There is a transnational couple living in China for many years, but since they got married, there have been various discussions around them.
is just because the husband of this couple has an extraordinary identity: he is the younger brother of the president of the United States.
However, despite constant discussion, when they meet true love, they will pursue their lover without hesitation. Destiny makes them meet each other, which has become a relationship made by heaven.
It is really not easy for these two people to be together. They used their love and love to write a perfect love story.
Like-minded two people get to know each other and fall in love. It also makes people see the happiness in cross-border marriage.
Their transnational marriage has also attracted a lot of attention. How did this marriage begin? What is the process of this transnational love?
Mark's family
The story begins with the former US President Obama .
As a black man, he was able to make a fortune in the political circle of the United States, making many people in the United States proud of him.
Many people have a very good evaluation of him. In contrast to such a great halo, some people may not know his younger brother, and his name is "Mark".
and Obama have completely different skin tone. Mark is a white man. When he sees the two standing together, he rarely thinks about their blood relationship, but as long as he shaves his beard, the two still have a very similar appearance.
So Mark is not easy to get rid of his elder brother's influence. Every time Mark is mentioned, he will easily be called "Obama's brother".
The younger brother Marco and his brother have the same father and different mothers, and their father has huge shortcomings of violent tendencies.
When Obama was young, his father was a typical alcoholic. Whenever he came home from drinking, he would beat his mother, or even beat young children.
Obama's childhood was spent in such gray memories, which also led to more and more conflicts between the two people. His mother could not bear this long-term violence and could no longer live together.
This led to Obama's mother's decision to divorce so that she and her children could get rid of the pain of being abused.
Obama was raised by his mother after divorce and rarely met his father since then. After the life situation stabilized, the mother left the United States with her children, while his father lived with another white woman.
The father had no good impression of Obama. The father's second marriage partner was Mark's mother, and they gave birth to Mark after marriage.
Although Obama's father has been married again, his relationship with his wife is not harmonious.
He did not change his bad habits because of his last marriage. He became more addicted to drinking and abuse of his wife, which made his wife very painful.
, and Mark and his mother also lived the same life, and were tortured to death by their father's alcoholism and domestic violence since childhood.
The two have similar experiences of being abused by their father, so they hate their father deeply, but the two brothers never had a chance to meet.
Mark was beaten and abused by his father since childhood and went through many hardships, which had a great impact on his life.
In this environment, Mark also has his own charm. Although he is not as dazzling as his brother, he also performed well in life and study. In the end, he was admitted to Brown and Stanford with his ability.
Later, due to an accident, his father died. In a sense, Mark was liberated and his life came out of the nightmare.
Although he has never had peace and rest, the one who died was his father after all. After losing him, Mark was also full of confusion.
After his father passed away, Mark found his brother by chance, which was also the first time the two met.
When they met, the wonderful blood relationship between them was natural, and the psychological distance between them was closer.
In Mark's mind, the elder brother has dark skin, huge hands and thick black hair, and his big and deep eyes are full of enthusiasm.
Mark admires this outstanding brother very much and regards him as a role model worth learning from.
Obama gave him a big hug when he saw his younger brother. Then, they talked about many things, and the two were very close.
Obama found that his younger brother was very capable, so he arranged a suitable job for him. Mark worked diligently when he was working, and his life gradually improved.
is now his most important stage, and he is also moving towards his goals and working hard for his dreams.
Later, the financial crisis broke out, and Mark soon lost his job , but after troubled his brother once, he no longer wanted to bother his brother.
He knew that his brother had a lot of business to deal with and did not want to add any burden to him.
When he lost his job, Mark also began to think about the direction of the future.
decided to come to China
He liked Chinese traditions. During this period, he carefully read Chinese classics, drew circles and circles in the book, and memorized many things.
After a deep understanding of China's culture, including Tang poetry and calligraphy, I was full of yearning for this mysterious world for a while.
Mark also hopes to do a career in a bigger place. He decided to take this opportunity to learn to be independent, so after leaving a letter to his family, Mark decided to leave the United States.
He had the idea of going to China to realize his dream and develop his career.
Because China has suffered little impact in this financial crisis and its culture is very attractive, so in 2002, we went to Shenzhen, China to look for development opportunities.
In March of that year, he participated in a Sino-US cultural exchange group, and also appreciated the vastness of China and the friendship of the Chinese people from it, and found a suitable direction for development.
Mark is determined to continue to stay in Shenzhen, China and strive to start a new career. Since then, Mark has worked as a foreign teacher at a foreign language college in Shenzhen and has been working in China since then.
During this period, he felt that food, clothing, housing and transportation were very convenient. In his spare time, he would also follow the Chinese to learn Chinese traditions, practice Chinese, Chinese characters, and experience tea ceremony.
Over time, he accumulated a lot of literary knowledge and gradually adapted to life in China.
Meet your lover in love and get married
Working abroad is not easy, but Mark keeps working hard, Later, because he likes to experience tea ceremony, he met the Chinese girl Xuehua in a teahouse in a teahouse.
This girl also came here to work because of her obsession with tea ceremony.
The girl is from Henan. She is introverted and gentle, meticulous and patient. When she encounters a language barrier, she will take the initiative to help and teach him Chinese patiently.
The two had a very happy chat. The girl's voice was very sweet, giving people a very friendly feeling. When they first met, they left a good impression. They would chat a few times when they met.
He unconsciously developed a good impression of her. Every time he met, the relationship between the two would deepen a little. Unconsciously, Mark began to chase the Chinese girl he liked.
