When we are in our sixties, we will involuntarily think about our own pension problems. If we have a partner, we expect our spouse to support us; if our children are by our side, we expect our spouse to support us; if our children are not around and are single, we want to find a partner to take care of each other and take care of our spouse to support us.
But sometimes life is like this. You make a good deal, but changes come too quickly, and plans cannot keep up with changes, and you have no way to change all this.
Self-reporter: Mr. Peng, 72 years old
My name is Peng Wenshu, I am 72 years old this year. I have been a teacher for the rest of my life. This job has given me a good pension, and now it looks like 6,500 yuan a month.
My wife left at the age of 66. Severe pancreatitis killed her. She stayed in the hospital for ICU for twenty days, but she still couldn't save her life.
I have a daughter who went abroad to study in the UK, married a young British man and gave birth to a mixed-race grandson. She wanted to take me to the UK, but I refused without thinking. She is old, and she lives in the motherland the most comfortable life, and live in her old nest. It is said that the leaves return to their roots. It is impossible for me to run out again at such an old age. I don’t want to become a lonely ghost in a foreign land in the future.
I can’t go to my daughter’s house, and I don’t have brothers and sisters around me. I’m old and alone. My old friends all recommend me to find an old partner.
They said that at our age, it is best to find a younger one to find a younger one, who is about the same age as us. Most of them have poor legs and feet, so they look for a younger one, who is in good health and can take care of us.
I went to the elderly marriage agency to register and wanted to find someone who is about 60 years old who is healthy. I can raise her, but I won’t raise her children.
very quickly, marriage agency introduced me three times, one was 62 years old, and asked me how much I would pay her every month as soon as I opened my mouth, but I didn’t dare to continue talking; there was also 55 years old, with his lips as if he was bloody, and he twisted his way, and he felt uncomfortable when he looked; the third was 58 years old, who was very strong, had a loud voice, and he dressed very simply, and felt like a living person, so I started dating her.
This 58-year-old lesbian has a nice name, You Suling. She has no pension, she has two children, and both have got married. The family conditions are average. She promised me that her son and daughter will not disturb us except for the New Year and the Festival.
After we dated for a few months, we felt that we were both honest people, so we lived together. I gave Su Ling two thousand yuan in living expenses and two thousand yuan in pocket money every month, and the remaining 2,500 yuan is left in my hands.
Su Ling is very satisfied with my arrangement. I ate very lightly at the age of age and don’t like to eat big fish and meat, vegetables, fruits, eggs, noodles, and porridge. Occasionally adding some fish and lean meat can meet my needs.
Su Ling likes to eat big fish and meat, and she also needs to enlarge the chili peppers. It is spicy and spicy. At first, she also made some light things with me. Later, she thought it was troublesome and stopped doing it. She asked me to eat these salty and spicy food with her. I had bad stomach and had stomachache after eating . I had constipation after eating . I had stomachache and had constipation. I told her how many times she said, but she pretended not to hear it.
Not only that, she also called her old sisters to eat and drink at home, and learned to sing loudly in the living room. The neighbors came to make trouble, and she cursed the others back with her hands.
After seeing this, I regretted it so much. I found the elderly marriage agency and asked them to come forward to take care of me. They came to talk to Su Ling. In front of the comrades in the marriage agency, she nodded and agreed with a good attitude. The comrades from the marriage agency such as
walked away. She closed the door and cursed me. Her words were so ugly. The 18 generations of my ancestors scolded her.
My life was quiet and quiet. Although I was 72 years old, I was still in good health and could take care of myself. After listening to my old friends, I wanted to find a younger wife to take care of me and let me enjoy it. But I suffered a lot of torture and had not had a day of comfort. I was glad that I only worked with her and did not get a marriage certificate.
I asked her to break up, but she disagreed and said that I didn’t want to get along with each other, and I would break up if I wanted to break up.Not only that, she also called her son and daughter to stay in my house, threatening that I had to compensate her for the loss of for her youth if I wanted to break up. She had been with me for so long, and I had to pay her 200,000 yuan.
I have been with her for less than a year, and I will pay 200,000 yuan? She also said it out loud, I will definitely not compensate, but they occupied my home and made the house mess. Several of my valuable jade artifacts were taken away by them. They just bullied me as old as I was, the children were not around, and there were no relatives.
My old friends were very angry when they found out. They went to find the elderly marriage agency with me. The comrades from the marriage agency called the local police station. The comrades from the police station came to the door and invited them out and asked me to change the door lock.
The next day, You Suling came to me again, knelt in front of me, cried bitterly and begged me for forgiveness, and asked me to give her another chance, she would take good care of me and listen to me in everything.
I put a smile on my face. When I recalled the days when I was bullied with her, I didn’t want to live a day! I figured it out, I won’t look for my wife anymore, I don’t expect others to take care of me, and I don’t want to be disturbed by others. One day I can’t take care of myself anymore, so I will find a nursing home and spend the rest of my life! Friends from Toutiao, what do you think of me? You are welcome to leave a message on my pension issues and give me some advice.
