Life is like a book, and the contents need to be written by yourself. The meaning of life is to make the content of the book wonderful as much as possible; there are no shortage of smart people around us. I wonder if you have noticed a common phenomenon in your daily life, that is, these smart people with very smart bodies. Not only do you feel that they are smart, but many others also say that this person is smart, but these smart people fail in everything they do. Not only do they not make a fortune, they also live at the bottom of society. These smart people live as well as ordinary people. Why is this? Perhaps, everyone has had this question: "How do the gap between people widen?" In fact, after careful observation, you will find that excellent people have a high starting point and most of them have received good education. They have worked hard and self-disciplined since childhood, developed many good habits, and gradually left others behind. This is the "platform" and the educational environment and family environment since childhood. Cha Hall said: "What kind of thoughts are there, what kind of behaviors are there; what kind of behaviors are there, what kind of habits are there; what kind of habits are there, what kind of character is there, what kind of destiny is there." Therefore, a person's birth determines his knowledge and vision; without a good family environment, there is no possibility of a good educational environment, and it is difficult to integrate into a good platform.
There is no good family environment. Since childhood, parents at home have worked hard for survival. This person cannot be regulated by someone. Over time, this person has low self-responsibility and bad habits will come to him. Develop a selfish and greedy personality. Even if you have already had a lot of happiness, you will still feel that you are not happy enough. In life, those who do not know how to be content have too much interest in gains and losses, which are easily controlled by desires and cannot support the situation. Such people have no popularity and lack a "platform". In the end, greed will result in being empty-handed.
1. The environment determines your vision
The living environment determines who you interact with and determines your vision and cultivation. Everyone is most familiar with the story of Meng Mu’s three migrations, which tells us that the impact of the environment on a person is crucial.
People live a life away from the living environment and survive and grow in the environment. The environment can change a person, or even determine a person's destiny. Once, I remember a senior once said: "If you become a dog, you must be in a big city, where you can get more bones." The words are rough and not rough. Why do you say this? Because there are more rich people in big cities than in rural areas, and more people eat meat, and dogs have more opportunities to get bones. So, hasn't there been a group of "Beijing drifters" and "South drifters" in today's society? In the long years, everyone needs to grow and maintain independence.
A person's growth is really inseparable from the environment. A famous official in the late Qing Dynasty, Zeng Guofan, , failed six times, became a scholar for the seventh time, and later entered , Hanlin Academy, . The hard work along the way and the joy along the way inevitably made him feel elated. Fortunately, the Hanlin Academy where Zeng Guofan is located is the people here who are strict with themselves, treat others sincerely and seriously, and are full of faith and firmness. There is a saying that when you are with excellent people, you will become better. When you are with mediocre people, you may become more mediocre, which is what people often say, "Those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black." Zeng Guofan is in these excellent people and is deeply infected by them. From then on, we set the goal of being a person and doing things, insist on implementing it, and eventually became a modern Chinese strategist, politician, writer, and the founder and commander of Hunan Army . We are also a saint in the hearts of many modern people. It can be seen that the environment is very important to a person's growth and also determines a person's life direction.
There is an ancient saying: "Those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black.Who are you with is very important. I once heard a story like this. There was a village where there was a small temple in the village where a monk lived. He got up early to recite scriptures every day. Later, a butcher moved to his temple. The two of them started to live. After a while, the two became friends. The butcher was a little lazy by nature, often overslept, and his business became worse and worse. So his good friend, the monk, couldn't stand it and asked him to get up and kill pigs every morning. Later, after the two passed away, they came to the Hall of Hell. King of Hell. sentenced the butcher to be reborn as a human being, and the monk was a pig. When the monk heard the verdict, he said, "I eat vegetarian food every day, why are there any sins? He killed animals every day, why did he do it the opposite?" The King of Hell said, "You ask him to get up early every day to kill pigs. Because you have killed many lives, all the sins are yours. Through this story, we can tell us that after you determine your life goals, it is very important to choose an environment where you develop. The environment includes the human environment, geographical environment, and learning environment. Only by choosing a good environment that suits you can you have the life you want, and even change the trajectory of your life. The power of habits cannot be underestimated; good habits are the ladder to move forward. In the days ahead, change yourself, face life, embrace yourself with a better self, and on the road of life, encourage yourself to grow up and learn to change your bad habits, which will make yourself better and better.
Watson said: "The higher the degree of change in the environment, the higher the degree of change in personality." The environment can not only change a person, but also make a person. I hope that after we determine our life goals, we will pay attention to ourselves, plan our lives, find a positive environment, change, grow, and achieve our careers in a positive environment.
