If you have a daughter in your family, be sure to pay attention:
First, please train your daughter to listen to the sudden feeling since childhood, so that he can understand that most of the nice sweet words in men’s mouths are lies, because women are born to be auditory animals and are easily deceived by nice words.
So from an early age, you should educate your children not to just listen to what they say. You must use your eyes to see the other party’s actual actions, use your brain to analyze the other party’s true purpose, and develop the ability to think independently so that you can avoid being led by others.
Second, you must tell him that happiness in love does not mean happiness in marriage. Happiness in love is the role of temporary freshness, and happiness in marriage depends on the role of one's own strength. No one can truly rely on. Only her own strength is her ultimate support.
The third point is to tell him that his youth is precious and he is not sure. Never get married and have children easily, because this is related to his major happy choice in his life. If you feel something is wrong with this man, or he cares about him or doesn’t care enough, don’t. When you are in love, you need to say that the man you revolve around every day is hot and cold at any time, and then you will definitely suffer after marriage, because there are problems when you are in love, so the problem will be magnified more than ten times after marriage. Whether before or after marriage, if you find that the other person is a scumbag, you must have the courage and determination to cut off your arm. You must not be tolerant or tolerant, because this will only make the other person even worse, and stop loss in time is the most correct choice.
The fourth is that since childhood, he must learn a skill that can support himself. It’s good to be professional, so that he won’t rely on others under any circumstances. Never do not, never spoil it. raise children in poverty and raise daughters in poverty and . These great principles are wrong. That is, whether it is a son or daughter, remember it, you must raise them in poverty. It is not a joke. You should use frustration-style education to let your children experience difficulties and hardships from an early age. What kind of competitive pressure will they face when they grow up and what way you use to treat him at home. You must be cruel. The more smooth your life is, the more difficult it will be when you grow up, and if you are right. The better he is, the worse his life will be to him in the future. Please remember to avoid detours on the road of education.
