Will women be moved by other people's stories and want to divorce and redeem others?
The answer is that there is such a woman. Aunt Zhao, 56, once heard a man’s story when she was traveling and felt that this man was the good man she was looking for in this life.
After returning from a foreign trip, Aunt Zhao insisted on divorceing her husband. Not only did she sell the house, but she also told her daughter that she wanted to pursue her dreams and ideal marriage.
However, in less than half a year, Aunt Zhao came back exhausted and haggardly begging her ex-husband to remarry. However, the ex-husband was unwilling to accept Aunt Zhao's request no matter what Aunt Zhao did or said, even if her daughter joined the persuasion team, Aunt Zhao's ex-husband just disagrees with the remarriage.
Let’s see what story Aunt Zhao has heard. What kind of divorce is like without any consequences and then looking back to propose remarriage?
Conveyor: 56-year-old Aunt Zhao
The first half of her life did not get any good from her ex-husband
I am 56 years old this year, and I have been divorced for more than a year, and my only daughter has gotten married and had children.
Originally, I had a family that looked pretty happy, but because of my dissatisfaction and vanity, I not only lost my family, but also my pension. Now I only have a monthly pension in hand. It is impossible for my daughter's house to live for a long time, and my ex-husband will not take me in.
After a woman gets married, she thinks the most about how to make her husband and children listen to her. If they are unwilling to do things according to their wishes, the woman will get angry, complain, and even have the idea of divorce, feeling that she has failed in her life and meet such a man and have such a child.
My first half of my life was in my efforts, and I did not get the understanding and recognition of my ex-husband, nor did I get the affection of my daughter. Now when I think of , it is my own fault most of the time.
What I said most often in the past was: Is there anyone who suffers more than me? I have to go to work every day and do housework when I go home, and no one helps me. I have to serve them every day, and no one feels sorry for me.
And the husband and daughter talk most about it is: Why no one feels sorry for you? I help you with housework every time, but when did you scold me? I have said a long time ago that if you don’t want to do it, you can ignore it, but don’t criticize it every day.
Maybe this is the conversation in most families. is a capable woman who talks a lot, so that her husband and children will have resentment towards women, and even think that women are taking it upon themselves.
A story on a trip, I was moved to go home to divorce
I want to say that I have never thought about divorce in my marriage for so many years. That is fake. What I thought the most before was that after retirement, I must divorce him. It would be great to live alone. I can save myself from serving him all day, but I still can’t lose it.
has thought about it and said it, but I have never been so persistent. It was not until one of my trips after retirement that I met the man with a story.
This man met me in Lijiang. We drank some wine that day and told me the story of him and his deceased wife. He came to Lijiang for a trip to fulfill his deceased wife's wish. He said a lot of good things about his deceased wife, and I think there are such a passionate and dedicated man in the world.
Although I was 54 years old at that time and this man was only in his early 40s, he could not stop my admiration and curiosity for him. We slowly got to know each other during the next few days of travel, and I felt more and more that this man was very valuable.
Sometimes I will unconsciously compare this man with my ex-husband. People should be damned, and people should be thrown away by comparison. We had intimate behavior during the journey. I told him that I would divorce when I went back, and then bought a car with him to "walk around the world", traveling all over the mountains and rivers, and feeling the beauty of life.
After returning from traveling, I went tossing with my ex-husband, looking for various excuses to divorce. No matter how my daughter or relatives persuaded me, I insisted on divorce. We have two houses, and in order to get a divorce as soon as possible, I chose to make concessions and asked for a small house and half of the deposit.
I think I want to spend the rest of my life with that man, what should I do for a house? is worse than selling a house and buying an RV , so wherever we go, we will be our home.
It turns out that which touching story is just a scam, was cheated of feelings and money
When I took my luggage and savings to find the man, we discussed it, bought a RV, and started our "walking around the world".
The warm and romantic travel made me feel the long-lost passion again and taste the warmth of being cared for by men. I think it is really worth living like this in my life. There is a man who cares about me like this and feels sorry for me. He cooks for me, uses me to embrace stories, and watches the sunrise with me.
The warmth that I never enjoyed before has been tasted one by one now. When we went to visit, he paid for most of the expenses, but I paid for this RV.
We followed Qinghai-Tibet Line , along the way, saw all the wonderful scenery, tasted many delicious foods, and enjoyed the most beautiful love in the world. However, fireworks are easy to disperse, and glass is easy to break, and even the best relationships are still cold. .
After we were out for half a year, when we were resting in the middle of the road, I just went there for some convenience. When I came back, I could no longer find him. The RV drove away and the phone was turned off. The most hateful thing was that the money in my mobile banking was also transferred by him.
I woke up then, I was just deceived by this man with a beautiful love story. There was no way, so I called my daughter and asked her to pick me up.
turned to ask for a remarriage to ask for his ex-husband and was rejected. What should I do?
My daughter scolded me for being deceived by the man’s sweet words. My daughter’s words were very ugly, but I could only bear it. After my ex-husband and I divorced, the deposit and the money from selling the house were added up to hundreds of thousands. After buying the RV, I still had more than 400,000 yuan in my mobile banking.
One day, after we arrived at a scenic spot, he went to buy a lot of food and wine. He drank a little too much that day. I also asked him to look at the deposits in my mobile banking and told him, "Sister is rich, don't be afraid of not having a good life in the future."
However, in just a few days, I was left outside by this man. He must have used my cell phone to transfer the money to his account while I was drunk.
Now that people can’t be found, the money can’t be recovered, and a touching story ends like this. The ex-husband said that I am just a woman who thinks about romantic all day long and will eventually be deceived by those who are interested, but I didn’t expect it to be so soon.
I told my ex-husband that I knew I was wrong, asked him to forgive me. After we remarry, I will definitely live with him well and never think about those romantic encounters and those beautiful loves.
But his ex-husband was unwilling to forgive me no matter what he said. He has not found a wife anymore, so why is he unwilling to remarry me? I was shameless and begged my daughter and many relatives to plead with my ex-husband. My ex-husband just refused to forgive me. So what should I do?
My daughter is okay to live at home for a while, but it is definitely not possible to live for a long time. Besides, now my son-in-law always looks like contemptuously when she sees me. I know I am wrong, but I think I will never have the same momentum as before again.
Women, don’t think that your marriage is not good. The truly beautiful and romantic relationships in have to pay a price, especially when people are old, don’t think randomly. Living a down-to-earth life is the right way. Otherwise, if you are deceived and regret it, you will only leave only regrets.
Author: Huagui Zenxin
Follow my words and enter your heart. You have stories, I have tea, let’s talk about the rest of my life together.
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