erupted.
, a man felt that Lao Yang was not worth it. He had been married for more than ten years and had no children of his own. He regarded his stepdaughter as his own children. As a result, every time there was a conflict, the mother and daughter were united in the front and pointed the gun at Lao Yang. He could not feel the warmth in this family. With the destination, Ms. Huang kept saying that she was inferior and could not live without men, but she kept hurting Lao Yang, saying that this family was all hers. At that time, Lao Yang had nothing, and the things at home were bought by her daughter. She had been drawing a clear line with Lao Yang. Lao Yang had no blood and blood. Hearing this, she felt that she had been regarded as an outsider and had been targeted, and it was not uncommon for divorce.
Although the daughter always wants her father to be kind to her mother, she doesn’t look at her and her mother’s attitude towards Lao Yang. She blames Lao Yang for everything, criticizes Lao Yang and wants others to be kind to Ms. Huang. How could this be the reason?
What do you think about Ms. Huang’s mother and daughter’s approach? If you were Lao Yang, what would you do?
