I am a silly woman. I shouldn't have contacted him from the beginning when I knew he had a wife. In the past few months we met, he often went to school to see me. Maybe he had a good impression of him at that time, and he respected people more, so I didn't always think that he was a married man.
I met him during the summer vacation in 2019. I knew he was married at the time. But there are no children. After all, he is still young. Both of them have a good impression of each other when they meet each other. After a while, I feel like I have fallen into an abyss that will never be restored.
I was with him without hesitation. At that time, our relationship was quite good, and I gave it to him for the first time. Sometimes we go out to check in and have a meal, but I find that every time he asks me, he only checks in and out.
At most we had dinner together, but we never walked around. He said he was very busy with work, and he also said that we were both unable to see each other, so we should try not to wander on the street, as it would be bad for people we knew to see. I just understood him, and felt that there was nothing, so I didn't think too much. After all, I felt quite happy at that time, and I felt very happy every time I saw him, and I felt very happy.
After we met a few times, it was winter vacation. We didn’t contact each other again during the whole winter vacation. I didn't look for him, and he didn't contact me. I thought he didn't want to pay attention to me anymore, but if he thought he had deleted it, he would delete it. If he didn't contact me, he wouldn't contact me.
But one or two months later, I suddenly received a call from him asking me what was going on. I said it was okay, he said it on WeChat, we started to contact each other again, and we were together again.
Slowly I felt that he was just physically loving me. Maybe he knew me just because of having sex, and he had no feelings for me.
I feel more and more that we are just friends because we don’t contact each other very much, and when we meet, he will contact me. Because I usually have to attend classes, and I have time at night and then I will come out to have dinner at night and then it will be open. Sometimes I don’t go back to school overnight. We have never been shopping, he has never bought me anything, and sometimes I give me money, but I don’t want it, he thinks I’m not short of money. I feel like I'm getting deeper and deeper, what should I do?
or above is a self-reported by netizens. Gufeng suggestion: You are a silly woman. A woman’s love and marriage is the right way. You are getting farther and farther away from the right way. This man is not worthy of your support. Even if he divorces, he is not a good man. You must stop the loss in time and completely cut off contact with him.
As you said, he is physically obsessed with you, and he does not care about you emotionally. You are dispensable in his life. There are more you, not more, less you, not less. He actually distinguished clearly. If you don’t even have a lover like this, you should call it apart.
The enjoyment brought by your extramarital affair is the release of emotions and physiological venting, and you will get a happy mood, but what you lose is the loss of money, time and energy. The spiritual torment that cannot expose your emotions in the sun, and the hard work of hiding lies. Once the fact of extramarital affairs is exposed, there will be only disadvantages, your studies, reputation, etc. will be completely destroyed.
decide to end this improper relationship as soon as possible, and break it thoroughly without leaving any troubles. Don’t meet, block all contact methods, don’t think about being friends. Once two people have sex, it is almost impossible to be friends again. If you are not crueler, you cannot get out of an extramarital affair. If the other party cannot bear to give up and remains enthusiastic, the best way is to be more ruthless, not reply to text messages, refuse to answer phone calls, and not chat on WeChat, so that the other party can cool down.
Most extramarital affairs are caused by loneliness, such as loneliness in emotions and loneliness in the heart. At this time, a opposite sex who can talk and care about people appears. After a long time of love, extramarital affair is inevitable.Therefore, when people are lonely, their emotions will be flooded, and the past will be like a replayed movie. How can you give up? In order to forget this love, you must avoid loneliness and keep yourself busy. There is no time to be lonely and missed. You must focus on your studies and career. You can exercise, read books, communicate more with friends, and relax. In fact, if you leave the small space of extramarital affairs, you will find how vast the outside world is.
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