After Marco's continuous efforts, he gradually moved Xuehua. The two confirmed their relationship and got along very well.
Due to the love of Chinese civilization, the two of them often gather together to study Chinese civilization together. They found a common hobby here, and this hobby will also deepen their emotions.
At first, Xuehua could not completely believe in her relationship with Mark, but as the two got along, Xuehua felt that he was sincere and slowly accepted him.
After continuous interaction, the two have become more and more intimate.
Because of Xuehua, Mark fell in love with life in China and also worked hard to learn Chinese.
Gradually, after dating for a period of time, they soon encountered unexpected friction, which traumatized their love dreams.
Both of them are at the age of getting married. They plan to discuss with their parents. The problem facing Mark is that he must get the approval of the woman's parents.
Because of the different cultures of the two, Mark's proposal was not very successful, and transnational romances are always full of unknowns.
Xuehua decided to bring her lover to her parents. The two elders were surprised to see the lovers brought back by their daughter.
At this time, they didn't know how to deal with this African son-in-law. They always felt that transnational was not reliable and could not support this relationship.
Moreover, in terms of economic conditions, her family is not well off. Her parents value being a good match. is worried that she will be bullied in the future, so she wants her to marry a suitable family .
The relationship between the two is very good. Even under the strong protest of her parents, she still made her decision firmly.
Xuehua decided to talk to her father and expressed her attitude.
Although everyone was resisting it vigorously, they could not defeat the person who truly loved each other and did not abandon each other because of this. Finally, they convinced their parents and the two entered the palace of marriage. Under the arrangement of fate, everything was natural. In 2008 when Obama was elected as the president of the United States, Mark and Xuehua also got married, and their relationship was very stable.
From then on, Mark took on the responsibility of the family. He vowed to be a unique person, not to let his children suffer abuse and repeat his childhood.
The marriage between him and Xuehua was initially caused a lot of conflicts due to different social backgrounds, but they were always able to handle the problem very well.
No matter what difficulties and obstacles are in front, they will overcome many obstacles, finally embrace each other, and form a happy couple.
Now he is a qualified good husband. After getting married, Xuehua's parents gradually changed their impression of this foreigner in their interactions with Mark, and they also love this honest and good man more and more.
After getting married, their love and progress proved that their decision was correct. Mark was willing to take root in China. Xuehua's parents were also very happy and came to visit their daughter when they had time.
On the other hand, Mark never told others about his brother's identity, and he was very humble.
After Obama visited China in 2009, relevant institutions have prepared opportunities for the two brothers to meet.
Mark met his brother whom he hadn't seen for a long time at Beijing Hotel , and hugged him tightly, celebrating their reunion while chatting about their recent situation.
Both of them were very excited. Xuehua, who came together, was very surprised to know the relationship between them.
But Mark seemed very calm. To him, his brother's identity was also his job, no different from other industries.
He is also optimistic and can find his own shining points, not as dazzling as his elder brother, but Mark's experience is also unique.
Life in China
Mark, who settled in China, has the company of his wife and maintains his love for Chinese culture. He learns Chinese hard and with his diligence and his wife's support, his Chinese level has reached a higher level. Mark has been struggling for the trivial matters of his family for the first half of his life. He is an American and grew up in Kenya, Africa. After suffering hardships, he finally got to where he is today.
I am very glad that Mark has a new life in China, found a job he loves, and has a life goal in China that can be with him for the rest of his life.
His own efforts have paid off. Now Mark has mastered a good handwriting, and he and his wife have also opened a company in partnership, hoping to earn more savings so that the family can live a better life.
Mark also said that he is not a romantic person, but he will do his best for his family, and he also wants to prepare for his wife and children in the future.
During this period, they founded a corporate consulting company, and Mark also engaged in music career. In their spare time, they often participated in various charity in the name of the company and contributed to society.
For Mark, China is another home, He is very grateful to China for letting him know his wife and giving his career a direction for development.
Love this kind of thing, and it cannot be described as money. People who truly love each other can understand what they are thinking, and that's how Mark and this Chinese girl are.
The generous and kind Xuehua did not find the wrong person. Mark was not only very enterprising, but also very considerate to her. He often competed with her to do housework. Xuehua would also teach him the Chinese culture he was interested in.
Mark is also somewhat related to China. Some foreigners find it difficult to learn Chinese, thinking that this is the most difficult foreign language in the world.
This is not a difficult task for Mark. Mark spent more than a year learning the basics of Chinese .
In terms of eating, Mark likes Chinese roasted potatoes and roasted tofu . Although he is a vegetarian, he lives a good life in China and enjoys the happiness of food, rice, oil and salt with his wife.
He also loves " Dream of Red Mansions " and Tang poetry very much. From these works, he can learn about China's history. He named himself "Di Shanjiu" . When he has time, he also shares his life in China with his brother far away in another country.
Xuehua is a gentle and cute girl, while Mark is a down-to-earth man. Both of them have their own advantages. If the boundaries of the country are not considered, they are very compatible.
Xuehua and Mark may seem out of place at first glance, but in the opinion of everyone, they overcome various difficulties brought by different races, different cultures, and different languages.
As time goes by, the relationship between the two has become more harmonious through constant tempering. Love complements each other, so when they are together, they are destined to have a happy ending.
Love is always wonderful, it can make two strangers fall in love with each other at first sight and support each other.
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text | Xiong Changlin
edit | Zhang Ah Zhang
edit | A Yan
