text | Xianxian
The woman crying in front of me is Li Xia, 23 years old. Although she is not too beautiful, she is not ugly. She is young and unlimited, but she is crying outside, and her parents are also helpless around her, and all this is related to the man Wang Qiang.
Wang Qiang is Li Xia’s husband. Although they have received the marriage certificate, for less than a year, they have known each other for many years. They are both for each other’s first love, especially Li Xia. They have a deep relationship with Wang Qiang and think that Wang Qiang is the most handsome and best man in the world. But even though the two got the marriage certificate, they have not held a banquet until now, which is related to the fact that Li Xia’s parents have been blocking it.
It turns out that Wang Qiang had attacked Li Xia, and this incident was also known to Li Xia's parents, so they have always had prejudice against Wang Qiang. Indeed, whose daughter is a treasure, and she is reluctant to move a finger. Why should she do it as a husband? Therefore, it has always been negative about the two of them holding a wedding.
At the same time, Wang Qiang is also a taciturn person. He does not explain the authenticity of these accusations. It seems that he has made accusations. Even though Li Xia brought a group of people back home and said that Wang Qiang beat someone, or even said that Wang Qiang cheated not long ago, Wang Qiang sat aside and continued to remain silent, as if he was too lazy to explain.
From Wang Qiang's attitude, it can be seen that his relationship with this first love does not seem to be deep. He has been playing computer games since he entered the door. Even though he kept talking about his problems, he just occasionally listened and did not turn off the game. He didn't know what he was thinking.
must also tie the bell if you can untie the bell, and Wang Qiang finally explained the matter. It is true that getting married requires a wedding banquet, and Wang Qiang’s parents’ family has been urging the two families to do it, but the in-laws discussed it four or five times without any explanation, which made Wang Qiang’s parents very angry. Since the other party was so unwilling, there was no need for this marriage. Instead, they persuaded Wang Qiang to sue for divorce.
But Wang Qiang refused at this time. In fact, he still had feelings for Li Xia and did not want to embark on the road of divorce. So after that, he communicated with Li Xia well. Li Xia also said that she did not want to divorce and seemed to have reconciled.
However, this time the divorce incident became a thorn in Li Xia's heart. She longed for her husband to have it completely. However, she once filed for divorce, so has he already had other thoughts in his heart and cheated on him? So he suspected that he even installed positioning in Wang Qiang's mobile phone, and installed surveillance at his doorstep while Wang Qiang was not paying attention.
These things were only known after Wang Qiang, so he had a big fight with Li Xia not long ago. His original intention was to let his wife not think about it. However, the counterproductive thing was that Li Xia actually regarded this quarrel as Wang Qiang's guilt, so she became more convinced that he had cheated, which made Wang Qiang drive her out.
"She kept saying that I hit her, and she thought about the injury on her knee a few days ago. At that time, the police came to identify it. Her knee was an injury from a long time ago and was not a blow at all. I don't need to say more about what the truth is. She just deliberately asked me for trouble."
Wang Qiang said that he also understood that Li Xia cared about herself in her heart, but her almost perverted desire to control made him feel suffocated and felt that marriage could not see the future. After
, Li Xia returned to her parents' home. Seeing her daughter coming back, Li Xia's parents looked down on Wang Qiang even more. Wang Qiang had almost no contact with Li Xia's parents in recent years, and he almost ignored it. This gradually disappeared from the initial feeling of Wang Qiang, especially after Wang Qiang beat him, he didn't like Wang Qiang and hoped that his daughter could divorce him.
At this time, Wang Qiang also came to his parents-in-law's house and remained silent about their accusations, giving people a look that seemed to be indifferent, which also angered Li Xia's parents even more.
In the end, Wang Qiang expressed his opinion that he hoped to divorce Li Xia. Li Xia's parents agreed, but when it was Li Xia's turn to make a statement, she kept crying but couldn't say anything at all. Mianlian Tears seemed to have endured all the grievances in the world: "I think I am just trash. Every time I was deceived by Wang Qiang, I didn't win face for my father at all."
Although she said that, Li Xia still couldn't make up her mind to divorce and kept crying. While saying that Wang Qiang was not good to her, she still liked him. He was so handsome. Even Wang Qiang herself felt helpless when she heard this: "She said that I beat her and scold her every day, and she was still willing to be with me. Do you think there is such a woman in the world? "Li Xia said voluntarily: "Yes! "
Seeing Li Xia feel so sad, Li Xia's parents finally compromised and agreed to not divorce, then hold a wedding, and live a good life afterwards. With the recognition of their parents, Li Xia came to Wang Qiang again and explained her parents' ideas to him. At the same time, she also said one thing, that is, Li Xia is pregnant.
knows this information. Although Wang Qiang was not too surprised, the flashing expression in his eyes also represents the flow of his feelings. In the end, he couldn't help but apologize to Li Xia first, saying that he would take the initiative in the future and treat her and the children in his belly better.
Hearing these words, Li Xia finally smiled on her face, and said that she would not feel so insecure. Will learn to control.
In fact, it can be seen that Wang Qiang and Li Xia have no essential problems. Even the "beating" and "infidelity" mentioned by Li Xia are just her monologue from beginning to end, without any evidence. At the same time, Wang Qiang always treats Li Xia with a negative attitude. This makes a conflict between the couple, and gradually arises irreconcilable conflicts.
Li Xia is not a real mother's baby girl. She also has her own persistence. The relationship for Wang Qiang may start with her appearance, but she finally feels in love. Especially after getting pregnant, she seems to be under tremendous pressure in her heart, but the problem is that she does not It made Wang Qiang look puzzled, making people around him not understand her, and even think that she has a disease in his heart.
Indeed, once a woman becomes pregnant, both her body and her mentality will undergo huge changes, especially her mentality, which has a huge sense of distrust for her husband, which becomes self-denial. Although she may also know that this is wrong, she cannot change it and cannot control herself from thinking about it. This unsafe and uncertain mentality will really affect the direction of marriage.
However, this problem has never been a person. If Li Xia has a problem, she actually didn't tell Wang Qiang at the first time. It can be seen that although Wang Qiang is childish, she does not lack a sense of responsibility. He still loves Li Xia, but is just tolerant and low-key. What he needs to change now is the clarity of love and the initiative of love.
I have been able to cross the same boat for ten years and sleep together for a hundred years. It is a great fate for men and women to become husband and wife. It is really a good fate. As a man, we should also think about our wife from a female perspective, so that the marriage will go smoothly and long-term, and also allow our wife to pass through the happy and hard years of pregnancy.
I have seen many pregnant women with postpartum depression , which can actually be avoided. This is also the responsibility of being a husband. It is more caring and caring, understanding and considering. It is not easy for a woman to have a life, and having a child is even more passing by the gates of hell. As a man, you must be responsible.
Life has not started again, missing it is a lifetime. If you love it, love it well. A couple will be kind to a hundred days, and this is eternal happiness. Marriage is not easy, cherish it whenever you want!
