A few days ago, I saw such a content on Weibo. A girl was heartbroken and couldn't get out for a long time. In the end, the girl chose to keep her, but the girl's retention was not exchanged for anything. The result was indeed a man's ruthlessness.
In order to please this man, the girl would wait for him at the man’s place of get off work every day, so that the man could change his mind, but in the end, the man chose a new love and even ignored her love.
In fact, there are too many such women in real life. In real life, why are some women’s compromises not loved by a man? In fact, the answer is very simple, because the more humble you are, the less likely you are to be cherished by a man in a relationship.
In real life, men will only become addicted to this kind of woman because such a woman can give him this feeling.
Those women who can really make men addicted are never those humble and pleasing girls. Only a woman with truly high emotional intelligence can make men feel fresh forever. Because such a woman can often give a man the following feelings.
01.
Conquest:
In fact, a man pursues a woman, just like a game level, if the game is very good, then the man will lose some desire to conquer. After trying for a few days, he will no longer be willing to keep it. However, if this game is very attractive, it will also give the man more durability.
Because in a relationship, what a man cares most about is just to be flirting with the old and old. As long as you can make a man have more desire to conquer you, then your relationship will basically be fine, so that you can truly grasp a man.
When a man has a desire to conquer you, it is difficult for a man to leave you. As a woman, in a relationship, don’t make excessive efforts, because the choice of a man will never be the girl who gives more, because their curiosity will allow them to understand another girl.
For a man, a girl who pays too much is just a taste of something, not a necessity. If a woman is more interesting than you, the man will definitely choose to give up on you.
02.
has its own bottom line:
As a woman, if you really want to take a man, then you should not be too nice to this man, because only a woman with a bottom line will be appreciated by a man, because for men, the one they can fall in love with is never the one who can truly treat them well.
In the world of love, no matter how outstanding a woman is, as long as she gives too much for a man in a relationship, she will not be cherished by this man.
Because in a relationship, what a man actually needs is not how good you are to him. The reason why he chooses to care about you is that he desires to satisfy his desire to conquer. If you are just a woman, how can a man still have a sense of existence?
If you are too nice to a man in a relationship, you will not be valued, because a man is a hunter in a relationship. A woman must learn to change her thinking in order to be loved by a man. A woman with a bottom line will not be controlled by a man at will, and then she will be conquered by a man.
The better a man of yours, he will ignore you. The more you ignore a man, the more the man will love you. Therefore, if you want to conquer a man, the more you will love yourself. When a man invests more and more in you, your value in the eyes of this man will become higher and higher.
Don’t show your thoughts in front of a man. Learn to leave some bottom line for a man, so that a man will love you more.
03.
Understand gentleness:
The most powerful woman is a sweet-mouthed and soft-hearted woman. Only in front of men can such a woman be at ease. Gentleness is a sharp sword. She can truly touch a man's heart. A woman who knows gentleness can bring more tenderness to men. Only in a relationship can such a woman gain more happiness and keep a man more tenderness.
In love, as a woman, you must learn to think about problems from a man’s perspective. If you want a man to continue to love you, you must understand how to catch a man.
If you want to make a man happy, you act spoiled. In other times, you can be yourself so that you can leave a certain amount of space for each other. Just say whatever you want and don’t tell me to talk too much, so that a relationship will become less depressed.
When a woman loves a man, she must learn to put herself first. Only in this way can a man’s love for you become more persistent and stable. A truly happy life is actually achieved through self-fighting. A smart woman will not live just for a man.