2. The platform determines your height. What is the platform? platform determines the height. If you want to understand this sentence, please read the following story. In the system, there is a famous saying that the platform determines the height. In layman's terms, how big a leader you can be is determined by the platform you are in; there is another saying that the platform is actually a "circle". In ancient times, in order to check and balance the bureaucratic system, bureaucrats have established some "circles" for self-protection or development. If you are in a county-level unit within the current system, it is difficult to sit in the position of Zhengke , but if you are in a provincial-level unit, then department-level leaders are very simple for you. When I was reading , I read a saying that for most people in the workplace, the company is a platform that occupies most of your time and energy, and the impact is extremely critical, so the platform determines your height.
Of course, when choosing a platform, we should pay special attention. First of all, we must have a platform awareness and integrate into the platforms we recognize. For example, if there will be a better platform in this organization, and a better platform means potentially better connections, resources, energy fields, etc. At the same time, people often say, "Select more important than doing." If you choose the platform wrongly, you will go against your wishes and go in the opposite direction.
Through so many years of founding the country, our country has embarked on a brilliant path of development; after the reform and opening up, many people realized the importance of the platform. Some of the bosses around me have a stronger awareness. For example, many people spend tens of thousands to learn speeches from various elite bosses. The news also reported that they spent a lot of money to attend the boss’ dinner party, some spent MBA exams, and most of them were for the platform. You say that ordinary junior high school students, some even elementary school students, can learn what they can learn, and go to the people on the platform. Connections determine the circle, and circle determine the platform.
When choosing a workplace platform, you must restrain yourself and choose a platform that suits you. If you don’t have that energy, don’t integrate into it. Why can’t the platform be too big? If you are too big, you may not be able to become a key role, "I would rather be a chicken head than a phoenix tail." As for how big it is, it really depends on the actual situation, and it is not easy to quantify based on the number of people and revenue. It’s not too big, it’s more appropriate to have development prospects and growth space. Respect your own strengths so that you can achieve results easily.When choosing this platform company, I repeatedly emphasize one point of view. For companies with small scale, whether the platform is good or not, we can see the boss or boss's pattern, mind, and resources behind him. If an industry with a very good prospect but the boss's pattern is too low, it is not our best choice.
In this life, people need to rely on their own hands to get everything they want. Because if you don’t grow up, have a strong heart, and have rich experience, you can’t let yourself survive the tests in life. The relationship between people is actually very realistic. When a person has no value of interest, it is difficult for him to be treated well all the time. People who rely too much on others will not live a good life. Reliance will make a person weaker and weaker. When the storm hits, he is easily injured and can easily become depressed. If you want to make your life better and better, you must make yourself stronger. When you become stronger, you will naturally gather around you and create a platform, "Rely on your parents at home and rely on your friends when you go out". As long as a few brothers and colleagues are united, it is a platform for common struggle. Don't always expect the platform to save you. If you take a step forward, you can also form a platform, make good choices, be optimistic about your goals, and move forward boldly. "Don't accumulate little steps, even a thousand miles." As long as you have set sail, the goal will always be achieved.
Smart people are usually wise and stupid, they all look stupid and persistent. A person's intelligence must be used in the right place. We were born ordinary and did not have a good living environment. However, we must work hard to adapt to society and the environment. Without a good environment, we will try every means to create the environment. Without a platform, I create the platform myself, and I will be like-minded brothers. As long as there are good projects and good opportunities, everyone will work together to build a good platform and achieve their own life! The harder you work in life, you can keep surpassing yourself; the harder you work, you have the opportunity to seize opportunities; the harder you work, you can realize your ideal life.
In this life, people need to rely on their own hands to get everything they want. On the way forward, you will inevitably encounter difficulties. The best way to diversify risks is to improve your ability to resist risks. At the same time, continue to learn. Newton once said, "My success is standing on the shoulders of giants." The success of life is the integration of various comprehensive funds. Then, if you don’t put resources in the same basket, your sense of security and confidence come from your own strength; only the stronger your strength is, the luckier you are. The world is full of noise and hustle and bustle, and the cause and effect cycle is either grasping your environment and resources; drifting with the flow. On the way forward, you will inevitably encounter difficulties. The best way to diversify risks is to improve your ability to resist risks and grasp the platform resources around you; your sense of security and confidence all come from the strength of the platform behind you. Only the stronger the platform of your own strength is, the luckier it is. The world is full of noise and hustle and bustle, and the cycle of cause and effect can either control your life or accept the arrangement of fate.
