Lianlian left me a message on Weibo, saying that when she was twelve years old, she saw the stewardess selection competition on TV and dreamed of being a stewardess in the future. Helplessly, her family is poor, and she suffered a lot in order to become a flight attendant. Lianlian once saved money to go to the flight attendant training class, but later left it alone because the training class went bankrupt. She struggled for more than ten years. Now she is twenty-five years old, and her dream still has no possibility of realization. Lianlian feels that as she gets older, her dreams are getting farther and farther away. Along the way, she has left nothing but sighs.
is like being led by something. You are like a helpless child. After walking with it for a long time, you realize that this thing does not belong to you. Or it’s like you fall in love with someone and end up missing out, you live another life, and you don’t know if the love you once persistent is important.
At the end of the day, she kept emphasizing that she was thinking about something, which is the meaning of having such a dream? What is the meaning of her persistence over the years? Her thinking is actually my confusion.
I once watched a street interview on a show, and it asked those passers-by in a hurry, do you have a dream? What is your dream? There is also a host who likes to ask the contestants who come to participate, please boldly tell everyone your dreams, okay?
Really, dreams seem to have lost their mystery, or a word that has been badly spoken by people. Until people distort it, some have long forgotten it, some feel that it has no need for it to exist, some are ashamed to say it, and some think that everything is not against the will of God. In short, if you talk about your dreams in front of others, do you really dare to make your heart public?
Once, my friends took me to ice skate. I saw an old man with gray hair also stroking and learning. I watched him stand up hard, trying hard to find balance, falling to the ground from time to time, and getting up again. I thought he would give up because of a fall, and be troubled by not finding a balance point. Unexpectedly, he kept standing hard, falling, and skating again...
Later I learned that his grandson loved ice skating and had dreamed of being an figure skating athlete. He felt that the sport was too dangerous and kept obstructing it, so his grandson had to sneak out. Until the accident happened that day, he lost his grandson forever, and every time sadness hit him, he could not control himself.
One day, he suddenly thought of his grandson's dream and came to the ice rink alone, slipping around and around. What he could not compensate for his grandson was left in the regret of falling again and again. Perhaps the way he misses a person is to continue his dreams and find a voice that resonates with him in his dreams. I believe that he will find a balance in the ice rink, and at that moment, he will eventually be relieved and will finally understand his grandson's persistence. This is actually the meaning of dreams. It can make people remember you, miss you, pursue your steps, and gain an understanding beyond time and space.
also watched an episode of the show, four 58-year-old women danced ballet together. Judging from their backs, they were still tall and young, like four elegant professional dancers, stretching freely on the stage, and they could not tell their actual age at all.
They said that for this performance, a dream, everyone broke more than 20 pairs of dancing shoes. Before, relatives or friends did not understand and even laughed at them, thinking that their dreams were too ridiculous, but they were still persistent: "We just want to challenge the most difficult dance type and let everyone know that ballet is not only professional dancers, nor is it exclusive to young people. As long as we are willing to dance, no matter how long or how late it is, it can be done." Because of the dream of ballet, they no longer have the loss after retirement, no longer worry about trivial matters, and are naturally young and powerful.
When you are truly walking on the road to realizing your dreams, you will find that your heart is as calm as a lake. You swim in it, free and comfortable. You will no longer fantasize. You just wave your arms vigorously and enjoy the feeling of swimming in the lake every second. Thank you for your dreams, allowing you to step out of your former self bit by bit. Everyone needs transformation. It is those transformations that make your life interesting and directional, and this is the luck that others dream of but cannot get, right?
is like the heroine Esperanza in " Mango Street Cabin ". She has had a dream since she was a child, wanting to walk out of the poor street that can only be completed in a few minutes, but no one cares about her dreams, and no one understands her. Therefore, she could only move forward alone, with a child's little dream. It was not until one day when she realized her dream that she realized that dreams were not important. What was important was that her life became rich and interesting due to the traction of her dreams. All the sufferings seemed to her as ladders.
Esperanza said: "I ran away just to come back, to see the streets of the past, myself in the past, and for those who cannot escape." And this is the whole meaning of dreams, right?
You in any corner of the world, you cry or lose at night, you work hard during the day, even if the road ahead is swaying, I hope the sunshine in your heart is bright enough.
Author: Weina
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